Me" I really think hes wrong." Him"the discussions are mostly trash,useless jun

You have left a glorious trail of purple petals on many pages which no-one will ever forget or ever wish to remove

What a sweet thing to say, and now I am the one to blush and be speechless.

I also would like to leave a mark before I stop coming here, although I do not have any plans on leaving this place any time soon. However, I would like it to be a positive mark, and I would like to be fondly remembered by my friends rather than to be remembered for having a temper tantrum and offending a bunch of people as I make my exit.

oh my reallysuny so Inu upset this angry user as he was looking for that superduper discussion from her, well too bad he will just have to join another forum and find another lady with a dog' and get her to post that great discussion. shame inu you really left the poor user high and dry lol lol just teasing so dont get all upset heh.

hi inu and Suny peace there, friends after all. today is cold and cloudy and no sunshine any where. this is supposed to be sunny Southern California. Inu I like your discussions myself.

I think I didn't spend enough time here to be up to date with what happened. I don't know who is this guy who left myLot so unhappy but I am sure nobody would have been happier if I had started more discussions. You, all, know my kind of discussions. So, Suny, are you officially posting a complain about my activity here?

That's ok Hatley, I don't need a name, and the worse that can happen to what you replied is they delete it, but at least you spoke your mind about it and maybe he will leave.. @inu, yep, the kindergarten and zoo trip, well I don't care, I remember kindergarten, it was fun, as well as the zoo trips, and sometimes mylot feels like that, the fun, and the innocence, and just plain light hearted-humor that gets me through the day sometimes.. If some old-timers feel that way, oh well, they can leave and make room for those who enjoy this site and for the newbys...

hi carm I cannot give his name but he's older and most of the time he just responds and sometimes quite sarcastically,not like Ppe but really mean. He just thinks there are only a few good mylotters like himself. Oh he said he is leav ing, something about hanging his harp upon a weeping willow tree. I added if we are so terrible and you do not make discussions to show us how to make good ones, then leave already.lol hope I did not get in trouble.lol.

My mind went to the same person when I saw this discussion, Carmela. But it seems there are more old users that see myLot as a kindergarten and zoo. Why do you think you can get in trouble with this, Hatley?

hi dragnon54u I had the same type of thing on a diabetic forum that had no admins.so one creep was on there and he maybe was a doctor but it was proved he was not a cardiac speciaslist. but he swore that all us diabetics had displeased God so thats'why we were diabetics. he went on an on and even made a list of us he was going to condemn to Satan, After that i just left as I had come there to share with fellow diabetics not to be 'preached at. I am going to ignore those who have to run down 'my lot in order to announce they are leaving.

hi lily;loretta I believe in one God and hes not mean but loving so I thinkt the crazy doctor was really insane. He had had several run ins with the Medical society.

Well it is that person's loss, isn't it. Plus how can he judge other MyLotter's from only a graphic and not knowing or getting to know the person. You can tell alot by a person just by the way they comment to a discussion. Well he is gone now, so no need to be upset anymore over it. You need to keep your blood sugar down. Have a wonderful evening. Hugs

hi marylynn yes it really is and sad he doesn't realize it. yes no need to stress as it does just raise my blood sugar.

Hi Hatley, Maybe someday he will realize he misses comment on his friends discussions, one just never knows. Yes, please take care of yourself. Hugs

We can discuss serious topics here, and many of us do. We also have fun here, and there is nothing wrong with that at all.

hi allknowing and GG yes I believe theres a lot of difference as serious can still leave you happy while heavy topics can really at times for me anyway depress the hell out of me. I like to respond to discussions say about wildlife in some areas of the world becoming almost extinct but discussions on President OBama and all the political stuff get me down and depressed. there is nothing I can do about the political problems and stressing over political stuff just shoots my blood sugar u p too high.As an American of course I get concerned but s o much of what is said here is biased and I do not involve myself with political discussions at all. for one thing if you dare have an opinion that disagrees with the discussion poster you will get really insulted. they do not seem to care that their comments cou ld get deleted for being so insulting.

Just a clarification GG - there is a difference between serious and heavy topics.

Hi Hatley, I have noticed that a lot of them when they leave will do that. Just run Mylot down unjustly or one specific person. I don't even know who it is you are talking about but I had him pegged heh?

hi sid556 yes of course there have always een junk discussions but there are also many many good quality ones we can choose from too.I think he was being sour grapes as he himself seldom made any discussions yet was critical of everything,at first he was sort of funny but now it got to me and i felt that since he was leaving why sound off and make ugley remarks about everything mylot. go already if he does not like it here is my sentiment.

hi sid oh he called himself Grandpa but not a nice Grandpa like Grandpa Bob. You did have him pegged right.

hi celticEagle yes indeed thats what I finally said, if you dislike my lot so much, then leave already. lol I also enjoy being here and have a lot of fun going b ack and forth with my many friends. I hesitated to even respond to himn but he did get under my skin. lol

hi celticeagle I was okay with her until she started bashing'the US then It got to me too. lol I had forgotten ab out her. wow

They get under my skin sometimes. NOt nearly as bad as that little blue rabbit used to. Oh my gosh!

It is our fault that the interests are messed up as they are all user created

spike I love that last sentence as it says it all. I also get a large charge out of a discussion that asks what is life and expect it in 25 words or less.Such a broad request and no two 'answers would be the same. I do look for something in which'I can respond with intelligence and enjoy myself while doing it.There's so much to look through and yes I respond to the gems and ignore " the poop" Usually the "poop" comes when one person in twenty minutes manages to write 20 discussions. the first couple are usually not too bad but the last few usually hit the deletion axe.great responce Spike.

I agree about cleaning up the interests, they are such a mess!

Maybe those people who complain that things were better in the past compared to now, are unaware of how to go and find those older topics and add some more to them. Some of us know how to do that don't we, without spending our time complaining

I didn't 'drop' because, had I done so, there would now be a hole in the page I was just passing so I slipped in Indeed we can and we will - when we get more time

MysD, it is wonderful seeing you drop by my box again! That has not happened much lately, and I have been missing the company terribly! Yes, we do know how to go and find the older discussions that were interesting, and we can even help to revive them and get more new responses on them if we do it correctly. *whistles*

Yay...I'm the first....

wow zralte I get really excited when I amn the first as it hardly ever happens. lol. I think it is too.I feel maybe those quitters had some problem with the admins and it soured them on all of us, I am amazed really at how many really great discussions there are onn my lot.

I rarely get to be the first too. I see the hands of GAA in the improvements actually. I've gotta hand it to him. No violation stays up for a long time, these days, therefore, making way for quality discussions to make an appearance, and in a way, forcing members to come up with quality. The quitters will never be satisfied anyway. Best to ignore them and move on.

hi changjiangzhibin yes its a forum and in a forum we all have different feelings and different topics and I love the variety of topics and the idea that I can make friends with people from all over the world. they bring a glimpse of their world to me who cannot physically get out and travel.I think I probably share some of my own country The US and California with them too. It makes it fun and enjoyable to have far flung friends.

hi chang yes me too as I was lonely my son away at work then he lost his job and I ended up here so had loads of time and found mylot and its really changed my life a lot. Oh my gosh I am listening to a parody Mozart wrote of bad hometown music and most is way out of town on purpose. its said this was his way of thumbing his nose at his father and a different kind of eulogy for a parent he ended u p detesting.Most of Mozarts music is most harmonious so that makes this spoof even nore hilarious. I wear ear phones so my roomie will not be bothered as this one piece is a bit noisy at times but really funny too.

Mylot has benefitted me a great deal.In fact some people dislike mylot,they may leave quietly ,there is no need for them to make irresponsible comment to let off steam.

hi enelym Yes I really have seen top quality discussions here and met some really wonderful and interesting people too. I told this last mylotter thats leaving if he does not think there are any quality posts he should show us how its done and make his own for us to learn from. so yes its sour grapes.

hi again I know about PpE but hes made no secret of that b ut some come back and are sneaky and start doing what made some of them get banned in the first place. I hate that.

I bet the people who leaves myLot comes back with another name.

hi khare yes thats why I have stayed all these years, the great mylot friends I have made and its been a real lifesaver for me as I was forcibly retired at 80 and had so much time on my hands. I found mylot and it really gave me something worthwhile to do and to share and care about my friends in this great mylot community. I realize that we all mostly have different ideas in what we like or dislike in discussions but to spend time tearing us down when he was leaving any way to me is just not kosher. If he did not like it here leave already. lol.

hi the last I heard from MysD on one on my discussions she said she would explain later why she has been away for awhile. I think she is fine but lost a family member if I am not mistaken. I don't know if she responded on this discussion as it was one of my most recent.

when i see people like you, i get inspired and encouraged. i have a set of good people to hang out here and i know as time will pass away, our relationships will grow deep and strong. i never intend to leave mylot. though something is keeping me busy but i try to peep inside every once in a while to see what's going on here. haven't herd anything from mysD lately. is everything fine on her hand? do you know anything?

yes you jnow you are so ri ght and sometimes I forget that but I hate it when someone runs mylot down simply because they have some problem here as thats not our fault . I have got so much out of mylot as I came to really care for all of you although we have never met. I have learned to be much more tolerant here. my dad was one bitter sour man who thought everyone was out to get him. I swore I would never be so mistrusting of people so I must watch myself that I do'not turn into a sour old lady like my dad was a sour old man. usually I am a very happy laid back person and i trust people tolerance and respect were two things my poor father was not capable of.So I watch that in myself.so many olderpeople her have sour looks on their faces,you know you can be elderly and not look like you just swallowed some lemon juice.No attacking here is silly as it will escalate into flaming war and who needs that.

I'm so pleased your grumpy stage passed I may not be here as often as before right now but I do read notifiers

hi pikey I am always so happy when you come back as I think you were here long time back oh yes the pointy bra thing lol lol lol.Hi Diana I am always glad to see you here oh notifiers I am so' backed up, seems like I stop and tend to my few discussions and comment back on all of them then I get behind on my friends discussions. Yes of course a lot is just human nature but this one really got under my skin as he does not make hardly any discussions of his own but criticizes everything, now i enjoy some sarcasm such as my friend PPE but to down grade all of us all the time is a bit much.

hi lilyloretta yes indeed I said as much" well then leave already."

hi andy77e yes there are a lot and i am so sick of how do I make money , why did my earning go down blah blah blah over and over over but this individual did not even credit us for any good ones yet to the best of my knowledge he did not write any or hardly any,he was too busy tearing us all down. but if you dig you will find a lot of very good posts too. I am even getting 'a lot of responses anymore but again I do not make many posts as to me its rude not to respond to all of them.As for the bagel one don't most of those get deleted as poll? well any way I still like mylot and I still will participate and if a lot of us want to sour grape go aheas as I will not believe mylot is all that bad.and no the man was not reasonable because he never bothered to put his fingers where his dramatic mouth was and show all us dumb peons how to make that wonderful discussion he wants. anyone can run down stuff but can they provide good discussions themselves?

thats the same with me back about this time in 2008 my world turned upside down and I was off mylot for 11 long dreary months. so when I got mymonitor and computer out of storage and saw that mylot earning would help me pay my internet bill I got on time warner cable and here I am still stuck here but its better than being lose on the street with all the street people.I missed everyone here so much and now I depend on mylot tobe happy and content here.

hi pointlessquestions,I sorts felt it might get deleted but he really got under my skin but guess he liked to do just that.odd how those who berate our discussions are also ones who seldom make a discussion.wonder why?

hi pointlessquestions this person seemed to be here only to criticize anything anyone did here and to me that is sort of sour grapes. I retorted that if he felt our discussions were so awful come make some discussions and show us how good discussions are made. its easy to criticize but harder to do its yourself.I found myself resenting his discussion as I ha ve many friends who have made wonderful discussions here.

Hi Hatley, Hi Reallysunny, You both are exactly right. And yes.. since they think they are the expert on what makes a good and bad discussion, they should get on here and show us how! Good for you Hatley for telling him so.

hi little missy oh don't leave please .we need all the good mylotters we can. I dont know why he had to spout off so, why not just leave and not make a big drama of it.If he disliked our diesucssions so much just leave already. I think I said that much, "then just leave already if we are all so awful."

I actually read a discussion since responding to this one, that someone was leaving but she was starting a discussion to say goodbye to everyone. She wasn't mad and nothing happened here that she wanted to leave, just said it was for personnal reasons. Again, why bother making a big discussion about it, the discussion went on for a few days before she cancelled her account. Why bother.....