The one that got away

Chile
November 28, 2011 11:30pm CST
Hi everyone I'm just very sad right now, 2 months ago my 4 years ex boyfriend broke up with me, he told me that he needed time, wanted to be alone and care about himself. I completely understood, of course I cried and got angry, but his happiness come first. A week later I found out that he just got engaged to his ex girlfriend. I couldnt believe it, I cried and cried for hours and then I called him, I wanted to clear all the lies and why he never told me anything, why he hid all this from me. Of course I insulted him too. When we clarified all, I told him that I want him to go away, dissapear from my life and never ever talk to me again. Now he's sorry and wants me back, I still love him but my heart is broken all the damage and bad memories still there. They were 4 wonderful years, I wish everything was as before. I always remember all the plans that we had for the future, now they're all gone. What about you? Did you build a life with someone and then it didnt work? I want to know other experiences! PD: English is not my native language, sorry if I made a mistake or something.
1 response
@rencarl (620)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
hello nebel.i am saddened to hear your story.i have a long time girlfriend too and we are on our 6 years now. i hope our relationship will not end because we have plans too. as for your boyfriend, you said he was already engaged after you broke up with him and after talking with him now, he wants you back.why did he ask you back if he is already engaged?
• Chile
29 Nov 11
I wonder the same thing. He denies everything, he said (repeatedly) he has nothing with this ex girlfriend, that it's all over and all was a terrible mistake. After that conversation I went to his facebook and all the "congratulations for your engage" still there, all the "i love you" from this girl, conversations and photos... Looks like a joke, I really dont know whats in his mind. This whole thing is humiliating for me.