Will distance increase love?
By jeesha
@jeesha (9)
India
November 28, 2011 11:42pm CST
Because of our career choices me and my lover is living in different cities. We try to meet and spend time as much as possible. But some times it is not possible. The physical distance in between us will increase our love or our love will fade with time and distance? What you think?
13 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
29 Nov 11
It depends on yourself what will happen.
If there is true love it doesn't matter where you are since you will feel that love.
My partner lives in a complete different part of the world and we are together too. If you want it to work it will work. If you just focus on everything that can go wrong it will never work.
@zhaozy (33)
• China
9 Dec 11
Although distant from the heart but can tightly linked.However,also by letter,phone,talk to each other inside,so as not to love fade.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
9 Mar 12
I think it depend on the situation because base on what i see in other couples, some of them survive the long distance relationship and they feel more in love in there partner after a long time not seeing each other and there is also case that the couple end there relationship because of the long time not seeing each other, they look for a new partner and they fall out of love in there previous partner.
@boyuancy (1708)
• India
2 Dec 11
As WakeUpKitty said, it totally depends on you and your lover. If you think your love and the bond is strong enough, it will hold good through this test of time that you guys are going through.
If this thing is forever and if your relationship is very new, you might consider moving on as many couples do.
Suit yourself. ATB
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
29 Nov 11
It can really go both ways. They always say that distance makes the heart grow fonder and I do believe in that. Distance can make you realize how much you love the person and how much you want to be with them. It can also go the wrong way. Distance can make people realize that they really don't love the person and maybe it was just the proximity and not really real love.
@gkslight (65)
• India
29 Nov 11
Be strong. Both of you. The saying "long distance relationships don't last" is for the week. Believe in yourself. True love always prevail. Definitely it will not be easy but try a little bit harder and "the fruit of patience will be sweet" All the best
@sab0003 (1)
•
29 Nov 11
The way I see it is, over a short period of time, both of you will start to miss each other, which will then help the both of you understand how much you mean for each other. However, as time goes by, love can disappear for a far one, just how if you moved houses from your neighbors, you slowly forget them. As cliche as it sounds, it depends on the individual and how determined they are to keep the love strong. :)
@ahmed2114a1 (80)
•
2 Dec 11
not distance not increase love , but
i think it change form one state to anther