No Divorce

As far as my opinion is concern; I still marry the person that I promise to stay for better or worse. I believed that divorce is not the answer of successful marriage but beyond the sphere of both couples... Mutual respect, mutual love, fidelity, discipline and most of all fear of God. The best core of marriage...if one of the couples did not fear of God. Surely the relationship is not good...there is more possibilities that either the couples does anything to make the marriage worst

I do think of marriage as a one time thing but I guess we never really know what the future holds. I think a good understanding of your partner is numero uno anyway. I don't suppose I will ever be married either..lol...I think that sometimes I have an unreal image of what a marriage is supposed to be and I'm not willing to settle for anything else..lol.

For my boyfriend and I we agreed that divorce is not an option. When we get married it's for the long haul. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together and when we get married that is what we plan on doing. We know marriage will be hard and take work and we want to do all that together.

Well I don't really believe in divorce so the answer is YES. I got married believing I would never get divorced. Some people take marriage too lightly. You really shouldn't get married unless you plan to be with that person forever. If you are willing to get divorced over any silly little thing, then marriage isn't for you.

Those are really good questions. If you could only marry once then I would still absolutely have married my husband. If something terrible were to happen and we did divorce then I cannot see myself remarrying. I also believe that marriage should be a one shot deal and it should be forever. But as to whether or not I would have married if there was no divorce, no matter what, I'm really a little stumped. I would love to say yes, no question, because I would never divorce my husband, BUT... there's always that far off possibility that something could change between us from now to the end of our lives. What if he were to change dramatically? What if I did? What if he cheated on me? Thinking about it that way, in the very unromantic yet practical way, I don't think I would get married if there was absolutely no divorce.

Everything in this world has its pros and cons. Just like the divorce law has its pros and cons. To some extent it does good but to others they have abuse it. Divorce law replaced the values of the nature of a man to persevere in order to have quality marriage. Others depended on the divorce law too much in which marriage becomes just like changing a shirt overnight. For me having a multiple marriage does not give a good impression to the kind of person you are for no one will stay with you until you have gray hairs. It takes two to tango but one has to lead in order to fill up what your partner doesn't have instead of giving up. Marriage is a holy sacrament and its a lifetime working process in order to nourish the bond. Like planting a flower until it blossoms. Therefore, long engagement does not guarantee at all in order for a marriage that will last forever.

When I first married, I was thinking it was forever, even when he started beating me and being nasty. He became vicious and cruel and I began to lose my mind and be afraid for my kids so I got away from him. One of the things that shocked me was his family knew how vicious he could be and not one of them mentioned it, they did not tell me.

Jesus Christ gave only one justifiable reason for divorce, that of infidelity. In that case, the innocent party is free to marry again. If any one divorces for any other reason, they are to remain single.

I believe in marriage also. Although my first was horrible and physically abusive among other things. I would have not stayed with him as long as I did if I would have had a way out. He did not work everyday so my chances were limited. When I did finally get out with my child I never looked back.

You know, I always looked at marriage the same way. I always believed that I would get married once and that would be it. But now I see that is not the case. Now, I will never do it again. If I knew what I know now, I would have never taken the chance. Now to answer your question, if there were no divorce, well, I would end it very easy if I could no longer be with that miserable person. I would eliminate myself permanently. Then it's over, see!!!

There IS no divorce! Only marriages and broken marriages (and us single guys and gals). My mother: she and my dad 'divorced' (in the world's eyes), but she still wants what's best for him. He simply convinced her that 'what is best for him' is divorce, and she is fulfilling the contract entered-into on that fateful day.

Who cares if you are allowed to divorce? There are plenty of people who are not allowed and just leave (men do that all over the world). It's already normal here not to get married. I know enough people who did not divorce officially by law just because they don't have the money for it. But still they have a new relationship. I think that if people are not allowed to divorce it doesn't matter. If you marry out of love you think it will last forever anyway. Might be the whole institution of marriage will be over in the future the way we know it now. Might be a very good thing since it has seldom to do with that commitement between two people anymore. Besides of the fact thet there are many countries where people are married but not by law. So officially they are not married at all.

just like you, i have commited to myself, i will marry for once, there will be no divorce, my frist will be my last. i want my first partner will be the best partner forever to me. for realize that, i will try to look the best girl that suitable,fit and match for me, from the character, and phisically. i don't want to be disappointd. i will try to accept my partner as she is, i don't want to change someone. i will try to understand my partner as well as i can do. i think, that will prtotect my marriage from divorce. understanding each other is the key for success in a marriage, and i don't fear for marry with someone. it is one of my way i this life i think. so i have to do that.

First I don't beloved in divoce for myself any ways. But if for some reason there was no divorces or a nullments I would take my time to really get to know the person I'm with before getting married and even then hat really doesn't meany I will be with that person forever and then if I didn't want to be with hen I would tell him and see if he would be okay with me seeing other people Vs doing it behind his back.

I was married for ten years, and I probably won’t ever marry again. I am not opposed to the idea. I am only 34, and I am trying to keep an open mind about things, but it will take someone really special to make me even think about getting married again. I have gone on some dates with a few women since I left my wife, but I am not even looking for a relationship right now. I really just don’t want the hassle of a relationship right now to be honest. I am enjoying being single…

Well I would not honestly say that I would have never married. I am married now and if there was no divorce, I would have taken longer to make the decision to marry. Not that my spouse was not a good choice, but you do not really know a person until time has passed. I dated my current spouse a long time and even with many years of marriage, there are still new things I discover about him. Most are good, but there are some that can be irritating. So I know that I got lucky. I have heard horror stories of people that date awhile and then marry a person that "becomes someone else".

never married is an attitude that denies our nature as human beings. Remember, God created His creatures in pairs. There are female - There are male, there a man - There's a woman. It was all created by God with goal, ours as His Servant can birth His offspring in this world. Don't be afraid to get married and don't be traumatized by divorce, too. Marry and divorce are two different things, as long as you can keep and maintain the rope of affection with your partner and not forget to always pray to God for and in the marriage that you run, surely, your marriage will always be blessed by God and keep it lasting throughout your life

If that were the case, I wouldn't marry either. Everyone wants their marriage to work but many don't. People and feelings change. If I could not undo something that turned ugly I would never get married in the first place. It's better to just shack up so you aren't bound to someone who might change how they feel about you.

Divorce is not allowed in some countries so not everyone has that option. Getting to know your partner sometimes could not work as they might change in the married life.

Marriage is a sacred to make the two souls unite officially in the blessed in the church. The love binds them to stay together and it is supposed to be forever. In the contrary, the matrimony turned into different situations. Nowadays, the incidence of divorce is remarkably high. There are so many factors that put them into situation due to betrayal, differences, culture and the other reasons. For most people, it is simply the last option to get away from their married life. Can we be sober for it? The decision is not easy, especially if there are children involved. It will be hard for the kids to face the reality. Though it is not also the reason not to leave the partner. Married life is a tough choice for having a family. No matter what culture we practice, to tie-a-knot is needed to think not twice but so many times. There is no turning back, when you're ready and finally found the real love; then it is about time to settle down and hopefully, it will be forever.