the other woman

Yeah. That is exactly what she wants to do. Even if she isn't interested in this guy herself, if she can break him up from his current girlfriend, then she feels special, and powerful, and I am so great that guys will leave their girlfriend for me.

well i guess it is a bit of selfishness on both parts, some girls do take the boy from another girl, some girls and some boys for that fact find people who are already attached more attractive maybe they like the chase and mybe look at it as a challenge.

It is very risky to date a person who is already involved with someone else. You keep hoing that he/she will choose you over the other person, but they have had a much longer relationship with that other person and you don't know how deep those ties are, even if they are not getting along at the time. There is the possibility that they may leave them for you, but no guarantees. If there are children involved it makes things even more complicated. Some people love the challenge and some want to be with the person knowing they are only getting a small part of them. It depends on what a person is looking for in a relationship.

I agree, I don't think it is a good idea. Even if he did leave the other person don't you think that if he could cheat on her he will cheat on you too? That would definitely be my thought if he was ever out late or anything I would think he is cheating on me just like he cheated on her...There isn't much trust in a relationship like that and without trust there will never be love...

yes you are right, it is something really fool. i also don't understand why many women can accept a guy that have has women/ they can't hope anything from this guy. or it only will make the guy in trouble with his girlfriend. i think that is not a good way for get a partner. take a guy from another women, it hurts womenhood.

its because women is easy to be in love because many man just court and court woman even they are very ugly.. i know some of my neighbor that has many gf but his face looks like doggy and ugly. he is very ugly and boastful but i answer him almost all women is easy to be in love if you court them but beautiful woman is not easy to court its because many guys court them and i answer him your gf is not beautiful thats why she likes you.

The girl would be jealous of the guys girlfriend and go into a hidden relationship with him. This would be very selfish of her and the boyfriend. She might hope that he will leave his current in the open girlfriend. The girl might be dating on the side quite hidden her ex-boyfriend. That is far more complicated because they were a couple in the past. Again the girl is being selfish and the guy is being crazy for the past. He has to face up to the present and a sticky future is just around the corner.

A girl who tries to date a guy who is married, engaged, or otherwise "taken" has no respect for herself. Girls deserve to have a guy who is totally devoted to them and not looking for anyone else. If a girl will date a guy with a girlfriend, she believes she deserves nothing better than someone else's leftovers. That is sad! If the guy really wanted her, he'd leave his girlfriend for her. But he thinks he will get what he want from both girls because they are weak and have no self-respect. They both need to leave his sorry butt out in the cold! :) Show him girls deserve to be treated better!

I think women who does it are b*** and they deserve every cheater they get. As a woman I think it's ridiculous and awful to betray another woman like that, even though I never knew her. I met a guy I actually fell in love with and he didn't wear a ring or even mentioned her, we never got together but I don't know, I fancied him a lot. Then I find out he had someone and a daughter, I stopped talking to him because I never want to be immoral. I think people who steal other people's partner/husbands/wives are for pitty, they don't have selfesteem, self respect or compassion for other people.

I think it is both peoples fault and not just the girl. I don't see why people easily attacks the third person involved. I don't want to say the the third party has lesser fault here. I am saying that the person who cheated has as much fault. I think it is pure selfishness ans lack of control. I don't see why a person will not just break up with the person if they are no longer interested.

I actually have some objectivity here for this. I know a woman should try to step away from a man who is already committed. However, there are some women who think there is no problem since there is just friendship, and nothing more than that. But when the temperature rises, the temptation begins, and she gets herself drowning with emotions. This is where trouble starts, and this is why it is best to just step away. I am married, and I have a long time friend. We do get together, but nothing happens because even so many years ago, we never had any affair. All pure trust and friendship. I just hope every woman would be like that.

Well I know some women never knew that the guys had other women they where with. When they find out hey either say something about it or they don't I guess some womenthink they the guy will leave the person they are with because they are so in love with the guy or the guy really does leave just doesn't know how to break things off with the other person they are with.

In my view, This is a type of stupidity that done by that guy and other woman... Most of man are like this...All are selfish...They will not think about the person who is waiting for us...I had seen some people in this manner..They wants to enjoy the all thing in this world...Man and woman are selfish...They will live with some people and will act as a good partner to a poor one..That's cruel...Thanks....

I think these kind of people have personality issues more so problems with relationships. People with this kind of relationship have their own reasons. And more than that, they are unto the self-boosting effect of the situation. However, one thing is sure about this... They can be in a great trouble later on. And they cannot get away with that fast!

The truth is that some women see what they want, and then want what they see and they are determined to get what they want. They generally believe that they have so much to offer the guy, that the rightful woman can be pushed out of the way. Ah, yes - women are not always sugar and spice and everything nice.

i think some guys flirt with other girls and have a girlfriend. the girls may think he wants to date them. some guys may want to date them when they have a girlfriend, others, no, they are being friendly or just flirtatious.i wouldn't want this trait in my guy. if i am his girlfriend, he better be just with me --period. no, fooling around..........no flirting.....

For the same reason that women go after married men, the want what they can't have. For other women it's the challenge of being able to steal a man away from another woman. These women are very sad, lonely people. They lead unexciting boring lives so they have to create drama in order to be fulfilled.

Good day swissheart! For your first question, why date a guy with a girlfriend? Girls are known to be vulnerable. Guys are generalized as flirts. I guess you can now see the picture. Guys would make the other woman fall in love with them and then she believes. But of course there are also women who are just plain itchy! Why leave his girlfriend? It might be because the other woman has something that he wants that the girlfriend doesn't have. There's a saying that goes: if you love two women, you should choose the second because if you truly love the first, you wouldn't dare cheat on her. I guess we could all agree to that.