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Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5646) • Philippines 24 Dec 11

At my workplace, I have a friend who is 6 years older than me. He's an English teacher like me. Our co-workers don't like him, because he's too 'fresh' or too 'confident' about himself. He garbs himself in weird patterned...

annoying

colleague

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JeninND You can't avoid him completely at work, but you can decide not to answer your phone when he calls or texts, and you can be simply polite with him, not engaging in too much conversation. Eventually he will probably get the message. He is sticking to you because...

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zeciram @zeciram (161) • Philippines 22 Dec 11

I am starting to hate my in laws!!! I have learned to accept who they are but recently, my MIL has gone overboard. She got upset at me because of invalid reason. I cannot stand her being so sensitive. Why can't she just shut up...

hate

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JeninND It's sad when mothers-in-law decide to be jealous of, and compete with, their daughters-in-law. Some MILs just can't let go. In her defense, she's his mama and as a mom of boys myself, it's heartbreaking when you've been #1 to your son for his entire life, he...

24 Dec 11

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 2 Dec 11

I've been wanting to stay home with my kids even before they were born. However, we've never been able for me to really do so. We could never afford it. When my daughter was born, my husband wasn't working. After my first son was...

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JeninND I did quit my job so I could stay home with my kids, for 9 years! I loved it, they are only little once, and it was worth the many sacrifices we had to make: no satellite/cable TV, no cell phone (for me), no car (we sold one and shared a car), living in a tiny...

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alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 3 Dec 11

I don't understand why some women would accept to date aguy that already has a girlfriend...I mean what does she hope? that she is going to convince him how great she is compaired to his girlfriend and that he is going to leave...

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JeninND A girl who tries to date a guy who is married, engaged, or otherwise "taken" has no respect for herself. Girls deserve to have a guy who is totally devoted to them and not looking for anyone else. If a girl will date a guy with a girlfriend, she believes she...

4 Dec 11

sunny7758521 @sunny7758521 (339) • China 1 Jan 10

My baby is more than three years old, she likes music very much, I bought an electric piano, I play she sings, she wants to play it very much. I want to know when is the best time to start leaning the piano?

best

start playing the piano

time

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JeninND If she's showing interest, then start looking for a teacher who will teach the very young. Not many of them will. My MIL has been teaching piano for almost 40 years, and she won't take anyone under 2nd grade. My best friend does group classes for kids starting...

2 Jan 10

Jennlk84 @Jennlk84 (4206) • United States 14 Aug 09

Where do you shop for all of your healthy foods? Maybe it's an organic grocery store, whole foods, or maybe even just the regular ol grocery store. I'm curious because recently my husband and I move to a new state. In this...

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JeninND Oh, that is too bad! My best advice is: shop around! You may find that the natural/organic section of a plain old grocery store has the best prices. I asked some like-minded acquaintances around town, "Where do you shop?" And they gave me so much...

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suzycutee @suzycutee (81) • United States 14 Aug 09

I am starting a new job next week and I am very nervous. There will be hordes of employess that will already be established in the company, and I find that to be quite intimidating. I feel like everyone will be judging me, and...

anxiety

career

new job

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JeninND Oh ditto on this. Don't gossip with anyone yet :) There is drama in every office.. it's my "policy" to stay out of it. Most of the time, you can't 100% stay out of it, but people will try to talk you into their side as soon as the first day. Yuck! A former...

15 Aug 09

suzycutee @suzycutee (81) • United States 14 Aug 09

I am starting a new job next week and I am very nervous. There will be hordes of employess that will already be established in the company, and I find that to be quite intimidating. I feel like everyone will be judging me, and...

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JeninND Congratulations on your new job! I just started a new job a month ago. And, to be honest, it still feels new :) My best advice.. clarify, clarify, clarify. I was taught how to do a number of things, and my supervisor left out a step in most all of them,...

15 Aug 09

jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 12 Aug 09

catch it, kill it or ignore it? do you do different things with different insects? if it is a fly or a butterfly i catch it in a glass and put it outside (flies don't try to get out and butterflies seem to hurt themselves bashing...

bees

butterflies

wasps

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JeninND Interesting - never thought of that! I wonder if somehow animals can tell the difference. It's true, I've never seen my cats chase bees. Their favorites are flies and miller moths. My 1-year-old girl kitty can (eventually) catch a fly she sees flying way up...

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jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 12 Aug 09

catch it, kill it or ignore it? do you do different things with different insects? if it is a fly or a butterfly i catch it in a glass and put it outside (flies don't try to get out and butterflies seem to hurt themselves bashing...

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JeninND I doubt they know better :( But so far, I have always discovered the offending insect before they have, and have been able to shoo it out or give it the smackdown before the cats realize it's here. They don't come in the house very often, thankfully! A couple...

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jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 12 Aug 09

catch it, kill it or ignore it? do you do different things with different insects? if it is a fly or a butterfly i catch it in a glass and put it outside (flies don't try to get out and butterflies seem to hurt themselves bashing...

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JeninND I don't do anything to bugs I find outdoors. In the fall, we spray Ortho around our home though, otherwise I'm finding 2-10 small black spiders in my house every day. If something makes its way into my home though, it's DEAD. Either my cats catch/kill/eat,...

13 Aug 09

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karenrosesalazar @karenrosesalazar (256) • Philippines 3 Aug 09

I'm proud to say I am. She is one of my bestest friend. We do a lot of things together like watch movies, eat out, do some shopping and so much more. She gives me sound advices on love and career and she always supports me in my...

inspiration

mother

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JeninND I am very close to my mom. She is my best friend! She is the only friend I see multiple times per week, the first person I think of when I want a girlfriend to see a concert/chickflick/artfest. I have 3 sons, no daughters, and that is fine by me. However, I...

4 Aug 09

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maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 1 Aug 09

Would you like to have a baby or is your family complete? I have a five week old daughter and she delights me. I feel very lucky to have her. I have a fourteen year old son and a two year old son as well. My sister has a...

baby

child

family

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JeninND It bothers me when people say "Oh, now she has the perfect family, one of each/two of each!" As though people without one of each gender, or without kids altogether, are not a "perfect family". I have three boys, and while a 4th kid would be fun, I don't...

2 Aug 09

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 31 Jul 09

I was amazed today morning. I got a mail from a person whom I will never stop hating. He was so called good friend but he cheated me big time. He mailed me saying how are you? what are you doing? can you please send me your number...

cheat

mail

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JeninND This happened to a friend of mine. Her ex-boyfriend of two years past emailed her and said he had something important to tell her and would rather speak to her by phone. It turns out he found out he was HIV-positive, and didn't know if he got it before her or...

1 Aug 09

jenniferyvette @jenniferyvette (137) • Philippines 30 Jul 09

well i had a boyfriend for 2 years and six months. and keeping our relationship steady became my part/role in life. but what if trying to make it perfect becomes so tiring??? not seeing any changes/ improvements with your...

moving on

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JeninND (Haven't read the rest of the responses yet, will do that after I post this) I don't think people can really change that quickly. He wants you back because he knows you're with someone. Men get jealous pretty easily, and that's what happened. If you're...

31 Jul 09

NarcyzaProspera @NarcyzaProspera (154) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

I want to know that I am not alone on trying to lose weight. If you could share me your weight loss experiences, it will be appreciated. I think i mentioned this on my other discussion, but let me reiterate: i have been...

losing weight

weight loss journey

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JeninND I lost 50 pounds in 2006-2007. I lost the first few by exercising (I used the Turbo Jam DVDs). Then I started Weight Watchers, and lost the rest that way and by exercising around 5 hours a week. I started in July '06 and hit goal in May '07. I ran my first 5K...

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JeninND @JeninND (65) • United States 12 Jul 09

I'm curious to see what everyone is currently working on for knitting projects. I am doing my second Pomatomus Sock from the Knitty website: http://www.knitty.com/ISSUEwinter05/PATTpomatomus.html And I am also knitting a...

crafts

knit

knitting

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JeninND Hey, congratulations on your first sock! And way to go on dyeing your own yarn, that is just awesome! I haven't tried that yet. Yeah those lace patterns are complicated, I try to do only one of those a year, otheriwse I stick with more basic stuff. The book...

14 Jul 09

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