new people, maybe chance for girlfriends...
By redik11
@redik11 (131)
Norway
December 17, 2011 6:40pm CST
okay so heres the deal, im moving to a new placa and i will start at a new school, i guess the reason i never had a gf is because i just werent one any of the girls would date because i was answered badly to the teachers and werent the familys best child... how can i make a good first impression? getting high grades is not something i can get but is there any other ways?
4 responses
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
18 Dec 11
Well I would ask you what is the tradition in your country for dating and meeting a girlfriend. In the U.S. yo would be considered a bad boy which is considered a desirable trait for the women here.
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
18 Dec 11
Sometimes that is true. It boils down to confidence, if you focus on what you can't offer a woman, you'll never feel good enough. Instead focus on what you can give a woman. You sound like a guy with a kind heart, to me that's the perfect start.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
18 Dec 11
First of all be yourself. You can fake but people will find out anyway. Show confidence and believe in yourself. Be friendly, attentive and observe others. You don't need good grades for that and even if you don't speak much or are shy it doesn't matter. Women like shy men and it's better to speak and say something wise as to speak without any end. I wish you all the luck! PS Make yourself happy first and love will come your way.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
18 Dec 11
i like your optimism of getting a girlfriend in your new place. having that kind of thought would get you one, i believe. being in a new environment gives you a certain sense of confidence and anonymity. it boosts your chances of building an image of adventurous for braving the new place. girls love it. i wish you the best.