What would you do?
By jadoixa
@jadoixa (1166)
Philippines
December 19, 2011 1:34am CST
if you're someone who knows and is aware that you can't be in a relationship or marriage, you know you don't want a family, kids, a commitment..would you still look for a partner knowing that you know well you will be just like using or hurting the person you're gonna be with??..if right now, you feel like that person is the one, you want to be with, or feel like you want those things that are part of marriage and a relationship..but then later on it always ends up you don't really want it..you constantly change your mind and cannot really get yourself tied up with one person for a long time and the rest of your life..will you prefer to be alone just so not to hurt a person??..or would still do it look for that special someone or relationship..even though it always end up negatively..separation and doubt about loving a person or being in a relationship and commitment??
4 responses
@mohkanari (1957)
• India
19 Dec 11
I prefer to an unmarried life and living so. I can't withstand the pain resulted by attachments. Family relations may bring a lot of advantages but I am ready to avoid such advantages to avoid sufferings behind it. Still I want love who know my limitation or particularity of thoughts. I always expect someone would be there thinking similar to me. Strange love, understanding the limitations and without commitments is a wonderful experience with freedom, in life.
@jadoixa (1166)
• Philippines
21 Dec 11
thanks for your response...each and everyone of us looks for a companion in life...but for this kind of people i guess the best thing for them to do is just be alone in life because if they know well that is their problem, why still get into it? they are just hurting the person they are trying to be with..espcially those who are good and innocent people..but we cannot control these people to do what they do..only them has the power to direct themselves to what should be the right and proper thing to do..
@heaytheblogger (2876)
• Philippines
28 Jan 13
Before going to a conclusion of settling down, one should remember that he/she will take over a huge responsibility that will somehow shape his/her life. Marriage is not like playing games or just be wed because you feel that you are really attached to that person.
It’s about a serious commitment with someone and you should think if that person is really the right one that you want to live your life with. If you are unhappy and just torn between marrying just for the sake of other’s happiness, if I were on such situation, I would rather be frank and tell that person that I need to clear my mind off and need to figure myself before divulging on such responsibility.
@akhaniemar (122)
• Philippines
18 Jan 13
I'd rather be single and enjoy my life alone than spend my time in a relationship which I know I will never be happy or I can't handle. It would be unfair to my partner if ever since I still wanted to enjoy being free from any responsibilities.
