Do you think he still loves me?

when someone has a place in your heart, and you care for that person. you will always want to look after them. i have ex's, and to be brutally honest with you, i hate their guts.. but if anything were to ever happen to them, or if they needed my help, as someone i once loved and spent time with, and got to know like i would a friend, i would help them. my question to you is, do you WANT him to still love you? and when you say BF.. do you mean best friend, or boyfriend?

I believe it's pure chemistry. First of all,, if he doesn't believe in love it doesn't mean he doesn't feel it. He can't stop it because it's a chemical reaction in the brain, he can only deny he is feeling it, and even that to a certain point. About ex'es, well, I think everyone breaks up with someone for a reason, or more reasons, but those reasons can coexist with love, just they might be enough to deny the good reasons for a relationship to work. Getting to the point, your ex might still care for you in certain ways, but those ways are not enough for him to necessarily want a full time relationship with you. For example I care for all my ex'es because I never broke up with someone for a bad reason, not cheating, not lies, just a simple both sided agreement that we were not really meant to be more than a short term team for having fun, and even if it was bad, I think I'd still care for the good reasons. I am in a long term, probably soon to be married relationship right now and I still remember all my ex'es, some I still see around, some not but I care for them all, as friends, as acquaintances I appreciate and care for, and I'd cover them with a blanket if I thought they were cold. :) I'm not saying he couldn't feel even more for you, but I am saying it could just be a simple care he holds for a friendly person he had in his life, and loved at some point for some good reasons.

I agree with what most people have said here - I think he still cares for you, but that does not mean that he still loves you. I still care for most of my exes ... in fact, I still love a couple of them ... but that does not mean that I am in love with them - there is a difference. I care about them (and love a couple of them) like I care about (and love) my other friends, but I do not want to be in a romantic relationship with them any more.

Maybe or maybe not. Maybe your ex still has a feeling for you, or it's just that he is just concerned or he is the type of person who cares a lot to others. If your ex still loves you he will try to make a move to get your attention. You've said that your ex doesn't believe in love anymore right? I wonder what had happened.

First of all, I want to apologize because all this time I thought you are a male. (Never checked your profile) :) Sometimes being sweet doesn't necessarily mean that you love the receiver of that sweetness. But it was a good gesture at the part of your ex. He may still care for you because after all, you have shared some good moments together (I pressume). I remember having the same feeling for my ex back then, I even feel jealous of the guy whom she is dating. But I realize that I no longer love her, but I still care for her in some ways.

Oh how romantic This is just like the love stories that I read. It's like you and your ex are the main characters. You fell out of love then you met again and then "love" happens-- again. Aww.. too good to be true though but I think your ex might still like/love you. Is your boyfriend not jealous? Haha, I'm just curious.

Love is a big jump from caring for someone. I have several female friends who I'd cover with a blanket and pull their shoes off for them if they fell asleep on the couch. It doesn't mean I'd want a relationship with them, just that I care about them as good friends.

Don't misunderstood what your ex boyfriend has done to you. He is just being friendly and caring as much as he wanted to be. Good thing that your boyfriend now wasn't angry about what happened between you and your ex boyfriend. Some boyfriends get jealous of the exes because of having a past.

I'm not sure about this. But maybe somehow he has gotten over it and moved on. But the fact that you both are still friends, maybe this is his way of showing that he still cares for you as a friend, and still respects you no matter things between the both of you didn't go well when you both are still in a relationship.

It sounds like he cares for you, but love is a stretch. I think you ought to ask yourself why it matters to you when you have a boyfriend already? If you already have closure from that relationship, and you're just wistfully wondering what if's, I guess, that's okay as long as you realize that what was in the past is past, and the new him is not the old him. If you haven't seen him in years and don't know what happened to him in the meantime don't assume you know who he is now.

In my own opinion according to your story, he still cares about you. He says he does not believe in love anymore and that really means something. If you were a part of that experience made him detached his belief about love, for sure, till now, he still suffers from stress out from that breakup. Some person does not take stress easily but when someone really loved you and being attached to each others for a long time, he might lose his sanity intact out of him.