Too Tired
By Ollanna11
@Ollanna11 (371)
United States
December 29, 2011 9:05am CST
Are you neglecting your partner if your too tired to do it? I mean have s..
Or could it be that the both of you have different s.. drives. Or does the mood have to be right for both people. I believe the mood has to be right for me too feel relaxed.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
29 Dec 11
The only time Im not in the mood is when im badly stressed out. I try to do it even then to make him happy but its hard for me when im really stressed. If I am not stressed we both seem to have the same desire so its not a problem. I try to go to bed before I get too exhausted for it. 
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@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
29 Dec 11
When Im stressed out I want a massage and then maybe I will be ready.
@Orson_Kart (6776)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 11
Men are usually in the mood for it, whether they are tired or not. We like it so much that we would even do it in our sleep and, it appears, we sometimes do. 
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@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
29 Dec 11
Men need to learn to master the art of seduction. So there is no tug of war at bedtime.
@Orson_Kart (6776)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 11
And women need to stop playing hard to get! I mean, once you are a couple you should expect certain things, surely? I admit it's not so easy when it's mid-winter and you are wrapped up in pjs and bedsocks, but a quickie avoiding frostbite shouldn't be out of the question, should it?
@Ollanna11 (371)
• United States
29 Dec 11
I simply say no but my husband is very persistant. My husband is understanding sometimes.
@squallming (1775)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 11
Not to say neglecting her. I believe we won't get anywhere with tired body. So you can always reject doing it when you really cant perform in it. As long as you give proper reasons and promised a next date for it. It should be fine. Unless your partner has uncontrollable s.. drive which he or she insists to do it at that very moment. Then it is up to you to do it or not. If you're not going to do it, you still need to find way to get out of the situation with relatively low harm to your partner.
