Boyfriends Annoying Friends

United States
January 11, 2012 1:33pm CST
My boyfriend has this best friend since the age of 10 and he is so annoying. I have learned to deal with him but now he has this girlfriend for almost two years and I can't take them anymore. To start off with his best friend is totally different from him he likes going to the everglades, fishing, waking up at 4am to go these state parks and whatever..lol..Anyway his girlfriend is nice, young and likes to do stuff so I was finally happy about planning to do things and everything. The problem is they are ALWAYS broke. Yet they are the ones who want to go here and there. One time I made a mistake and I paid for everything at a club because it was our fault kind of how we ended up there. They do know I make decent money but I just get so annoyed to do anything with them. Since its my boyfriends best friend he always tells me to suck it up and just go with him when they go out but I really don't want too. What can I do??
3 responses
enelym001
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
13 Jan 12
If you don't really like to go out with them, try to lessen meeting up with them. Make yourself a little busy with other things so you can say No the next time they asked you.
cearn25
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Make a straightforward decision. Don't go if you don't want. It is okay when your boyfriend has friends but one that is annoying? I can't take that. I'd rather not go with them. Also they can't force me to go.
lafavorito
@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
12 Jan 12
Start saying NO to your boyfriend. He should respect your decision and listen to the reason why you don't always want to go out with his friends. If he doesn't want to respect his decision now then he will not respect your decision EVER.