I'm Mad..,?????

having quarreel is not good idea. we should have better relationship and communitaion with other familiy mmebers. eventhough i actually have bad communication too with my sister, which may cause arument when we meet. we live in different cities and i rarely go home to visit my parents. i should have good communitaion and make it better

These are common between brother and sister. I too quarrel with my sister all day. Well we quarrel with those with whom we love the most. So there is no need to change your habit.

I two are fighting two are quilty, it's a dutch saying. it's very hard for me to believe you are the wrong/mad person. Perhaps you should ask yourself if your brother is worth your love. Sounds to me he doesn't respect you the way you are and is not loving you at all. Just saying you love someone is not the same as showing it. Love means accepting, respecting a person the way he/she is. I wonder why it's that important what your brother thinks about you. I can only advice you to stick to yourself. Nothing is as bad as pretending you are different, being fake, playing a role. Remember you will never be able to please all people in the world (you will meet or met). You better work on your self esteem and stay out of the way of your brother. I don't think he deserves your love at all.

I think that such quarrels are uncommon and must for the life. I have the same experience still now. I used to make fights simply with my sister for simple reasons. I think this is so becuase we love her more

Hi doassodils I have two siblings too and both are younger to me.. As an older brother I care for them and love them unconditionally but there are times when they dont understand my love and fight with me.. I too get upset a lot and feel really hurt , but my mom always tells me that they are kids and when they grow up they will understand my love.. I think you need not change anything but even if they fight jsut try from your end try not to.. And just remember that quarells are common and whatever you do they will happen.. Instead just try to love them unconditionally and they will understand you.. cheers

lol your not mad. maybr you wer frustrated and you wanted to defuse your anger on someone. poor bro. dont miss a chance to show love

Of course you are not mad, it is something normal for siblings to get mad with each other from time to time, I am the fifth of five, and, while I was a child, we all lived in the same house, and there were fightings everyday, sometimes, for the dumbest things, nowadays, I miss it, maybe I am mad too. :)

Dear friend, from my point of view, is wrong, always arguing, mostly with a brother. However, in my opinion if you fight, deep down, there is a reason. Someone with good reason, someone is wrong. But if we believe that we are part of the reason, it is our right even at the cost of a fight, to be able to freely express our opinion. Then, let's say it frankly: we all sometimes we fight. Which is why not believe you mad!

Because you love your brother too much you demand more. That may be the reason you demand attention and affection. But it may also be due to possessiveness. Check that. It may appear a little not pleasant -- Remember after marriage you have to move to another house away from your brother. similarly your brother after his marriage has to devote more time towards his wife.

Of course I don't know you as a person knows a person but from what I've read from you, you do not strike me as a person that could be "mad" but like you said you quarrel and that is normal to have conflict with family. I think he wants agreement. You can give him that? Find something you do agree with him on. Like if you hear him say, I (that person being him) - I am stupid. You agree with him.

Hello my friend i know what you are talking of coz i am also misunderstanding with my brother sometimes, but i know that is the part of being brother and sister you both love each other but thats normal...

yeas your mad about him.i feel so because ,everytime you are talking about him. i dont know what to say,i realy miss such a relationship. i dont think you can be apart from him. go on you crazy girl. i dont know what to say..because i am mad.

Hahha that ok for bro and sister to fight went come in time you guys will sit down and laught abot this thing...family is the best place to be with

I also have a younger sister. When I had her do something for me but she didn't obey me. I felt so angry that I hit her very hard. And may be his brother said that to you when he's so angry. But he truly love you at all. Have you done something make him not satisfied? hehe..

Yes, Change your habit or the attitude of yourself so that the quarrel can be stopped. Just take a deep breath and a step backward, think for a moment how childish it is to continue quarreling at your age. Let your love for him conquer all the petty and insignificant event surrounding the starter, time to grown up and accept the adage that 'Silent is Golden' before opening your mouth next time.

Such quarrels often occurred with my sister when we were young and mama always scolded us. Now, she is married and i know how much i miss her and she too. you will feel the same after you get married, for sure. have a nice time.

Hi Dassodils: discussions between brothers are very common and I have found that as you get older and more mature, you both will start to understand your differences. That's what happen with my little sister. We love very much and we don't discuss very often. However, when things happen, I feel a little bit sad and depressed so my advice would be: try to avoid those situations that leads you to get mad with your brother and discuss with him. ALVARO

The quarrels between siblings are reconcilable. Since they know that they are siblings, they could quarrel non-stop but still be friends at the end of the day. Just be patient with your brother. Maybe you can give him a reverse psychology instead.

girls usually quarrel thats ok its genuine nature its suits them too. yes you are right its you love, love for your brother. i have seen lots of peoples get angry and quarell only on their loved one. its genuine we only quarrel on those with whom we are in relationships. and as he is your brother then these small and sweet tom and jerry fights a ready to happen all the time. go on you are not doing anything wrong

Come on. You know that he was not very serious on his comment. It is normal for brother and sister to fight. I too have a sister. And I fight with her every day ,and if in a day there is no fight between us I feel like my day is not properly complete that day. You know that your brother loves you too and the 'complement' was outcome of his love for you and not to be taken seriously. Keep fighting.