Just Curious...

I honestly think that the little girl that I was years ago would be pretty proud of the woman that I am today. The reason that I believe that to be the case is because of the fact that growing up I had two aspirations in life, those were to work in the medical field and to be a mother. Well, I've been lucky enough to have done both in my life. However, I have come to believe that being a mother is much more important to me than working outside the house.

I think that mini me will look at me and say: No way! That's me? I've changed soo much in just one year, learned so much and done so many things that were inimaginable for that little boy. The ones that don't really know me, think that i"ve changed in bad, but my true friends know that is not that way. If they can't understand something they think that it's evil.

I had a very difficult childhood and I don't think I would have ever asked that question although it is a very good question. Considering the childhood I had, I think I have done as well as I could have done. I have a wonderful husband and two beautiful children and I have God on my side. However, the thing that I hold close that I still want so badly is to become a well known actress. I still have that inside of me.

Hi, Bamboee, I think that you are too humble. The fact that you remember your childhood dreams speaks a lot about you. This is a great question, thanks for sharing it. I see that other people too can answer right away but it's no the case with me. I'm not sure if I remember well the little girl I was so many years ago. And it's hard to evaluate the achievements in my life. It's worth it to think about all this. Thanks again for this question.

That is a really good question. I think for the most part that child in me would be happy about what I'm doing and trying to do with my life.But I think that the child would have wanted me to make other decisions to lead my life in a different direction. But I wasn't a patient person and so now I have to deal with the consequences of those choses.

First of I think when your a child you don't see any limitations you think you can have it all and be it all. And then when you become an adult life hits you hard and open your eyes. So I think your adult self most likely won't be what your child self inticipated. I have a lot of regrets and tons of I shoudve, I wish I,and gosh what was I thinking lol. But I think the mistakes and challenges that accompany our life makes us stronger and prepares us for a bigger storm. So instead of regreting we didnt live our dreams. We should be thankful we are still alive and still able to be what our child self wanted to be. In short be thankful for what you have and continue trying to make your dreams come true you still have time.

This is a very interesting discussion. I personally think that the child I once was, would be relatively proud of what I have become. I have followed most of the goals that I had set for myself. I have graduated high school, I have married the man of my dreams and we have a wonderful family together. I also have started to follow the career goals that I had set out for myself. I have always loved reading and when I was younger I decided that I wanted to be a writer. Now, I am 30 years old, I have taken a course in free lance writer course, and I am working on making my short story into a full novel. Now that I have grown up I have made new goals, the first of which is to finish and publish my novel. I know that there are some goals which I haven't fulfilled but for the most part I think that I have done pretty good. Great discussion. Happy mylotting.

I dont think the little girl would be proud of my either that i once was. I think she would be proud that im actually working in the field that my family once did and that my grandfather had as well. Being in the construction industry is what my family did in the past and i have kept it in the family but not sure if that little girl even knew that back then. Growing up i wanted to be in Miss America and be a dance teacher. Of course things change in life and after i turned 18 there were no dance studios here offering adult classes and if they did they werent good for me. I also wanted to be married and have kids by the age of 23 but that didnt happen either and things jsut keep getting pushed to the back and also still living at home isnt what i was expecting either. Hopefully this year will have a change for me and moving out on my own will work and hopefully to be married by next year would be nice as well.

Well i think that child from the past can look up to the man in the present. I changed a lot and so have my dreams. I also started loving to fight( fightig sports). I once did this and the trainers said i had talent in it. That's how some of my dreams drastically changed. Of course your mind changes as your body does. I feel more free now then i was before. Going out with friends and all that stuff. But still i became a little less hapier. Now i can think clearly. But when i look at the world. I become really sad then. As child i never tought of it, but now I do too badly enough. I really want a better world than this one. Still I'm happy with my life right now. Hope this respond helped you ;)