Still I Love Him.... :) :)

dont lieave him.i dont say it...beacause i know how deep is your relation.but please think da.. what will be the future? you cant stay with him.. so please start thinking dear friend.. i love your friendship and i miss such friendship....

Dassodils: You should not avoid him. He is your brother from your birth and he will continue to so for all the times to come. Tolerate his scolding and still move freely. I think his scolding you makes you love him more.

Dassodils thats well and good but if he is making you c ry,he is not showing much real love to you. when we love each other we do our best not to upset and make one other cry. He has to start respecting you as a young woman and as his sister.to make you cry is going way to far. that is abusive and I do not give a darn if you love him to pieces why do you let him abuse you to the point of tears, my gosh he is only your brother not your parent, He really has no right to abuse you by making you cry. nothing is accomplished by hurting you., do not you see he is acting like a jerk? Sisters are not supposed to be hurt by their brothers. talk to your parents if need be as his motives are at odds with what a loving brother should do. stop letting him do this to you. do get mad and fight back. this has to stop. He is not acting out of love but out of spite

Of course you love him, that´s so nice and cute, you are a good sister, I would never advise a person to avoid a loving one. I have noticed from your discussions that you have a complex relationship with him, yet, I can also notice that you love each other. In this as in any other relationship, though, you have to show respect, of course, but, also, you have to demand, respect in return, and, maybe you should be a little bit more keen on this issue. You should ask for respect, and him to show you love as well, regardless of how upset he can be sometimes.

What about being good brother? Has he forgot about it? Why you should remember to be polite to him? AS I see He doesn't make any effort to be polite to you.

It might be that he does some things to get a reaction from you. I know he is family and avoiding him is not a good idea, but you can change the way you react to things. When he says these things that upset you, just ignore them, don't let them upset you. This may take a few times for you to try it, but in the end it may get him to stop bothering you like that. If he sees that you no longer react in such a fashion, he should eventually stop.

That is how family works my friend. They will scold you till you die, they will annoy your, they will punish you but in the end of all of it you know it is for your own good and that they do it because they love you :D

Hi Dassodils: Well, I can tell you that I completely understand you. I am also a brother and though I frequently discussed with my little sister for the most stupid things, I can't imagine my life without her. she is very important to me and I care for her. Discussions are normal when you are living everyday with the same person, it's just part of relationships and it's beautiful that you appreciate your brother so much. ALVARO

That is so sweet of you to love your brother no matter how bad things may go between you two. I guess some people call it tough love. Maybe your brother is just giving you the tough brother act but deep inside, he is really as gentle and as caring especially when it comes to your welfare. If you have time, try to talk to him. Make him talk and talk your heart out as well. Anything is possible and achievable when there's real communication. You have to listen to what he has to say, why he treats you that way and at the same time, convey your thoughts and your feeling very carefully to him as well. Compromise and come to a mutual understanding especially when a particular thing concerns the both of you.

That's good. You're such a good and sweet sister. I'm kinda in the same boat with you.. but, it is between me and my mother. We often argue for silly things. I don't talk to her when I get upset but in the next morning, its like I forgot what we've been through the past days and we're good as best friends again!

Hello, Dassodils! Based on your post, I can understand that you cry because you're scolded by your brother. Why did he scold you? Because you committed a mistake. It means to say that he's trying to help you correct your mistakes, if they can still be corrected. Please correct me if I'm wrong. You always cry everytime your brother questions and corrects the wrongs you did. Is that correct? You cry because you don't want him to scold you even if you did was wrong. Is that also correct? If I were your brother, I would also scold you. But I'll do my best to explain to you that I scolded you because you're always doing something which is not good, and you should always avoid it. Scolding is wrong. It shouldn't be used to correct one's mistakes. But because we have emotions and we tend to react right away to what happened, we can't help it but to scold someone. My advice to your brother: Please do your best to explain to Dassodils in a very polite manner why you're scolding her. Avoid scolding as much as you can. Instead, if you're about to scold her, stop, think twice, get out for a while, think about it again, and then go back. Approach Dassodils and politely explain what she shouldn't have done and what she should have done.

I don't think your love for your brother will change him/his behavour in time. I do hope one day he will realize what a terrible person he is and that he doesn't deserve to be loved that way. I also hope your brother won't break you and you will keep believing in yourself. Since you are the only one you can relay on. Blessings for you and please know when to stop and leave.

Its akind of love that we cannot leave from our brother.whatever happened a brother is still a brother as they say we can change lover but not our family,from parents to brother and sisters.For sure what he did to you is because he cares about you.He only forget to explain you well and dont realise that your already grown up.He still look at you as her little sister that he need to take care always.

I really apreciate your attitude anyway that was normal to love with our sister or brother and most special is our parents.I really really agree the way you are thumbs up

Is this an older brother younger sister thing? Where he is trying to teach you the way of life and he is not doing in a very nice way? Ofcourse you love him! He is your blood kin.

I've never came across a pair of siblings who do not argue or fight...and its been the same with them since their childhood yet they care for each other when time demands!Its no different with me either.Just that you quarrel doesn't mean you hate your siblings.Elder ones should always take of their younger siblings!

I just want to say that you have very kind heart. I often read in your discussions that you had many conflicts with your brother. But today I almost not believe when you say that you still love him...God Bless You, friend... I hope your brother read this post and aware how you love him, although he often hurt your heart.