Second Chance

No I don't think all people should be give a second change. Some people never change at all. Depending on what happened and what was done yes things can be forgiven then or later down the road and some can never be forgiven at all.

I always believe in second chances too but I myself too find it hard to trust someone in making right that specific wrong he has commited even after I have given them that second chance. We never really know what to expect of that person after what he/she might have done. If you cry, it means that that person is really close to you. Should either be your bestfriend, partner or a member of your family. Some people are just like that my friend. They bring up the past mistakes we have done and use that against us. Try telling that person about what he/she is doing and that the past is already in the past. Otherwise, you would just have to live that way and understand the kind of person he/she is. You might want to prove that you are capable of not repeating the same mistakes again though.

People make mistakes and that can be denied.All have the opportunity to have a second chance as long as one promises not to make mistakes anymore. Some others are not forgiving and give punishment. To me, punishment is only given by God. We human beings should be forgiving no matter how the mistakes hurt us.

Hi there cearn25! You are right, everyone deserves a second chance. But if your friend or other half keeps on bringing it back to you and slam it to your face well i think that must be very rude. Whatever the past is well i think you should somehow forget it and move on.. Don't cry dear, just think of happy thoughts! :) God Bless.

Yes a second chance is rather something that should be allowed for any. Granted it is up to the person what they rather decide to do with their second chance to say the very least. There are just going to rather going to be a lot of times where mistakes are going to be made. Some of those mistakes are going to be rather large to say the very least. Yet everyone really does deserve a chance to rather make things right. To make things much better than it were. Granted, there are times where people will take that second chance and squander it. That is their problem. But there are going to be times where some people are rather going to do the best that they can with their second chance.

I believe if someone made a mistake first time and commits it again then they dont deserve another chance.What's stopping them to do it again?

I think so but after that it would take a lot for me to give another one.

Well, for me I believe everyone deserves a second chance, as long as there are gonnga be changes from henceforth... But still, some scars needs time to heal for them to be able to give us that second chance that we long for...

i guess we deserve to have a second change, sometimes people nor we cant avoid to make mistakes as we thought it was just ok and only then to realize it wasnt so we tend to re-correct that mistakes again and how do we know if we didnt give a second change. though we really cant avoid the pain but somehow it will gone by time specially if that person really proves that they really change a lot. thats what i did with my ex when he tried to come back for our baby sake since he left us, i will give him a change and lets see if he will deserve it and if not then thats the time i will call it final for him.

For me, I can give all the chance to anyone but I can't assure that the trust will be that full also. He should do all the effort he can to earn back my trust. I just don't understand why there's people make their lives and their partner miserable by just bringing back the past. Yes, we can learn from it but it can't give any success being hostile toward a rival before. We should move on for a better and lasting relationship! Goodluck Cearn!

It's tough when people always bring up the most ugly part of your past just to prove something and it hurts when you truly believe that you have changed. I reckon everyone deserves a second chance, those who really regret it and truly recognize what they did was wrong, they sure need a second chance. People shouldn't consider a person's past and bring it up because those memories hurt. You know that person has changed, no need to bring up their darkest times again and make them regretful because they have regretted and suffered already. Give them a chance. Like you said, no one is perfect.

It depends on the person and situation. But genereally speaking I don't believe everybody deserves a second chance. Way too many people had a second and even third chance and they only turned out to be worser or more evil. A fox' hair can turn grey but it's habits will never change (dutch saying). But this doesn't mean I would not give someone a chance who is good to me. I don't care about someone's past which was before my time. What counts to me is that the person is good to me. I will treat that person the same way he/she is treating me. I seldom ask someone for his/her past. It's not important to me. So yes I do have criminals as friends and they are good to me and I can trust them. That is enough for me. Why a person close to you can't accept your past I don't know. If that person can't accept your past it means he/she is not accepting you. Personally I would not like to have such a person around me. I think you are able to be unhappy and misserable alone, you don't need someone to stab you in the back each time. I would advice you to go on with your life. Believe in yourself and be positive. That way you will attract also positive people, people who like you for how you are and treat them. Remember we all have a past and if you dig far enough you will always find something that is not acceptable to someone else. The most important thing is you believe in yourself, you know what went wrong and you are able to correct it next time. That is what life is about, we live it and learn from our experiences. Blessings to you.

Maybe this person got really hurt from your actions in the past or he/she afraid of not happening the same to him/her. Maybe is a person who does not forgive easily or does not want to forgive and it depends also on what your past is and how it is connected to this person. Some people also want to make others cry and hurt so be aware of this person because he/she might enjoy this or use it as a self defence in your fights.

its easy to have a second chance,.,but you didnt know if your second chance will be sucess..