I will Kill Him...!!!!
By Dassodils
@Dassodils (2010)
India
January 24, 2012 10:22am CST
Hello friends....
I like to share my bad feeling here...My neighbour is aged about more than 60...He don't have any Jobs..He always stay at his home..He is looking all the girls in a bad manner.. who aged between 15-25...One day he looked me with a bad look..I told this to my father and he went to his home and talked about that...At last, My father given him a warning as first and last..Now he is behaving in a good manner..But I can see that old and ugly look from his eyes..I don't know that Why such people behave like that????That look makes everybody(girls) upset....Do you have such experience???? If,Please share it to me...I am eagerly waiting to hear that...Thanks in advance..
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22 responses
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
25 Jan 12
I understand joking, innocent folly, loose taking and very human compulsions. All is well with a heart that contains some kind of goodness.
Seriously. I will kill you with kindness. Look me over, treat me nice, tell me you care and even entice but show me ugly or profanities vulgar demise in words, in gesture or even in evil eyes and I will call on my God and even ask twice, remove this offender from my space and it doesn’t matter of what age.
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
24 Jan 12
Just try to avoid him whenever you see him by the road. You know what, he just want you attention. Don't be fooled. Good thing you told your father about the man. Anyway, don't mind him since he is old. Give him chance.
As for me, I don't have kind of experience like yours. Only just I met people who are very ignorant trying to joke around with me. But I don't let them do it to me. I am not an easy girl. I don't talk to them nor smile at them.
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@Dassodils (2010)
• India
26 Jan 12
Thats a good idea cearn. I am doing this for days, but no change. This man is very bad, looking me with a bad intention at all.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Jan 12
This man is from a completely different time. A time when young women acted alot different than what he is seeing in you and the others. And he is not as patient as he was thirty years ago or more. And there may even be a tenge of jealousy because his life is coming to a close and you young women are so cute he is feeling bad over being too old to flirt or other wise enjoy them.
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@microengineer (587)
• Indonesia
25 Jan 12
Be careful with the man, although your father already warn him. It might spark anger in him (if he can not accept to be warned). It is better to avoid meet him alone, or passing him alone. I have no experience, but can feel the feeling (I have sisters).
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@urbandekay (18278)
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25 Jan 12
It is a common saying meaning; one should not take offence from a look
all the best urban
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Jan 12
The closest that I've ever had to an experience like this was actually with my ex's father. My ex and I had been together for quite some time before I ever met his father because he lived with his mother and we would frequently go up to my house and stay there for the weekend. Well, he and his sister eventually went to live with their dad for a time and he was a pretty dirty person.
I never really thought anything about some of the stories that I'd heard about him until the time that he tried to get me to go to bed with him because I was older than his son, but I'd been with his son.
From that minute on, I lost every semblance of respect that I'd ever had for him.
@starsailover (7829)
• Mexico
28 Jan 12
Hi Dassodils: That's so creepy. There are so many sick people outside that we have to be cautious because you never know people's intentions. At least something tells you that this pervert person is wanting to do something that is simply not right with you. Try to take care of yourself. Take care.
ALVARO
@cassije74 (247)
• Philippines
31 Jan 12
Hi Dassodils ! upon reading your title " I will Kill Him " seems you are really that desperate to kill that person. I was intrigued about the situation to make you fall into that feelings. Ouuch... I understand how you feel about that old man.
For him looks may change but never his heart and his mind .. owww !!! Or rather Physically uncapable but mentally capable. ( 0www !!!)
Well, dont mind that old man and ignore him as well as try to avoid his presence so as not to ruin your mood and day. That kind of person is satisfying lust for himself which more women disgust him and try to "kill him" as you say so.He is just that insecure and it maybe his way of grabbing others attention to him. Good, your father talked to him, so he stopped having negative impact to you. The earlier the better before anything else get worst... Take care.
@sjvg1976 (41289)
• Delhi, India
25 Jan 12
Hello Dassodils,
I don't agree with you as you cannot say anything about anyone the way he stares at youI don't think there is any fault of that man unless he says something bad to you or try to hurt you.You must understand that there are several people like this old man in this world and your father cannot threat everyone so its better try to ignore people like this.
@anne25penn (3305)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
I don't have such problems with my neighbors. My mother usually has a problem with everyone who looks at her and this usually causes some problems for me because she would start a fight within our neighborhood and expect me to join in the fray. I don't really care how a person looks at me. I don't look at them and ignore them. But if they come to me, touch me, or speak to me in an ill-mannered way then it would be a different story. But just by looking, I am not bothered.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
25 Jan 12
What a horrible man! I remember when I was in college , there was a similar man like this.We used to go by the local bus called "town bus" to our college. All the girls in the bus stand were aware of this man and he was termed "idikkara aal"[meaning he used to keep knocking against us when the bus moved].He was terrible and in those days [this was thirty five years ago] we were all quite timid though we used to go to college and did get a higher level of education. We used to avoid him like the plague.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
I understand what you feel.
Yes,I had same experience like this long time ago.
That's really irritating and wish to kill the person as well (lolz) just kiddking, but such kind of look is sooo annoying that we want to push that person in the middle of the road to be hit by cars :p
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
25 Jan 12
oh oh! That's really terrible. Well, you said your father has warned him and now he behaves properly, but you can still see 'the ugly looks' in his eyes. Would just suggest you to avoid looking into his eyes for those looks or else he may complain your father saying that you keep staring at him. You never know with such people. So, try avoiding him. Consider him to be non-existent.
@stuckonu (726)
• Philippines
25 Jan 12
Not to stereotype but yeah there are those what we called "DOM" (Dirty Old Man) who are likely to take advantage of young girls. There was one in our place and he was so notorious that if there are new girls, he will always approach them and ask a lot of questions and look at them like he's a teen ager. Well, some people are just plain numb, I guess.
@Luciano63 (157)
• France
24 Jan 12
Honestly do you really think that this is a bad thing for you so bad to put you in such a state of mind? So much to ask your father to go talk to the man to let him understand how he is supposed to look at you? Come on! Wake up! Who cares! Do not look at him unless you enjoy this eye contact thing...