Am i Crazy or Just Paranoid?

I think your husband has made a reasonable request to help YOU .. don't read too much into ok .. its just a thought from him to resolve it ... sometimes our paranoia takes over and that is when problems start .. so my advice smile and say ok baby lets try it :) after all unless there is more to your problem than you say what's the harm ?

if you've been doing that since your wedding night or since you started sharing a bed together, don't be alarmed so much because it may just be him that you have to accept. The thing is, if you started sweet, sharing a small quilt, small bed, cuddled together that you can fit sleeping together in a sofa, then suddenly here comes the separation of quilt proposal, that would really mean something. that would be a valid reason for you to get paranoid. good luck!

I don't think you are crazy or paranoid. I do think that men and women see things totally differently. He does not realize it upsets you. Of course men can be dense to what women feel a majority of the time. Just take the time to explain it to him.

I don't want to seem against you.. but really.. you're a little paranoid.. Me and my hubs were together for 10 years before we got married. Lived 8 of those years together.. Been married for one year. We share almost everything, but some things we don't share. Among them is the covers. We never shared only one cover. We both love wrapping up in the covers entirely. No matter how big a cover is you can't fit 2 people in it if at least one, and especially if both want to wrap up in it. I have my hand made quilt that me and my mother worked on. I love it. It's huge. It could cover both of us but I wrap up in it and tuck the rest under my head. I like sleeping without a pillow for that matter. He has his own covers that he wraps up in. It's just how we like to sleep. Sometimes we just cuddle together and throw both our covers on us. It's not like he does it intentionally.. He just likes that. If you keep denying it to him he'll just get angry and frustrated.. Try and get a second cover.. That has nothing to do with a second bed, second room, or home.. you're going too far with this.. It's just the simple pleasure of wrapping up in a cover.

hey there bamboee, I have a questions is it really cold at night, do you still love make, or has the flame gone out any changes in his moods thus he tend to liking the aloness, if not dont worry your selfe too much if it is happening try to talk to him what is going on.

that is a real beautiful quilt and its very big that's crazy that he hogs all the cover well my husband does the same thing he hogs all the cover he said that since he was little he always had a cover to himself and that is the only way he would fall asleep so we both got are separate covers but i'm ok with it i just like that he hugs me to sleep .

its nice and yes its not big enough to accomodate 2 people as if its my bed then its only good for me coz i used to move around a lot when i sleep, we had a family size bed before and he told me that his not even moving coz his afraid he will fall coz he only have small space and he was not able to sleep at night because of it then we planned of changing it to queen size bed to be much bigger then we broke up so it didnt happened but then if ever then why not change it to queen size for more space you can sell that one and just add some for new bed. and sometimes if we are angry or not in the mood we sometimes say bad words that we really dont mean to say and for the guys they just ignore it coz they are not emotional unlike women so dont worry its just one of the problem that normally occurs so it will just go.

It is his sleep habits. I'm sure it is something he has done since he was a kid and it's hard to control yourself when you're tired and cold. Don't turn this into something more than it is or it will become more than it is. Separate blankets isn't the end of a relationship. But if you still feel like it is, just get a bigger quilt.

Do I see 7 pillows? Well, it is a quilt. Just a quilt. Don't let it be anything more than it is. If you would feel something out of it, that something is definitely more than what you see in a quilt. Go to the source of the problem and solve it. Ever came to your mind that maybe, just maybe, that you are the problem? Perhaps you are just being overly sensitive? Perfection in life is non-existent unless you can specify it in details. I am sure your expectations will be changing by the day and you will be tormented needlessly for the want of something impossible. Your husband was just being playful. Nothing serious.

Honestly, fighting over a quilt is just insane. If you cuddled up more you wouldn't be fighting over it.

there is love in sharing ,there is no end in separating i think you are right there, but stop dreaming and become realistic