I'll Court A Guy.

hi ok im not entirely sure i understand what you mean by courting a guy? do you mean make first move and ask him for date? or do you mean you are the one making arrangements and doing the chasing with flowers chocolates etc etc? well as people have mentioned, its 1012 so if you want to be the one makes first move then go for it. i am a shy guy and when i was young i would have appreciated the first move made form the women as it made my shyness less of a problem :) as for making all the moves by arranging all the dates .. well that is something that can be shared so i would not suggest you do it all :)

Sounds very challenging. But, I don't know if I could ever court a guy. It sounds very awkward! But, if you can, you're probably one brave lady.

My initial reaction would be: "This girl is different!" We live in a society where the guys are supposed to be the dominant alpha male and do all the courting. However, coming from a guy's perspective, sometimes it would be really awesome to have a girl who are confident in herself enough to approach me. The guy is put under a lot of pressure to be planning things out and executing while the girls take a more passive approach and judge whether he would be the right one for her. To that I say, "Bullcrap!" If a girl sees a guy she's interested in, she should also be ready to start a small talk with him. Guys don't have the built-in ability to interpret signs coming from a girl, we just approach her and hope for the best. Though you better make sure that's the one you want to court is actually the right one and prepared to get some rejections. Some guys just not ready to see girls approach them.

I would love it if a girl courted me. Actually, that's a huge turn on.