Does this guy like me or is he just being polite?

It is hard to say if he is giving you signs or not. Perhaps the best thing to do is meet at a neutral location for lunch or something like that, and see where talking gets you. Since he has already invited you to his apartment, it should not be a problem to meet you somewhere for lunch. Going to the apartment may be a bit much at first, and you may feel uncomfortable there, or you may have a difficult time recognizing signs. The neutral location would be better. And please get away from that "fat" thing. There is no ideal looks in a woman or a man, except for the look that another finds appealing. I don't know by what measure you are calling yourself fat, but one persons fat is another persons perfect. Personally I don't like "stick figures", and maybe he does not either.

Hi... It is certain now that he has a liking for you.. You need to make sure that that liking is a 'decent' one, if you know what I mean... He likes you, no doubt.. It might be a friendly approach too.. Just make sure that you don't trust him too early... take care...

i guess you could say that he likes you. but you must be careful in proceeding with that notion. it may be a liking to his way. by inviting you to his apartment and spending time with you because you are lonely, there are not good signs of a good liking. proceed with caution with this guy, unless you want to take a huge risk.

hi there chaklipakli, This is a tough one, because there are guys that are really shady and they might just disappoint you since they are truly just being polite but there are some who even makes you feel the world hates you and then later gives you all of his time effort and love and marries you. so i guess just try to be friends if he makes the mve then it is real if he doesnt then i guess its your call.

I think as you told that he is son of your dad's friend so may be his dad has asked him to look after you as you are in a new city and he is just being nice to you..yes he is a nice guy offcourse and he is just behaving in courteous manner...I would suggest you(if i can) don't take any wrong signals to your mind and have a nice healthy frienship with him as you are in new city you need someone to guide and help and moreover he is your dad's friend son so somewhere he will be better than some unknown person and if you carry to think on these wrong signals may be that you loose some good friend in him..

Never down yourself! You are beautiful, so tell yourself that! The guy seems to be going through some trouble to make sure you are comfortable in the new city, so don't turn down his advances if you're interested. Just give it some time and don't jump into anything. Get to know the guy better, and if things are meant to be, they will.

He sounds to be a very sweet guy. Although I am not sure whether he loves you or just being polite, but obviously he shall like you and he has a good impression to you. I think you shall give him a chance to see what will be next. In fact sometimes girls shall have some confidence to themselves. Some think they are fat but actually they are not. A skinny girl is not good-looking. I love China

wow all that he forgot was to send you the gold lettered invitation :) but..... be careful when you go ok , as his idea of you staying at his apartment may be considerably different to yours :)

Hello Chaklipakli and welcome to my lot. Well to tell you the truth when I met the man I am married to I was so fat I would cry all the time because of how my husband then treated me. I met my new husband and he treated me like a lady and said that my husband shouldn't be so mean to me. He said then and still to this day that beauty is only skin deep it is what is in the heart that matters. The day I met him I prayed and asked God if I had done anything right in my life would HE (God) please give me this man. And sure enough he was mine in three short months. So maybe the guy isn't just being polite not sure but pray about it and ask God to show you what you should do. But it sounds to me like he might be a pretty nice guy and maybe he is the man for you. But pray about it and ask God for HIS advice on what to do HE (God) will show you the right path to take. Good luck on what ever you decide to do.

LOL. MY bestfriend is HEALTHY as well, but she attracts boys more than I can. The guy may genuinely like you or he is just being so nice knowing you are someone new in the area and basically you guys are like family friends. :) There is no sure way of knowing but, wouldn't it be nice to verify first whether he is single or he has a girlfriend.

What exactly has you being fat to do with this? You really think men are only friendly, polite or interested in skin women? I think if a guy is calling you so many times, is inviting you so many times he is more as just being polite. Accept his invitation, take one step by an other and see what happens. Perhaps it's not love but a good friend is very valuable too!

Hi I think that he likes you, we (boys) start pressing a bit at the beginning to make sure the girl understands and answers positively to keep on building a trusty relationship to make it into a loving one....however he couls also be just very polite or simply looking for a friend girl. The best way to discover it is to go out with him without falling into his arms too quickly...

Hey, You may think that you are a little healthy, but that is not always what all guys look in girls. Apart from external beauty, internal beauty also matters a lot. He might have liked something in you that you may not be aware as of now. And it should not matter. Go out with him on a friendly outing. Once you will spend some time with him, you will yourself be able to figure out how you should proceed further. And remember to not trust anyone so early. Just be goof friends for a while.