Why a guy decide to cheat?

There are a dozen of reasons to cheat by a guy, it is strictly personal, it is difficult to pinpoint the real reason, only a cheater can tell you the main reason behind. It could be done out of boredom, or for excitement sake, or just want to break the heart of his lover/ girl friend for revenge and etc...

like many poeple would say there are many reasons why we as man can cheat on our partners, because of attention, we as man we need full attention and loyal this is my case im 100% faithful but only if i get everything i give in return, one thing i dont like from girls is that most of them like to be flouring around wearing sexy clothes, which is the main reason we as man cheat on girls because there a lot of girls offering themselves everywhere

Hi Reinykwan , well for me both parties now tend to cheat, it's not only man who is caught with this situation. I think maybe they are bored, or they know their differences but they don't want to change then this will result of giving up on each other and finding someone that they like .

I can't speak for other guys, but I've never cheated on any woman I've dated. I will say that I haven't been in many relationships in my life though. I personally believe we live in a society that upholds some men by how many women they can conquer. There aren't enough real men to teach the younger generations that chasing a lot of women is not right. I just think it comes down to a lot of different things that causes it. It's not right, but it's one of those things that happens unfortunately.

It happns to be boys nature as we all know that men are more inclined towards physical appearances and outer world as compared to girls.I think its not necessary its always boredom..there are reasons like being adventurous, attraction towards new one, lack of commitment, and now a days like a trend of having more than one girlfrien is keeping on to the standards..so to me i think all these can be the reason and at the last.."MEN ARE GOING TO BE MEN"

i think it solely vary from person to person or rather a boy to boy. many a guys are feared of commitment which made them cheat on their girlfriends and partners. well everyone can admit this that a girl is more "emotional"and sensitive regarding a relation more than a guy. when a guy thinks that he is over with his partner and is not able to give that spontaneity to the relation he chooses to leave her. many a times there can reasons that compel him to cheat on her provided it might do good to both of them and their lives. there can be a lot of reasons for cheating provided the fact that its a "guy"

First lets say that not only guys cheat, women do too. That being said I don't understand why people cheat either. It just doesn't seem to make sense to me as to why someone would do that. If they aren't happy then they should not continue the relationship even if it is marriage. Cheating just doesn't make sense to me.

Cheating has a built in biological component to it too. As males are supposed to mate with as many females as possible in order to leave their offsprings. Even for couples in love, guys can still look at other hot girls when they walk by. I'm a realist so I see that love only lasts for so long before the romance wears off and then the guy and girl don't see their partner as the wonderful, loving, sweet person that they knew before. After 3 months going out with each other, you see both the positives AND the negatives of each other. After that it's really up to the couple to work out things and compromise in order to stay together. If one of them gives up on trying to be together, it won't work out. One person can't give 75% while the partner only gives 25%.

I think nowadays its quite easy not only for guys to cheat but also for women. I think maybe it may be because we are currently living in a modern age and that people also tend to change as times goes on. Women nowadays are much more liberated as compared to before and i think they are better cheaters than guys. Well, maybe its because that when guys usually easly get caught when cheating unlike with women who are quite hard to catch when they cheat but it maybe in just some cases. There are lots of reasons why men and women cheat, it may be because they are unable to resist temptation or it may also be due to the previous experience they had that made them decide to rather cheat than to stay sincere in a relationship and in some cases maybe they just got bored from their relationship. Based from my experience as time goes by, it seems harder finding a someone who could stay sincere and true in a relationship.

Sometimes there is a good valid reason and sometimes there is not. :/ A guy usually doesn't need a reason to cheat. They just do it for the heck of it. :)

It's not always the guys who cheats, girls can cheat too but I guess guys can caught the most. I guess when there's soemthing not right about the relationship say there was a big fight or the guy doesn't really feel comfortable in the relationship, he may seek another person and cheat on his partner. I guess it gives them a sense of security being with another person. I guess it could be cowardliness as well, if there is soemthing not right with the relationship the guy needs to confront the girl, not go off and cheat on her. I don't understand why some people just can't tell their partner straight up that their relationship can't work, cheating just ruins the relationship even more and loses the trust.

possibly that the guy is bored with her partner or with the relationship he's into..but whatever the reason is, it's still unacceptable..because if he can get out into the relationship than staying to it and do the cheating stuff..it adds more to the injury..

In my opinion, it is not only guy who cheat when they are not yet married. While in married couple most of cheater is guy. I am not sure, may be it is a nature of human that we can easily boring. Especially when a man and woman always met every day. Or may be they already found out that before married they always hide the truth of them, so they are upset about it and make everything become a mess. Or may be the guy has need a thrilling moment, they like the feeling of doing something that has danger in it. May be those are a few thing that cause guy to cheat.

sometimes a person are not aware that they are already cheaters.they can easily get tempted.they cheat because they are not commit themselves to one relationship though the relationship is serious.

WOW how sexist are you ? A cheat is NOT only a man .. many women cheat also. it is not a discussion of why a MAN cheats it should be why your partner cheats on you .. and there is never an easy answer but i agree one thing.. if someone cheats once they will always cheat so leave them and do not allow them back in your life to break your heart whether you are MALE or FEMALE .. and before all the women start screaming it is men who cheat i am sure there are just as many men who have had their hearts broken by women ...

Plenty reasons for cheating. We don't know for sure reason why people like to cheat his/her partner (not always who cheat). Only person who doing it know why they done that.

Men are born polygamous by nature. They tend to seek for another partner to prove their male superiority. Being bored is not the reason neither is it the loss of affection. Men do have more insecurities that they want to prove to themselves that women will fall for their charms. It is just unfortunate when they find the other girl better than you are. Should that be the case, move on. It might be difficult looking for that perfect partner who will love and cherish you. It is sometimes easier to build a wall and never to learn to love and trust again to prevent another heartache. However, not all men were created the same. Some do still know how to love but they have become a very rare specie and might just become extinct in a few more years.

first of ALL , every one could cheat , guys AS well AS girls , i think persons who cheat have no consderattion to love , they look only for meeting thier needs using love as a means To achieve thier targets .

Guys will always cheat at times for no reason at all. At times we just want to prove a point and at times it's just lust.

simply because he found another one that keeps his heart pumping like is there's no tomorrow :D im just kidding.... probably he's not happy to his entire relationship.. and particularly hes not the type who can longer a relationship