forgive again ?

well first can i ask did she know its sentimental value to you ? if she didn't then you can discuss it with her and tell her how sad you feel she did this to you and i'm sure she will help you repair it and apologise. If she did know but she tool it anyway then you need to be strong and tell her how disappointed you are in her actions and how hurt she has made you feel and she must repair the damage. being a friend is one thing but you must never let people walk over you ok .. you need be strong and they need to respect your wishes and your property and especially your sentiments of your beloved grandmother :)

I'm sorry to hear that. What your friend had done is really annoying. She should had known the importance the dress means to you. How could she treat it like this?Maybe it's necessary for her to learn more about respect and cherish friendship. However, on the other hand, think about the old times you two share together, I guess she really brings a lot of happiness to your life regardless of her such behavior this time. Also Forgiveness is good virtue. It can make our life much better if we can learn to forgive sometimes. Taken these two facts together, I suggest you give her a chance to fix your broken heart.

hi chum24! same here, i just got back. well, forgiveness comes with love. maybe you need to talk to your friends so that same problem will not occur over and over. open communication is the key to any relationship and there's should always a balance of give and take. don't just give and give, learn to not if necessary. maybe, your friend thinks that since you constantly forgive her for something she did wrong, she got used to it. you are only human that things may upset you most of the time. think first dear, weigh your friendship. is it still a healthy relationship? remember, it's hard to find a true friend. and if the friend you are talking about has many good deeds than her flaws, then why not forgive her but talk to her about what you feel. for sure she will understand where are you coming from. God bless you!

why dont you said directly to her that you dont like her wearing your dress which is close to your heart?dont get angry on her. Better you say it straight what you dont like to her. Otherwise friendship wont be good.

i think you need to talk to her about how disappointed you with her. she needs to know about your feel with her now and she need to know(more and again) how valuable the dress for you. in friendship, we must be respectful of other peoples feelings. Although we have been so close and so long friendship with him, but if shes always let us down, and shes no longer respect to us, we also have to be firm about that.

Have you ever talk to her about the dress before she used it? maybe a little misunderstanding between you and your friend... sometimes we or our friends if feeling so close to each other we don't even ask about the things of our friends before we use it, it's the understanding that hey we're friends and you don't get mad about it or if you're the one who used it you're friend didn't got mad about it. but of course in some instances there is limitations to that depending on both of you whatever it is. you can discuss with her your problem and forgive her afterwards she's your friend be open.

why dont you said directly to her that you dont like her wearing your dress which is close to your heart?dont get angry on her. Better you say it straight what you dont like to her. Otherwise friendship wont be good.

hi chum, sorry to hear about your torn precious dress. I know your a good friend, but what your friend did was too much. She should have asked you even though you're really close. Too bad the one she borrowed was your favorite. And if she's a real friend, she should return the dress with good condition and not torn. What you can do for now is that, tell it to your friend that she can't borrow anything from your unless you approved. And i hope that you'll still forgive her. Don't end your friendship just because of this. I think this can be solve.

I have to agree with the first 2 responses maybe there was some mis communication between the two of you. But really coming from a girl I know how you feel. I havn't had the same exact thing happen but for me it was a little closer to the heart and I told her I didn't appreciate it and there for a while I quit talking to her to show her that I meant business and wasn't just going to forgive her for ruining something so precious to me. I'm not suggesting you do that but it really depends on what you think you should do, think back about the things in the past you have forgiven her for were they big things litle things, thats what I always think about when somebody has done me wrong. Best of luck to you! I hope you and your friend can work things out.

I think you need to talk to your friend about that. She needs to know that you need your space too. she can borrow some of your dress but not the one that had a really sentimental value to you. maybe she did not know that it's not okay for you the she uses your dress. hope can have serious talk to her.