whom i will chose the one who love me or the one i love..

I think it is much better to tell her to her that you like another woman. Even it can really hurt her so much you must tell it to her than you cheat on her. I think it will much easy to her to move on if she will hear the truth from you. Relationship is like loving each other,understanding each other so if you just feel pity on her that why you can't tell to her that you don't love her anymore. Relationship is worthless anymore.

my question is: do you think the other girl, the one that you are in love felt the same way for you? Do you think she is willing to do everything for you? Do you think she is willing to make you happy and feel loved? Those are just some questions for you to ponder. ;-) Good luck my friend. Happy mylotting.

You have it backwards. If you are staying with the one who loves you Just out of obligation and you have no love for her then you are hurting her. You are making her waste her time. You are living a lie. She may hope in time you will marry. If you love another , tell your girlfriend. The truth is so much better. Good Luck.

Welcome to mylot It is better to put legs in one both, never in two, guess you got me lol, you tell your friend clearly what you like..Stick to one. Best of luck. Happy posting, cheers. Kalyani

Ask yourself one question first! Do you love this other girl as much as the girl that is in love you, loves you? This one question may make the decision easier for you. If you feel that same way with the new girl and she also shows you that same love then you have to break the first girls heart. Just use tact and do it face to fave. There isn't anything worse than a message on the phone, a text, a letter or an email to bring bad news. That is really bad taste and you wouldn't want someone to do that to you. If the new girl doesn't love you like the first then you have another decision to make. Keep the first girl and tell the new one you have another relationship that you feel will last a lifetime. Either way, it is your decision. But remember...right now both situations seems to be a one sided love. It takes two to tango and stay in love forever. Both you and which ever girl you chose BOTH have to feel the same way about each other for it to be a loving and lasting relationship. Wishing you the best of luck!

Well, I think I might be harsh though. Because I would choose the girl I love than my girlfriend. But before I give my reason I would want to ask you, does that girl you love, loves you? I personally believe it would be the best to go for the girl I love. If you stay in your current relationship, pretending, in the long run you might , just might hurt her. Hurt, in the sense of being cold. Now you may feel the responsibility as she is kind and caring to you, but ten years later, twenty perhaps, would you possibly hold onto that responsibility you once held? Think about it. In the end, both parties would get hurt. This would be a once in your life time, or literally, you have one life only. Choose the wisest decision. Well, mine is not the wisest desicion but that would be my wisest advice to you xD don't misunderstand. Just say, if you were to follow my advice, it would be best to explain it to her face to face, honestly. Though it may be hard, but if you don't you might end up hurting her again.== so yea. Tough choice right? So I wish you all the best! Hope my advice is of some help :D

If you have to choose the girl for your marriage then i must say that the girl who loves you, should be your option. As all women become or gets to same standards after marriage. Whether you love any one or anyone loves you. But one thing will be there that she will always love you and obey u and will ve under u always.

In my opinion, the fact that you fell for another girl proves that you don't love your girlfriend enough. The situation being at that, I would pretty much think that at this moment you can't imagine yourself being with her for the rest of your life. If that's how it is, then there's no point in being in a relationship with her any longer. Of course, someone is bound to get hurt. But it's just the way it is. Perhaps by letting her go now, you'll give her an earlier start to moving on, and you also give yourself more time to contemplate on the things that went wrong. (Like, rethinking your commitment level when in a relationship, that you should control your emotions and not fall for someone else right in the middle of it. Remember that love is a choice.) But never, ever, make her feel unappreciated. You should emphasize that you are grateful for everything that she's done for you (of course, with pure sincerity on your part) and say sorry. If after that and a few months you still like the new girl, then go for it. But you should be aware of the feelings it's gonna stir from your ex, your family, your friends, and the new girl. In the end, being sincere and being mindful of the feelings of others will eventually make things better.

it not fair for a girl who love you so much because you are loving other girl..i think if you not love her better let her know and she wont wast her time with you.. it better if you found the right one who love you and you love her.. that might be happy ...

In my opinion, the key to happiness or to a healthy relationship is to be HONEST. You love another girl. That's the point. If you love the person you're in a relationship with right now, why have you love someone else. It's go with the saying, if you choose between the first and second girl you love, choose the second. Because why love the second, when you already have your first. I hope you get my opinion. Anyway goodluck on your lovelife.

umm if you are thinking to leave your girlfriend who really cares for you and loves you very much then i think your thinking is wrong.just stay with your girlfriend ,she is only for you.if you breaks her heart and go with the any other girl then who knows the next day that girl leaves you for any other guy. if really in relationship and love your girlfriend then why are you searching for new girl.just stay with her.no one can love you like her.and before doing anything think twice.

To tell you the truth, I I were you, I would back off and think am I mature enough to either have one of them.The way you write I understand that for you girls are just there to do have your fun if that is all you have in mind so don't ever try to commit for marriage poor them. You don't seem stable.Grow up.

I think the more important question is, why did you step outside of your relationship? It appears from your question you cheated on your girlfriend. You may not feel the same as she does, but keeping her in the relationship because she loves you, is not doing her any favors. The reason she is trying so hard and doing everything is because she feels like in order to keep you, she needs to do everything. Let her go, you aren't doing her any favors. Then figure out why you left her in the first place. There is a reason, whether it be because you don't want to feel close to anyone, or perhaps just chemistry, but either way don't involve another person.

For me the best choice is choose the one who cares for you. You can go the other way but man how come you can never love someone who really cares for you. But if you`re no longer in love to your girlfriend its better to break up with her because its so unfair for her that she really cares for you and you are in doubt. I`ve been there bro and I choose the one who really cares for me and I have no regrets.

It is very hard to choose between the person whom you love and person who loves you.When you already have a girlfriend who really loves you and cares for you and you love her too so do not let her go.You think you have fallen in love with another girl but it is infatuation or something and will fade away with time or do you even know if the other girl loves you or not.So don't be a fool of judgement here and take your decision wisely.

If you do not love a girl do not stay with ehre others it will never work you have love someone to stay together without fights. So if i was you i would go to the person you loves and don't fake you love the girl you have now. But it your choose and chooses are most of the hard to amke so you have to think really hard of it and don't do it in a slitsecond.

Wow that is tough. How did you end up falling in love with someone else when you have a girlfriend? Remember your girlfriend loves you dearly and she takes good care of you. The other girl you may like right now but you should be careful because you could be making a big mistake. The other girl may not treat you as good as your girlfriend. But you should talk to your girlfriend and tell her how you feel and that she hasn't done anything wrong. And if you do breakup she will find someone who will love her like she deserves.

You can't choose the one you love if that person is NOT loving you! The way you say it there is nothing to choose at all. Ask yourself first why you suddenly don't love your partner anymore. How come you are suddenly interested in other women? You need to know this answer first before you decide to stay and work for your relationship or to leave and take the chance you stay alone. Since you have the chance the girl you think you love this time doesn't love you at all.

thats a problem mate if you dont love your girl friend so be frank with here but its hard to find a girl that will really love you.. and if you go with you love the question is that do you think that she love you to?

I think you should choose the girl who loves you.You should feel lucky that she loves you.