Being a virgin

you should not be in such a hurry to loose your virginity.you should keep in mind of loosing it with right person and at the right time. well the actual time is supposed to be after marriage with your life partner but before marriage if you are in true love with someone and sure of spending the rest of your life with her and she too feel the same thing thing for you then there is no harm in loosing your virginity with her. but it is always advisable to listen to your heart and emotions and and do not take it as a challenge for you.you should try to make the moment memorable by loosing it o the person who deserves you and your love. all the best.

I think it is not a big deal for being pure. The innocence can still remain, until you found the right one.

I think being a virgin in that age is good. The bad thing is that your no longer a virgin since you still single

Worry not because to stay virgin at 19 is a rare thing at this time, something that I salute. Dont be pressured on losing your virginity. Its not worth the worries coz there are many things much needed for you to think about, like what you wanted to be or at what level in life would you be 5 years from now. Enjoy your youth, prepare for your good future, and just let the time tell you when , to whom and how would you lost your virginity.

For conservative country, virginity is really important especially when it came to women. Most says that you should gave your virginity to the man you are going to marry after getting married. For male, it is really hard to know if they are still virgin of not. For your age, I think it is still okay that you are still vigin and if you can wait until you get married, it will be better. Sometimes, this virginty issue is quite unfair since it can be easily determine with women while men, not at all.

You would know if it's already time to give it away. No need to rush. Believe me. :)

Dude, it's not a bad thing that you are still a virgin. People who posted here are right, you don't have to be in hurry. It's actually one of the greatest gift that you can give to your wife in the future (if you could still hold on for that long). Once you lose your virginity, you can't get it back again. I lose mine when I was 19 (just last year xD). One thing I realized is that it would've really been better if I did it first with someone who really deserves it, someone who's willing to fight for me. We broke up after 1.5 month due to lack of communication since we were both busy with school works and we study at different school. So before you do it, it is important to think things thoroughly first. Don't let the world and peer pressure affect you but instead, stand firm to your decisions and principle in life :))

There's no 'good or bad' with it... Everyone moves at their own pace in life. I am 21 and sadly still living with my parent whereas a lot of my friends are on their own in apartments and homes and whatnot. I find that a good analogy by the way. Ha. Not everyone is ready for the same things at the same time or don't get the same opportunities. And as far as anomalies go I don't think being a virgin at 19 or 20 is 'weird' or 'different'. (Post this same discussion when you're 30 and we'll talk ). I lost mine when I was 17.... And sometimes I wish I would have held out for someone else as the first time was not the greatest experience. Ah well. Such is life. Happy MyLotting!

I think, our decision to mate is not a rating nor does it contain a value (good or bad) anymore than quantity of relationships measures superiority. Our relations with a love one is personal expression we choose at a time that suits our own personal needs and is valued not by losing oneself to it but by the gaining of someone into our life.

hello my friend. don't be in a rush to lose your virginity. your'e asking about when is the right time to lose your virginity? its simple, the moment you get marry. that's the best thing you can give to your wife. As what the saying says; a real men can wait.