My ex kicked in the door.

Yes and even worse. If he is a snitch , you can tell whomever he talked about. Any man who can't take no for an answer is dangerous. he could kill you . Get something on paper and get the word out on the street too. If the cops can't protect you , the fellas can. Good Luck.

Yes that would seem like a good idea to me, the order of protection that is. He has no right to break down your door, not for any reason unless it is an emergency. I don't understand so many men have the inclination that they can only be the only guy for you even in bad situations. Some people just exude negativity and its best you keep far away from them.

Hi tasneem: I think so. Your ex probably is obsessed with and he is being immature because you don't pay attention to him any more and you don't know how is he going to act in the future if he is so desperate. I think this is a warning sign and you better ask the police for a restriction order again this man. ALVARO

you should because you will never know what he can do. if you you should move to a new place where he can not follow you and ask someone, a relative or a friend to accompany you for the meantime. always pray and stay safe.

No need to think twice to ask for enforcers to gain personal protection. He is ina violent behavior that needs to be controlled and given such sanctions before he could do harm against you! There is also a need for you to stay away from a place where he might not track you!Safety is a must!

It does sound scary. Take extra care as police can't stop him forever.

I would call the police and get an order of protection. If this was me, I would move, so he couldn't find me, as he could come back with a weapon next time. There are to many cases of domestic violence and people need to do whatever they can to be safe.

Uh, yes..before he starts doing more damage than just breaking down your door.

if you're in witness protection, you'll have to check in with them. they could relocate you and the kids. if you're not in the witness protection, then yes most definitly call the police next time he shows up.you still have the right to protect you and the kids from him.

You definitely should; get an order of protection/restraining order. It sounds like he gets violent. Although it's only a piece of paper, really, the cops will arrest him if he comes in within so many feet of you or your home, if you have a restraining order. I think it's worth it. It sounds like he is pretty dangerous. And good for you for ending the relationship. Good luck to ya.

of course Yes.. he had make you are scary and you should report it to police if you feel he had make you are in danger

yes you should report what he did, because at this point its not about protecting your heart anymore but protecting your life...

If you don't call the police, does that mean you don't have to deal with him? Can you just move on and forget about him? He does sound like he is really no good for you. And although I would like that the police get him to teach him a lesson for kicking your door in, I would also like to not deal with him anymore.

Document everything. Make copies, and bring a copy with you to get the Personal Protection Order. (PPO). He is dangerous. Has he ever hit you before? I'm sure he has, given he has broken down your door. Call the police and make a report. Show them the damage he has done to your home so they can write it up properly. Do not wait. Every moment you wait is giving him another chance to hurt you any way he possibly can.

Tasneem4, I don't know where you are from, but there's a couple shows that air on CNN here in the U.S. called Nancy Grace and Joan Velez-Mitchell who are constantly covering stories of women being brutalized and killed by their husbands/boyfriends. The pattern I have always noticed is that the women always seem to have known these men were abusive and I assume they underestimated their men's capability of committing murder. If your ex is kicking in your door, get a restraining order. If nothing else, the police will at least have one suspect to start with in the event of your demise. Sorry to be so morbid about this, but as a young lady, you need to take this seriously. Get as far away from that man as you can. Change your address. Change your phone number. For your own safety, don't underestimate what he's capable of. LOOSE HIM! Cheers, Stan

You are not clear on some things. Raising even more questions.Who relocated? You and him? Or you and you family? If you relocated with him, then he also kicked in his own door? If you relocated with yourself and family, how did he know where you live? What you need to do is relocate to where he dont know you are. Possible another part of town or another town.

Since your broke up with him there is no reason for him to stay with you. He must be act as a man and not bother you anymore because as his attitude is inhuman. Called the police to give him a lesson because he is violent. It is good that you decide to broke up with him because when you both marriage...I think you always suffer from him

How did you get with such a person? What did he say or do, that made you think he was someone you wanted to be around?

I think you made a right decision. He is the one that cheated on you and hen will he is still have a guts to break your door. If he is the one that make a mistake he must feel sorry and he must not do what he done to you. It is right that you call a police because he is the type of guy that must not be given a trust. He also must pay for the damage that he made on your door.

I think you made a right decision. He is the one that cheated on you and hen will he is still have a guts to break your door. If he is the one that make a mistake he must feel sorry and he must not do what he done to you. It is right that you call a police because he is the type of guy that must not be given a trust. He also must pay for the damage that he made on your door.