What to do...What to do?

right missybear...... LOL I soooo wish I could turn time back and have lived life to the fullest like I do for almost a year now due to my life changing in such a wonderful way. You would never before have heard the sentence. life is beautiful, from me but now I say it all the time and i am content and happy.

Wow! this is the discussion to end all discussions! this is the best discussion i have seen on mylot! you have narrowed everything down to the basics! in a nutshell you have told people that argue a point that maybe both points are correct in a way. i can't wait to see if anyone is crazy enough to argue the point!

I listen to advice from others but mainly I just live my life according to what I feel is right. I try to make sure that the things I do, don't adversely affect someone else's life.

Yeah, I think...

I agree. I sometimes wonder if I am living life to its fullest but all in all...I can't complain. I still have a ton of things I want to do. I am definitely who I am and I don't let anyone else choose the things in my life that are important to me. I wouldn't be living if I did that.

hi, yes, you're right,no one can tell to you what is right and what is wrong,we always keep our life stay in happy and not to sad and lonely,we are the one who will find the right path for us,so live to the fullest because we cannot go back to life what we had in our past,so enjoy and enjoy everyday.

Yes I agree, we all have our own journey to travel and we must do what will make us happy not anyone else, if we live our lives the way other people want us to we may have regrets later on...and we should live like there is no tomorrow as there may not be.

yes, you have the sole right to decide for yourself and you have the responsibility also for whatever outcome or consequences that such decision but produce. but if you are like minor, your parents or guardian have to decide for you because they think more maturely and they often knows what is best for you. we can not always please people around us so why bother about them. right live life to the fullest because you will only one life to spend.

Hello Missybear, No doubt everyone has his own likings and dislikings and we can't force someone to like what we like or if we do that then somewhere sometime he may not like it 100%.

try to be myself and study about life from the mistakes that have been done by myself or others .

Ya. Everybody has their own way of living. But it's very important that we have to be happy at the end of the day. Always who thinks positive and go in the right way always be happy. Take everything lite and be optimistic. That makes me happy. learn to smile at any situation. that curve gives me strength to face anything... keep smiling......:-) Everything gonna change. Change is inevitable in life. just keep that in mind.

True. I try to be the best as I can and as much as I can, I avoid getting into problems or minding about others.

This is the most complicated thing in my life.I have always been messy till date.I never took the proper decision.I never knew properly what to do?I always thought i was doing right.But now i understand the consequences of my decisions.Now,There is nothing left to learn from my misdoings.But at the same time, i am enjoying my life,the only thing that worries me is that i could have been at a better position if i have taken a proper decision.I can now use my experience only to my kids,its no more useful to me.But they too will have their own likes and dislikes,i can't penetrate and indulge in their lives.Its upto them to decide.I wish they atleast know what to do?

well from my life experience i got to the conclusion that the best thing is to make your own decisions.each time when i took decisions after considering what people around me have said i regreted after.making my own decisions without caring what others think about me proved to be the best.if i end up having regrets i want them to be because i took a wrong decision and not because others took it for me.in life you have to take riscs to get somewhere,but make sure that no matter where you are headding you are the one that has chosen the way.