I've decided not to respond to your discussions.

I just read what I wrote...I didn't mean that I hope I'm not on your friends list ...hope you knew that. I meant list of people that you respond to and they don;t respond to your discussions. If I had all my notifiers on, my e-mail would be blown up.

that's what I have to do alot cause many of the ones on my friend list are not apparently around anymore. I was gone for about 3 months and things always change when I have to be somewhere else and not on mylot.

LOL. It never even crossed my mind that you might mean you hope you're not on my friends list. I really don't even know that much who is or who isn't. The only way I know is by hitting the 'friends started' tab at the top and answering under the tab.

Thank you deedee for your concern and kindness in this. There needs to be more people like you I have sent a friend request to you.

You are so very welcome deedee!

@chrystaltears Thank you and you are of course welcome. As you probably know by now, I accepted your request and am pleased that you think so highly of me.

Hi lynboobsy, I will try to remember you so I can respond to your discussions. I don't know if our paths have crossed before. Do you?

Thanks, Crystha I don't think so If we already crossed before, I been away for mylot about 3years and I just came back now. Anyway I will add you in my friend list so that I can subcribe to your discussion.

Hi again lynboobsy. It's good to have you back to mylott. I have been here about 3 years. I accepted your friend request this morning when I saw it. Good to have you as my friend.

Hi Hatley. I actually try to look for your discussions when I am working on mylott. I don't stay here on a regular basis, but when I start during the day sometimes, I look or and wonder how your schedule is where you are living. I think I mostly see you coming around in the evenings.

@hatley and crystaltears If you add me as a friend, I will respond. I use the "friends started" and "responded to" tabs a lot to help me keep up with all the discussions.

Okay, I will be glad to do that. Hatley might not be back to see this.

I know I need to control my fingers and I Am working on it...but some times my temper gets the better of me! or should I say the worst? oh well something like that!

Me too, allottodo!

I had some spats in the beginning and I had to learn to control my fingers. I don't have so many anymore. You are doing it the way it should be done, so you should continue to do well. Good for you.

LOL! What a perfect way to word this! You're right. That is exactly what I am talking about it. I try and try to get their attention by continuing to answer their discussions but it doesn't change.

This is true louievill. I also respond to known none responder because of the same reasons. There are some good subjects and they don't always fall under my friends started list, so I go to them also. Yes, sometimes when I write a good response, I can't wait to see what they thought about it, but they never respond back.!

There are also times that I still respond to a known none responder discussion simply because some of them start good topics and I must admit good writers and these are the times when I want to share my view too, it's just a pity they don't comment back cause when it becomes a discussion, the exchange of views and ideas would not only benefit readers in some way but would also be beneficial to both of us money wise

Yeah. That's what's been happening to me. I had about 7 deleted from yesterday. That's quite a few. I'm not going to take all my time up doing something for someone who doesn't want to do anything for me. You've always been faithful to me, and I've tried to be faithful to you! Thanks

I still wub you. :-)

puccagirl, has is a very good way of looking at this That's what I will have to start doing and just ease my little mind

oh, kylekrystel, some people are just such bad sports, aren't they? They should be happy to get a response. I would. I hardley get any.

I know CT, I admit I do felt bad but I don't take it seriously amnd you're right there are just people who are bad sports.

Yeah, there's this one person who starts tons of discussions, so I thought since she gets responses that I would participate on her discussions and it would help me also, but she rarely if ever responses to mine, so I am trying to stay away from hers, although there are alot of discussions I know nothing about or don't understand what they are asking so I can't respond cause that's against guidelines.

Well, I guess everyone looks at every situation differently, and mylott is supposed to be about helping each other. That is one reason why we have a friend list and why we have notifications sent to our email to let us know when someone has started a new discussion. Otherwise, all that would be useless.

Sorry it's been awhile. I suppose your right with the friend list. Never thought of that. Well I still don't mind too much who responds on my discussions. Not that I make many of them.

Yes. I think it is always best to go back to the trouble and show the respect by showing your appreciation to those who have responded to you and to show them on their discussions also that they are appreciated.

You have super high ratings though timetravel. Looks like your followers think alot of you. I want to get up to that point someday. I have had an 8 a couple of times but have gone back down as far as a 6 cause I disagreed on some discussions and got myself in trouble ratings wise.

When I first came here I frequented anything about religion, christianity and the bible, but people got ugly, so I didn't want any part of that. God is love.

Oh wow! I have disagreed at times, too! I did have a ten star but I think someone pulled me down when I said something regarding wishing an atheist would be President so we could cut out all the religious stuff interfering in politics today - and the person ranted back about God fearing Christians need to be in politic...you get the picture - so then I replied back with several paragraphs about how this country was not founded on the Bible and the Declaration of Independence doesn't mention the Bible, God, Jesus...etc. And the constitution was written for the people - of the people - not God. Don't think he liked that! But normally I am polite even when disagreeing and try to find something good to say about everyone who responds to my discussions. What was that on Pollyanna about if you look for the good you will find it? LOL....

Thank you juggaloxx, and I will do he same for you. I don't have trouble responding as I make sure I don't make so many discussions that I can't just in case everyone did decide to start responding.

Thanks again for saying I'm so nice, doubt the children will agree with you when I'm shouting at them!LOL I do like ot try and see things from both views even if I don't agree with that view as we are all so different and think differently so everyone has a different view on things and it would be boring if we all thought the same. Hope you are feeling happier on mylot, if we don't tell people how we feel then no one would be able ot help each other

You sound like a very kind person and have a way with words. I guess that's how you ended up with a 10 in your star. I hope to have one someday. I read yesterday where someone said she had had a nine for 3 years. That's a long time, isn't it? Thank you for looking at my point of view also.

Thank you ajk.

i think crystal makes a valid point and has led to many interesting responses. but all to thier own.

Well. Yeah. I'm the same way if I don't understand or can't relate to a discussion cause one time my answer was deleted because my answer didn't pertain or wasn't helpful to the topic.

kharlav, I know what you are saying. I may someday look at it from the same point of view as you. I do try my best to relate to the discussions. If I can at all respond, I do.

Oh lovingmybabies. That is so sweet. I know we have been on each others discussions at one time or another. I don't know if we are friends or not, but I will go check and request you as a friend if not. My cat is sitting in my lap with her paws on my shoulders and her tail on my laptop. So far I haven't done too bad with her sitting like that. Woops, there she goes. I guess she didn't think I was paying enough attention to her, but when I am mylotting I don't give attention to much else.

Oh Codymac. I am so happy for you that you have your own computer now. I just couldn't imagin being timed at using the computer. I have to just come and go on it as I can each day. Thanks so much for your time you give me.

I remember back to the days when we didn't have internet and going to the library - even when they started with public computers it was timed. Even if no one else was waiting. More than likely from what you said CODYMAC - they didn't want to erase tons of stuff from any one person.