My grandpa could make smoke come out of his eyes

United States
February 20, 2012 10:47pm CST
Rewind to the 1970's - My paternal grandparents were the greatest! Grandpa smoked a pipe. He told me that he could make the smoke come out of his eyes but I had to look closely because it came out slowly. So I would get up close and then he blew the pipe smoke lightly in my face! I loved it! They were the kind of grandparents that, as soon as mom and dad left, they offered me things to eat or drink that mom and dad didn't let me have. One of them was coffee. Grandpa chewed chewing tobacco - I know it's sounds discusting - but I always liked the smell of it and of his pipe. He let me try the chewing tobacco. It was shredded like shredded cheese. They were different lengths and one time he gave me a thin, short piece to try. It burned my throat going down!! Things that remind me of my grandma are calico prints, lilac hand cream, and moth balls. Yep, moth balls! To this day when I smell them it's a good feeling because I remember her.
4 responses
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
21 Feb 12
I loved my grandparents very much too. They were actually more like my parents but there was still that thing that made them different from parents. My grandfather was a smoker and a drinker. He would hide his liquor so my grandmother would fuss at him..LOL...he said it was out of respect. She knew though..she just liked that it wasn't in front of her I think. She would have mixed drinks with him on the weekend though. They were very good people. Good hearts and souls.
• United States
21 Feb 12
LOL! I've seen that in movies, where the husband hides his liquor and the wife knows it but that's the way they like it. My grandpa used whiskey as cold medicine, actually he said "whiskey cures anything that ails ya!"
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
21 Feb 12
Your description of your grandparents warmed my heart to read. You must have been very happy when you were with them. My grandparents were strict and didn't show emotions easily - that is the impression I have them in my heart but I was not really close to them and didn't spend a lot of time with them. My parents were close to my children and they showed great affection to each other which I was happy to see. I am now a grandfather too. I am quite close with my grandson. I will play with him. I will talk with him and make him smile and laugh. There are times I feel tired with his kiddy always-on-the-move and playful behavior. But most of the time, my grandson is reasonable and well-behaved. I hope he could have a good memory of me when he grows up one day.
• United States
21 Feb 12
My grandparents on my dad's side were affectionate and the ones I was talking about, but my grandparents on my mom's side sound very much like yours. We couldn't touch anything! They believed that 'children are to be seen not heard'. It's good that your parents are affectionate towards each other and your kids. I'm like you, playing with my grandchild is so much fun and I get worn out also!
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
21 Feb 12
Our grandparents do indeed make a lasting memory on us. They've taught us things that sometimes our parents have not had time to do so. And they have this kind of love that is just different from that of parents. My son adores his grandmother (my mom) so much. Although when I asked him why, he always quipped that because her grandmother lets him do things I nor my wife would allow :)
• United States
21 Feb 12
I know what you mean. When my kids were young and we went to grandma and grandpa's house (my parents) the kids would touch the VCR or some figurine and I'd tell them "Don't touch that, grandma will get mad at you!" Yeah, right. She got mad at ME when I was young, but not her grandchildren! My mom would say to them "It's ok, don't worry about it."
• United States
21 Feb 12
I have young grandchildren and I hope to be EXACTLY that kind of grandma to 'em! It's nice to see that they made such a cozy place in your heart.
• United States
21 Feb 12
I'm a nana (grandma) and I hope I have a place in my grandchildren's hearts long after I'm gone.