@jellygator on myLot

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 9 Feb 12

This morning like every morning I made my boyfriend a lunch to bring with him to work, sometimes he'll have a request but most of the time is ready and waiting for him by the time he gets out of the shower. Well this morning I...

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jellygator My husband and I have been like that since we first met. It's sort of weird, but fun. We have a standing joke when it happens - "Get outta my head!" followed by "But you want me there" and "Yes, I do."

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JasminGrady22 @JasminGrady22 (17) • United States 16 Feb 12

Everyone in the world wants to find true love, but unfortunately the majority of people don't find it. There are people out there who spend their entire lives looking for it and wonder why they haven't been successful at finding...

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jellygator While I agree that patience, trust, good communication, and respect are all necessary for a good relationship, I don't think that a bad relationship will work even if all of those things are there. I wrote an article about how compatibility in five areas...

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kaeirole @kaeirole (668) • Philippines 19 Feb 12

everybody wants, not only a long lasting relationship but, a happy relationship.. happy, not for the whole period of the relationship..but happy despite of the ups and downs, both are still holding each other.. but what if you...

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jellygator I believe that when the bad outweighs the good most of the time, it's time to move on, but that it's important to not get too hasty about thinking the bad outweighs the good. If it was truly a case of my partner didn't love me, I think that would be terms for...

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HeresTheScoop @HeresTheScoop (748) • United States 20 Feb 12

Rewind to the 1970's - My paternal grandparents were the greatest! Grandpa smoked a pipe. He told me that he could make the smoke come out of his eyes but I had to look closely because it came out slowly. So I would get up...

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jellygator I have young grandchildren and I hope to be EXACTLY that kind of grandma to 'em! It's nice to see that they made such a cozy place in your heart.

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angelwithkids @angelwithkids (1256) • United States 20 Feb 12

it's not often that i'm given the opportunity to leave early, but i definitly didn't pass it up! now that the house is a lot quieter with 3 people gone, i really jumped on the opportunity. it feels great to come home and not have...

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jellygator Enjoy it! We have so few opportunities to really relax when we have to work full-time and take care of our families and ourselves. That's one of the reasons I leaped into being a homemaker when my husband generously offered to let me stop working, and I've...

20 Feb 12

juggal0Xx420 @juggal0Xx420 (509) • United States 20 Feb 12

i am wondering how many people have been going to online dating sites or somewhat and found true love at them? if so was it a free site or did you have to pay for it? was the relationship you got connected with worth the money...

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jellygator Statistics are showing that around 1 out of every 5 couples today met online. I met and briefly lived with a man I met online, and it proved to be a disaster. But another man I met online, went on two dates with, and then told him I wasn't interested in...

20 Feb 12

pro_ojha @pro_ojha (600) • India 26 Jan 12

Hallo friends I found many myLot user has very good and attractive profile.They wrote about myself in their profile in very attractive manner. I also want to do so but did not successes. Any myLot user guide me how to make...

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jellygator I feel your pain! I cannot get the .html capsule to make the changes I want to make, but I think that the profile you posted to used that module. I don't know if it's broken right now, but I was only to change the color a box. It didn't let me actually use...

15 Feb 12

gothtini @gothtini (219) • United States 13 Dec 11

I've done four lenses now, my most popular one is actually a list that helps people doing the newest hep c treatment, a couple are about the newest Batman games. I was getting a bit desperate for views so I started looking for...

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jellygator I also have four lenses and I've been very disappointed in the traffic. Two of my lenses were selected for the "UpMarket" magazine, and still only gotten a total of 8 views! I would love to learn where you found the widget and what ping site you're using...

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salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 14 Feb 12

hi i find the idea of being friends after breaking up with your ex is weird, what you think?

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jellygator Well, I had to stay friendly with my first husband because we had children together, but I've always preferred to be friends after breaking up whenever possible. I think if two people liked each other enough to call it "love" then they should be able to be...

15 Feb 12

alaskanray @alaskanray (4636) • United States 14 Feb 12

Oboy, has this been a learning experience for me! When we left John Day to move to Pendleton, I rented my trailer in John Day out with the notion that I would one day return to John Day. The young man I rented to came well...

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jellygator Well, your username suggests you live in Alaska but you didn't really say, but you should look up the laws about how to evict someone in your state. It can vary from place to place. Generally speaking, you have to send a letter like you did, but you'll need to...

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kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 15 Feb 12

Last year I had to be a part of a civil suit filed against our family and I can say that it is definitely not a very pleasant experience.Endless hours spent in the corridors of courtroom and inside the over crowded court rooms,...

not a pleasant experience

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jellygator My ex-husband and I spent over 8 years in a nasty custody case with his ex-wife, and my father died in prison. So yes, I've dealt with both criminal and civil court cases and I agree... they suck.

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grasyia @grasyia (29) • Philippines 15 Feb 12

I am currently working as a graphic artist. But due to my workload I spend less time with my family. If you will be given a chance would you give up your career so you can spend time with your family or continue and pursue your...

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jellygator I have recently stopped working outside the house and it's much, much better to spend time with my family. Our family is struggling a bit financially from what I am used to. Our bills are paid, but we don't have much extra, while in my last marriage our...

15 Feb 12

irene66 @irene66 (1669) • Philippines 14 Feb 12

Do you pay attention with the arrangement of spoon, fork, knife, glass and plates when you dine in a restaurant? I am used to an informal table setting and I do not give particular attention this arrangements. I feel I am not...

table setting

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jellygator I was taught to place the silverware in a certain arrangement, and I use this arrangement at home most of the time, so yes, I notice. There is actually a reason for having them placed the way they are, and when they're just rolled into a napkin or...

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alaskanray @alaskanray (4636) • United States 14 Feb 12

Oboy, has this been a learning experience for me! When we left John Day to move to Pendleton, I rented my trailer in John Day out with the notion that I would one day return to John Day. The young man I rented to came well...

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jellygator I own a few rental properties. They're my only source of income besides freelance writing, which doesn't pay a heckuva lot! Like you, I've learned from mistakes and sought solutions. I also was a Realtor, so I had exposure to experienced landlords to learn...

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Chysom Scott @CJscott (4187) • Portage La Prairie, Manitoba 14 Feb 12

I need help. I am a great conversationalist, or at least I think I am. I know a wide variety of topics, I can go in depth in a vast assortment of different subjects, just sit me down, and we can start talking about anything. Calm,...

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jellygator I used to teach my public speaking students that if they're highly prepared, a speech or presentation will be more like a conversation. When you know your material and your audience well, you'll just be talking to interested listeners. When you don't know it...

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SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32190) • United States 14 Feb 12

Don't talk to me like I'm some sort of child because that will piss me off. No other company has asked me soo many questions like this woman has, and it's annoying. I hung up on her because of the way she was treating me, yes I...

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jellygator I remind them that it's disrespectful to ignore what I'm telling them. Then I add, "And I don't like to be treated with disrespect."

14 Feb 12

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32190) • United States 14 Feb 12

Don't talk to me like I'm some sort of child because that will piss me off. No other company has asked me soo many questions like this woman has, and it's annoying. I hung up on her because of the way she was treating me, yes I...

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jellygator Actually, insurance companies *do* need to know where you live because it's one of the factors they use in pricing for most types of insurance. There are higher health risks in certain environments, more likely to be car crashes in certain environments, etc....

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