how do you feel after you did a mistake?

@sanofer (525)
India
February 22, 2012 10:32pm CST
mistakes are human nature. by doing mistakes we can gain many new things. scientists did so many mistakes and discovered so many new things. but some people thinks that only cowards will do mistakes and they are not fit for anything. its not correct. every human in this world do mistakes. i do mistakes sometimes. but i will not stop there. i will analyse what went wrong and try to overcome those mistakes to lead a happy life. how do you feel after committing mistakes and how do you overcome?
18 responses
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
It's a reflex action of mine to apologize whenever I did a mistake to anyone or about my work. Apologizing for what we have done is the least we can do for the meantime after a mistake and not to redo it again next time. Mistakes also helps us to be careful to work or not to do same thing again.
• Philippines
24 Feb 12
Yeah, but there are some individuals who doesn't accept apologies for a mistake done to them because they thought it was done intentionally. We learned also from our mistakes too and become better person.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
apologizing is really a good idea so that the opposite person who is affected by our mistakes will not get angry. we should try to rectify it and we should avoid to do that mistakes again
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Mistakes sometimes helps us to learn. It's okay to commit mistakes. I look down myself whenever I commit mistakes. I call myself stupid if I commit mistakes. It makes me lowers my self-esteem. Now, that I had changed my views in life, I realized that mistakes will eventually helps us realize to improve ourselves.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
mistakes are the stepping stones for success. It help us to find a new person inside us. Commiting mistakes once doesnt make us bad. But doing that mistakes again will lead to severe failure.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
24 Feb 12
craziestqueen: I think we all do that and it is highly unfair. I am glad that you have changed your views, I talk a lot about respect for other people, as I believe it is essential trait for all of us to have. I think you should give yourself a break and some respect. It does not make us stupid to make mistakes, it is just a human flaw. It only makes us stupid if we don't learn from our mistakes.
@longbangod (1785)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
You are right and I agree with you. Human as we are we normally make mistakes. And I think God has a good purpose for allowing us to make mistakes. You know, when you've done a mistake, you'll become very cautious not to do the same mistake again. And that's good, since we will be able to avoid doing it in the future. I do believe that everyone is vulnerable to make mistakes. So what we should do is to learn from it.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
what you said is really correct.doing mistakes is not bad. but doing that same mistakes again is really not a good habit. god has given a chance to understand the purpose of life by doing mistakes. so we should not repeat the mistakes again and again and we should try to rectify it.
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
23 Feb 12
The first thing I do after connecting a mistake, no doubt, is to try to put an immediate remedy. Do not hide the fact that on this thing, I think, really think about it over, and often I feel bad for a little while, thinking about the possible negative consequences. Then when it's over, hopefully in the best way, I begin to reflect in order to avoid repeating this mistake in future. However, as you yourself have said, to err is human.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
putting remedy soon for that mistake is really a good idea. actually many new ideas were found because of mistakes.
@victorkrish (1614)
• Malaysia
23 Feb 12
Before comment, i thank to you thank create an opportunity to give out my opinion, first of all i just wanna say that no one perfect. Everyone could do mistakes because the one with no mistake is God only. Another part is regret, a chance is to re-correct our mistake or wrong. We should say sorry if really we made a mistake accidentally. No accuse can be described for this situation. Everyone is living with a life tolerant each other. This is the overcome for these kind situation that we are facing day to day. Say sorry and try to avoid making mistake or reduce it.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
what you said is really correct. Except god,everyone do mistakes. It is human nature. But the person who realise his mistakes and doing good deeds is the real human in this world.
• Malaysia
26 Feb 12
100% correct, sanofer.
• India
23 Feb 12
Its too bad situation when i creat any mistake. I cant sleep. And i try to recovery this mistake. If its impossible that i feel so worse.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
every mistakes has a chance to correct it. it is our smart work to find the correct way to change that mistake into the correct one. so dont feel worse for what you did. try to come out of it and analyse what went wrong and try to rectify that mistakes so that it can produce a fruitful solution.
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 12
I feel guilty about it and promise not to do it anymore. Sometimes I can't sleep just thinking about it. I oftenkeep asking myself why I did it.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
after asking yourself why you did it,try to rectify the mistake you did. it will make you to feel happy and you will get some relaxation. mistakes are human nature. so dont hurt yourself by feeling guilty for a long time. better try to come out of it and try to fix the mistake so that you will get a better solution.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
23 Feb 12
As humans, we are bound to make mistakes. I disagree with people who say that only cowards make mistakes. Cowards would not make mistakes as they would not try to do anything that would make it possible to make any mistakes. It takes courage to try new things. It takes character to admit that you have made a mistake. It helps to build character and knowledge to learn from your mistakes. I generally feel foolish when I make mistakes as I find it is the silly stuff that I make mistakes at. I try to figure out what I did wrong, and what I can do to fix my error, and how to avoid repeating the same mistake.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
what you said is really correct. people who have the guts to do mistakes are the people who discovered many things. doing mistakes is not a matter. how we are recovering from it and finding better solution from the mistakes really matters a lot.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
no one is perfect, and mistakes give the greatest lessons in life. Every time i commit a mistake, my usual reaction would be frustration, having time to think it over, accepting that fact and then learning from it, so as not to commit doing the same mistake again. Obviously, there is no better way of overcoming mistakes by careful evaluation of every situation including it effects.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
very beautiful and straight forward response. we wont gain anything if we sit and think about that mistake always. instead we should try to come out of it,rectify it and try to avoid that mistake again. that is the mantra of life. doing a mistake once is not so bad. doing it again and again is the worst part. so we should try to avoid mistakes.
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
hello, I just done a mistake during my exam. I feel horrible because I did not study it and I was just concentrated in other things. Now I just realize that what the hell? It is just too easy why did I made a mistakes? But I am fine now I realize that I should take everything seriously because look what happened to me. ha ha I was laughing to myself now. How stup*d I am.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
now you have understood your mistake and you will concentrate on your studies well hereafter. mistakes are done to learn new things. hope you will get good marks in upcoming exams and you wont repeat this mistakes again. all the best
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
if it's a mistake because of impetuousness, I usually just shake my head and a biting grin on my face. Sometimes I just smile of it.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
that is really a good idea. Thinking about the past and being sad for a long time does not bring happiness. Smiling is a good idea and we should take the mistakes easily. At the same time we should not do the mistakes again.
@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
i feel horrible after committing a mistake. i am only human so i would accept the mistake i made and try to learn from it. also i will try my best to correct it. if i had to say sorry no matter how difficult it would be, then ill do it.
@sanofer (525)
• India
24 Feb 12
i liked your response and it is so straight forward. Mistakes are human nature. Atleast you are trying to correct your mistake. Asking sorry is a good habit and you are doing that. You will have a better life and all the best for that.
• Philippines
23 Feb 12
Ifeel blash...Iask sorry to the person i committed mistakes.
@sanofer (525)
• India
23 Feb 12
asking sorry is a good habit. We can improve our relationship with others,if we ask sorry for our mistakes.
19 May 12
I feel really bad, and ashamed. It makes me afraid to try again. But hey life has to move on and life is a teacher, giving us so many test and ups and downs so when you fall get up and move on. :)
@vimal1990 (116)
24 Feb 12
After doing mistakes i wont consider it as a mistake because i will take it as success so that i wont do that mistake again in my life thats it... Mistakes cant be avoided
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
I feel and and guilty whenever I did wrong things. I usually feel so unease everytime I remember my mistakes.
5 Apr 12
mistake are human nature,yaa it's right.. mistake gives a lot of knowledge.without mistake we can't get the exact thing whatever is require. when i am committing any mistake ,first i analyze what i have done mistake.and why it happened.so that next time i will not do the same mistake.i am not neglecting any mistake whether it is important or not.just i tried to recover from it.i am finding the resources to solve the problem.
19 May 12
I felt really terrible when i dig up past or mistakes made by my frenemies, so i never tried doing it again. I felt really guilty and it's like my conscience is eating me.