Do you ever try to watch television and someone keeps talking?
@chrystaltears (3392)
United States
February 24, 2012 4:10pm CST
There's this person who I sit down with to watch something I think I am going to enjoy on television and he/she starts talking and carrying on about what is going on and what happened before and the show he/she watched the other day and tells me all about that and then I have no idea what is going on in the one we are watching. Crazy. Huh?
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
25 Feb 12
yes i have faced to that many time during watch the TV. why you not faced? You single now?
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
27 Feb 12
No. I don't have time to be married right now. I always have to be somewhere else helping others out. If I ever fall in love again, it will have to wait until I have some extra time to spend with someone. I just don't have the time now.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
27 Feb 12
Yes dilrajj, we can be good friends. That's all I can do. I bet there is somone super nice on here that you will meet and maybe can marry someday. I wish you the best, okay?
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
27 Feb 12
ok friend as you like, but i was to search some one nice like you, hope if you like then i am willing for that please if something do in this for relation?
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@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
Its happen to me all the time. Here in our house if my older sister and brother watch t.v. I can't speak. But if I'm watching t.v. they are talking loudly and when I react they just tell me that to watch t.v. and don't listen to their conversation. grr...
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Yeah bulastika. Grrr... I know what you mean. Who do these people think they are anyway. They're all nuts except us. That's the way I look at it. It really irritates me when I have watched the whole movie and then when it's 10 minutes til the movie is over, someone starts talking and when I look back, the movie is over and I missed what happened. That's good reason for grrrr....!!
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@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
25 Feb 12
You had better tell that person that he or she can not tell anything about the movies you are watching.
Next time he or she won't do it any more.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Hi yanzalong. I responded to you, but I lost my response in cyberspace somewhere. I do it myself. I accidentally hit a wrong key or something. I was saying that sometimes I like to watch television alone, but other times I like watching television with company cause it is more fun to watch some shows with someone. My daughter and I like to watch The Bachelor together. I actually think it's a stupid show, but she records it and Tuesday night is when she has time to watch it and that's the night I spend with her.
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@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
Wow, I know someone who is also just like that. She keeps on talking about other stuff when you are obviously trying to watch TV. It's like she thinks her story is so interesting and I shouldn't focus on what Im watching anymore but to focus on what she is talking about. But she already told me this story several times.I just want to be polite so instead of making her stop I just listen to her. But there are times I cut her off and tell her" Wait this is really interesting" Let's talk about that later.. Sometimes out of being polite and not very rude I try to listen and then tell "Hey you already told me that" What's up with her?
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Clouds, that's so funny, LOL! I have an aunt who does that. I guess they enjoy the story so much they need to talk about it again. My aunt is soooo bad at that. She's real funny and she can tell a story that if anyone else told it, it would just be a comment with no humor whatsoever, but she can add to it and make it so funny, and if she gets a good response to it, she likes to repeat it more than a couple of times! Oh well, it takes all kinds, doesn't it. Like your little bouncing worm or duck or whatever that is up there. It's so cute~
@lctravenisk (483)
• Brazil
1 Mar 12
My father do this all the time. He doesn't do it to annoy us, but sometimes he lost the movies line or forgot some detail and he needs to ask us.
We make a little joke of him, but he doesn't become angry, because he knows it is just fun.
But sometimes it annoys me, because you lost your focus and you can't watch the movie anymore. But what can I do? It is my father at least. Happy mylotting.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Hi lctravenisk. Happy mylotting to you also. Looks like you are doing a good job at it considering your numbers.
Yes, my mom watches soaps which I really never watch unless I am at her house. Well, I will be trying to watch since I can't do anything else, and she will start telling me who everyone is, and as much as she loves to watch her soaps, she misses half of them because she explains what's been going on on the show for the last few weeks.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Hi again ictravenisk. I am sitting here with my mom right now. I ame to her house yesterday. She's been watching soap operas today, and she told me all about them, and I don't are for soap operas at all. She has been watching them for as far back as I can remember. And just when something really neat is about to happen that she's been waiting for all week, the show goes off and she has to wait til Monday to see what is going to happen.
@lctravenisk (483)
• Brazil
5 Mar 12
Hi chrystaltears. Your mother really likes soap, doesn't she? I don't know if I know someone who likes soaps as her. Thanks God, most of my relatives and friends don't like it at all. I couldn't be talking about it everyday.
But this kind of strategy (to stop the show in a very important moment) is a very typical tactic from television to keep the attention of the audience. They will always watch the show to don't lose the conclusion of a story. Happy mylotting.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Mashnn. Well I tried that with my friend, but she thought it was so funny that it aggravated me that she would just laugh and tell me more of it later. I'm glad it works for you though. It would be nice if it were that easy more times.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Hi Mashnn. Yeah it was funny to her. Yeah, I can watch a movie better if she isn't there. Now if it's a movie she hasn't already seen, we don't have that problem, but she has apparently watched a whole lot more television than me cause I couldn't believe how many movies I was watching for the first time and she had already seen them.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
25 Feb 12
Actually, my mom does that. I like it when something comes on at 7 to be on that channel and start out watching it from the beginning. She gets the remotes and turns from one channel to the other for 20 minutes, and just when I think she has decided on what she is going to watch, and I have gotten into it, here she goes and turns it to something else.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
4 Mar 12
Over here, the main TV program for the evening comes on at 8:30pm. I like to have all my chores done so I can relax and watch it (while I have half my eye on my laptop). One of my evening chores is to feed the animals at around 6pm. It's their routine.
I also feed my friend's dog but he doesn't bring her over to my place till around 8:30pm. Then he proceeds to yabber on in spite of the fact that I'm trying to watch/listen to the TV.
I tell him when it's my favourite show but in spite of that he comes over and annoys me mostly every night at around the same time.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
5 Mar 12
Hi MsTickle. Isn't it something how people do that and never pay attention to your telling them when your favorite show comes on. I have a favorite show on Monday, actually 2 favorite shows on Monday. Everyone knows that Monday night is my television night and my only full day at home. It never ever fails that this one person, I won't call any names or anything, but she calls every Monday night when that favorite of all shows is on. She says 'what are you doing?' and I say I'm watching so and so, and she just keeps talking, and about 20 or so minutes later, I get to finish watching, or it has gone off already and I missed the ending.
Your friend should know better. The person who calls me is 86 and just sometimes doesn't think. I guess we'll make it through it. We just have to hang in there. LOL!
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
28 Feb 12
Oh I am going through this all the time at work now. Ugh. I am the only non-hispanic in my department now and only one of the others doesn't speak Spanish. I work as a janitor in a retail store and there is only three people scheduled for a day. We all take breaks and lunch together and so the other two will sit there talking to eachother in Spanish the whole time very loudly. I am discluded from the conversation- intentionally, or else they would speak English; but I can't watch t.v. because they are too loud. I am hating it. I have no idea what's happening on the t.v. and only a bit of what's going on in the conversation. No peace and quiet and no entertainment.
I have had people tell me about the show while it's on as well. All I can think is, "Heck, I'd know what was going on if you'd just shut up."
A similar thing happens to me when I am trying to read on the bus. Someone will start asking me about it and go into a whole other conversation. It's irritating.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Hi sketch. I am sorry for what you have to put up with at work. That's sad. I don't like them not including you in their conversations. And the least they could do is hold it down if they aren't going to include you in their conversation so you can enjoy your breaking doing something!
Yes. People love to tell you what is going to happen while you are waiting to see for yourself.
I don't read much, but I know that can be just as irritating, cause usually someone reads to relax and unwind and that is not possible if someone wants to talk the whole time.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
12 Mar 12
Hi MandaLee. You are right and I just went through an entire four days of trying sometimes to watch a television program and having someone talk just when something I really wanted to hear was going on. Oh well, I survived and willl continue to do so.
@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
25 Feb 12
chrystaltears I think we all know a person like this. It is rather infuriating. I get a little agitated at people who haven't seen it either, but want to constantly guess what is going to happen next or if it is a scary movie,want to cover their eyes and have you tell them what is going on. I like total silence when I am watching television. If you want to talk, please wait till the commercials come on and I have returned from my bathroom break and refilling my drink.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Hi deedee. I am at mom's, and I don't do much mylotting while I'm here, especially this week. She has been feeling poorly, worse than usual. I took her blood pressure this morning and it was way low. You have to remind her often or sometimes she forgets to take her medicine. She usually doesn't forget her morning medicine, but after I told her what her blood pressure was, she said she forgot to take her medicine. Her pulse was super low too. So I have been taking her blood pressure and pulse all day trying to get it back to where it needs to be.
My sister and sister 'n laws do and did that. My sister 'n law was here at my mom's last weekend and something scary my brother was watching was on and she was doing that. I think that's so funny cause television can't get to scary for me! I love it!
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@deedee328 (1122)
• United States
28 Feb 12
Hello Chrystaltears I am sorry your mother is feeling so ill. I will pray for her.
It is funny after the movie, but it is irritating while I am trying to watch it.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
Oh my,that sounds very much like my mom,lol! I don't know why she can't avoid from talking and telling what's going to happen in what we are watching. Or sometimes,if she doesn't know yet what she watches,she will keep on asking us instead of just watching and wait what's gonna happen in the movie. But I'm already used to that habit of hers,haha! Sometimes I do get irritated by it but what can I do,she's my mom and she's kinda old,I just let her what she wants to do that can make her happy and is still tolerable to us,lol!
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Hi mtrguanlao. Yes. I would like to just sit and watch a good show sometimes that I have been looking forward too. Just make me some popcorn and relax, but that is absolutely impossible with some people. I used to threaten my best friend's life. She KNEW how I hated for someone to say something about the show that was on cause they had already seen it, but she would either do it or keeping laughing and threatening too. I'd get so aggravated at her I just wanted to shake her.
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@magester1 (148)
• Argentina
25 Feb 12
Oh yeah, I know what you're talking about.
If we are watching a movie, new to both of us, then stop asking what's going to happen! How am I supposed to know if neither on of has has seen it before?
I'm usually very patient, but sometimes it gets on your nerves, although I wouldn't snap at my mom, just like you said, but usually other people tend to do the same.
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@hazel4ever21 (48)
• United States
4 Mar 12
I am normally that person lol. I don't do it in movies or anything like that. But to be honest I am EXTREMELY tempted to talk in the movies about whats going on in the movie lol. If I am watching something with my husband I came in on the middle of I will ask him questions to try and catch up and yes he gets annoyed. But its something I have to work on :)
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
4 Mar 12
Hi hazel4ever. Ha ha ha! I bet he does get annoyed. My daughter is so bad about that. I can't get her to settle her but down all evening until I have finally decided to start watching something and then here she comes. She will rewind it from the beginning where we've recorded it or asks one hundred questions and I get irratated at her.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Hi justmeok. I am assuming you are new at mylott, and I would like to welcome you here, and hope that you enjoy yourself. Mylott can be alot of fun meeting new friends and getting to know them. You can learn alot of useful information on Mylott also. If you have some questions about things mylott friends will help you. I had a keyboard problem the other day and asked my friends what I could do, and I got many useful answers. I was able to get my keyboard working again.
I can understand you have an issue with people talking when you are watching television when you have small children. Have fun!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
25 Feb 12
hi, well she's must be crazy really . Me? If I were you I will tell her to turn off the tv land let her start the story about what were watching. Or i'm going ti walk out (i'm bad) he he. Seriously it's annoying that you want to watch tv when somebody is interupting how can you understand the show. Well there's a lot of people sometimes we can't understand.
@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Lots of times I am looking very gorward to see a movie and after the show is over, I realize after waiting all that time to watch it, I don't know half of what happened. Really upsets me when that happens.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Feb 12
hi I just hate that when a friend does that when I really want to watch and hear the program for myself. I feel like stuffing a sofa pillow into their mouth of course I would not really
do that. But why cannot the person sit there and watch
in silence so we can both hear the program and see it 'and enjoy it so much more?
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Ha ha ha. You are so funny Hatley. I threw my friends shoes out the front door and told her to go home cause she would shut up. I never thought about stuffing a pillow down her mouth. That's is a good thought though. See if she can talk then!
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Feb 12
Oh goodness that would absolutely drive me crazy! I would not watch anything with that person until they kept their trap shut. Lol. Especially if its a show that Im really interested in. Ugh.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
2 Mar 12
Yes lovingmybabies. It does ddrive me crazy for someone to do that, but it looks like they would know better than that. I mean after all, they are adults. It really upsets me if I am about to watch something that I have been waiting so long to watch.
@mariab2000 (740)
• Canada
25 Feb 12
I have experienced this before and i find it really annoying when someone does that. I want to sit and enjoy the show or whatever I am watching on the television but the other person spoils it for you. I don't want to be rude to them either by telling them to stay quiet...
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
I finally got to sit today and relax after being busy at mom's, and I had just made her several fried potato and onion patties she was craving. So I came in and a good movie was coming on. It was really good, and we were so into it, and a neighbor decided to come visit for about 30 minutes. I hate to be that way, but she could have come all day before that or all day after that. I'm being mean, aren't I?
@Cranos (273)
• Belgium
25 Feb 12
I'm pretty good at following both the show and the conversation so I don't mind. What I hate are people that don't listen at all while watching tv. My mom is one of those, I practically have to yell before she notices I'm trying to ask her something.
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Yes. My mom is that way too. She talks to me nonstop, but then when I try to say something to her she has the tv so loud I feel like my eardrums are bouncing. I really do. I'm just hoping that my hearing doesn't get bad just because her tv is so loud.
@magester1 (148)
• Argentina
25 Feb 12
That's annoying yes, though there's something I believe to be worse.
My sister's always watching TV or something and when I try to speak with her she snaps at me for interrupting her, saying I should be able to tell she's busy with her shows or whatever.
But later on, when I'm watching TV (which is not nearly as much as she does) she just comes next to me and starts talking!
Come on people, you bite our heads off far trying to communicate with you while you're watching TV, and then you do the same and expect us to actually be happy about it?!
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@chrystaltears (3392)
• United States
26 Feb 12
Now you're talking magester. You couldn't have said it better. We do that. We notice the other one doing it while we're watching, but we probably do the same thing to them when they're watching. We need to be called down too, don't we?