where would i go?

Philippines
March 4, 2012 6:45am CST
sometimes love destroys you completely that you dont even understand from where to start collecting the broken pieces of your heart. everybody moves on but your life comes to stand still. where going back is impossible and moving ahead is not an option.. where would i go?
10 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
4 Mar 12
Where you go? You go to find yourself! That is the place where you have to go now and it will take some time to find you.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
yes! im am also with your comment. ive got to find myself first. this time im taking it slowly.
5 Mar 12
i am with your comment
• Indonesia
4 Mar 12
You better go move on, forget all the past. Past is past, future is waiting with something more worthy than what u had in the past. Don't stuck with the broken heart. get the spirit. and be happy. God bless you.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
hi there mrswhitfield! yaeh i better move on. charged it to experience. I must have a spirit.. a will and a reason to move on.. i should be happy that were over,for because of what happened i realized that he's not the right one for me. God bless you too!
• Indonesia
5 Mar 12
Life is too short to spend only to live with broken heart. There will someone better waiting for you to find. Life is beautiful and you can move on, get life with or without him. Your life is not all about him. Your life is about your choice for something better.
@doryvien (2284)
• United States
4 Mar 12
Heartache is the most difficult pain to deal with, but it is also the most satisfying and rewarding when you win over it. You can not actually let it go, so just let it be. Whether you're aware of it or you refuse to acknowledge it, life goes on, even when some are hurting and suffering. But as the saying goes, time heals all wounds. So just hang in there and you'll be fine. Meantime, try to go out, meet new friends, and be surrounded by the people who care about you. It doesn't make the pain go away, but it does make things more bearable. "In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." - Robert Frost Have a good day.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
precisely heartache is the most difficult pain to deal with. i was once a 4 year relationship, when we reached our 4th year the pain/problem started to come up. i don't have a choice but to let him go cause why would i stick on a relationship that would not make both of us healthy. and i thought i would never be able to pick up all the broken pieces but i'm grateful that a man had helped me repair the broken heart. :)
• Philippines
4 Mar 12
broken heart is not easy. I know how it felt. To be honest i am still in the process of healing because totally i am so broken or let me say i was smashed with what happen to me. LIfe was not so kind to me for over a decade now but still trying to stand for those people i treasured most and most of all my son. No matter what life has to go on for those people who loves and care you more but most of all for yourself.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
hi there igatiful_badass! yes. sometimes life is so cruel. right now im still in the process of acceptance. i know its hard. i first had denial,then i got angry, then i started bargaining. im asking myself why? ive done everything to please him. this time im taking the process slowly. ive got to find myself first. for me to start collecting the broken pieces in me!
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
The best place you should go if we take your question literally is to find a place where you can rest your heart and mind. It is not easy to be in a situation of not knowing what to do because you have been brokenhearted. However, time heals. Sooner or later you will be able to surpass what you are going through and start a new life. Have a good day!
5 Mar 12
it is better to think in a way to keep your love not to think how to get out of or run a way of it or place to hide , i think many change thier mind at time or anther i what to run way
@celticeagle (168676)
• Boise, Idaho
4 Mar 12
Taking it a day at a time is a good way to start. Try to keep busy so you don't have time think about it. And do a inventory on yourself. Do you have issures that need to be delt with? Do you need to learn some boundary skills? Or maybe you are making bad choices. There is a book that might be of interest to you when you feel strong enough to break out on your own again. It is called How to Make A Man Fall Inlove With You- The Fail Proof, Fool Proof by Tracy Cabot. The title may seen teen agey but it really has some great ideas and things to think about.
@shylade (3132)
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
its hard i know but you should move forward and avoid looking and turning back. life is too short and don't waste it by destroying yourself. you always have choice and it all depends on you. at first it will be hard, just pray to God for His guidance. remember nothing is impossible with God, He will not give you a burden you can not carry. lift up you hands to God and he'll show you the way.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
4 Mar 12
I completely agree. It is really such a sad thing. That is why so much evidence and support is being given to staying in a marriag,etc. It is really hard to deal and cope with a breakup. Your life completely changes and it's like you have to start all over. And that can be difficult especially when your life was with that person. You have to try and pull all the strength that you together and move forward. Sometimes you can't even take things a day at a time but only by the hour. Hang in there.
• Philippines
5 Mar 12
Moving on is always possible, no one can help u but your self. If you let your self be stuck in your present condition then u can't move on. Don't hold back think of the positive side and accept that everything happens for a reason. Moving on is not that easy but you have to think of yourself also, build your world again, together with your family and friends.