Friends who betrayed,what's the feeling?

Yes I have been there! I have felt like I have been hit in the stomach and had the wind knocked out of me! I then feel and ask myself "Did I do something to cause thi? Could it been it be my fault?" Sometimes I want to get this person back with revenge but I never do! I start hating this person and never want to see them again! I am going through this with a friend who I thought was my friend on Mylot! I thought we were friends and then out of the blue the person seemed to have left Mylot after being here for almost since it started! Then like a week later I see the person again on Mylot and it turns out they never left but they did delete our friendship! Have no clue why! Don't know what is going on and maybe someday I might find out what happen if not I will get over this!

Hello my frined! if my firend betray me, i very disapoited and sad. the more friendly, the more disapoited and sad. Good luck for you.

I think I have had this experience about 8 years ago (makes me kind of feel old haha), well, I had this friend that I really helped out a lot. I coached and taught her if the lessons in school was tough on her, I wouldn't mind if I had to go home late just to help her in their house. She was like a dear sister to me. Then there came a time that she was avoiding me. Whenever we get together with our other friends, they would talk so much that I don't really know or do i have any idea of what they are talking about and then she told me it was my fault for not spending too much time on her. I felt like an outcast back then. But what really hurt me was that, it was so easy for her to just leave me like that after all the love and kindness I've given to her. But because I couldn't simply give up on her, I tried to fix things between us. But the fact that she could forsake our friendship that easily without her being that much affected, i didn't think we could be that good of friends again...

Of course it can be a sad combined with hatred or anger to your friend but then at the same time miss those memories you had for all those years you have been friends and spend times together. It can really be hard to lose a friend who you know the most entire time you had, and then things will go differently leaving you clueless and what to do. Things really happen for a reason, friends do come and go. They say if the door closes, there is still a window waiting to be opened. Friendships come to an end, at times, we can't help it. But whatever it is that will happen, treasure the past. cause there are still good things in the past that we can't erase in our hearts.

if she realize her mistake and ask for forgiveness,i will forgive her. But i wont be very close after that and i will stop caring and worrying about her. Betrayal is the worst thing and i will never do that to my friends and if someone do it to of i will never forgive them.

This is always one of the most painful risks of being a best friend to someone. There'll really come a time, when something like this, betrayal can happen, even at the least time that you expected it to happen. But then again, you feel a lot better if you forgive someone so my solution for this, is leave the past behind if giving one more chance to someone would somehow work for you. If not, then you have to have another circle of friends, and make sure that this time, no one's going to betray you anymore.

Of course it really hurts.You've known this person for years,shared your life with him/her, & treated that person as your sibling then he/she would do this to you.I had a number of friends who did that to me.I find it hard to forgive what they've done so I just forget about them.

Well, if a friend betrays me, of course, that will cause me pain and hurt. If he/she asks for my forgiveness and I saw that he/she is sincere in regretting the betrayal, I will forgive because I love him/her. If he/she doesn't look like she's regretting betraying me and doesn't seem unaffected that I'm hurt, then I will just forget him/her. I will move on with my life.

The feeling is awful, especially when I have poured my heart out to this one ex-friend, but to make it worse, she made friends with my sister, who my friend knew was making rude comments to me.

hi befrindwithme I would feel hurt and angry and want to know why this friend who was always my true friend would turn around and betray me like this? I have not really experienced this though. but I can well imagine how I would feel. my best friend from childhood is upset some with me because I became a democrat and I also voted for Obama. but I did not betray her. we both grew up and were not in contact for years, now we have found each other I took it as the way life works that she is still a republican and hates obama but it bothers her that I am not republican and i wi sh it did not as I am still the same person I was as a kid. oh we grew up but we had the same South Dakota small town background.I am still her friend and wish she was not so hurt because of my different view point.I did not do it to betray her at all but because I saw what I liked in the democratic party and so I stayed there I really hate politics as people let themselves become hateful and insulting over the two parties.

I never had experience like this, but I think we will very sad if our close friend do that towards us. It is very very bad.

I can never forget a friend of mine whom I considered to the point as my bestfriend but she betrayed me. I don't want to talk about why she betrayed me but the only thing I felt during that day was hatred and revenge. I just can't believe she did it to me. But I have moved on already and I have forgiven that person but things have already changed.

simply..it's hurt. Take years to forgive but I am not sure if we still can trust them.