Are all your friends real friends?

It's true that we can be friends to our colleagues, the ones who we joined schools or jobs with. But then in the long run, you will realize most of them are not that loyal to you. The longer you have been with them doesn't matter. It's about how you shared your own self to them and them to you as well. Anyone can get closer to anyone but then, true friends will remain even though you both are not seeing each other anymore. true friends will still be there even long distance.

Since from high school, univ, work place... many ppl i know and call them as friends but in fact i have only 3 guys from univ class as closed friend who i can share or make a phone call any time to talk blah blah or call them going out for drink coffee or have meals together. And they do same to me. It is normal in our life, i think, because friendship is also needed to maintain and keep in touch. So that all friends cant be your real friends, just keep in touch with who u can trust and they trust you too.

i dont have a lot of friends. although i can say i have a lot of acquaintance. but i few real friends that you can count with your fingers. i dont like to be friends with a lot of people for i am a very choosy person. i am also moody and somehow wanted to be more alone than with them. for me my best friend is my wife. she knows when i need to be alone and she knows when i need a push. a have few friends who understands my mood and i tresure them very much. it is better to have a few friends than a lot that you can not rely on.

Well, I true friends I have only 3. Others consider them just acquaintances. They too sometimes, can usefully give good advice, but ultimately did not frequent them. I just happen to meet them by chance. As for my friends went, until the times of the schools, now times have changed, all of us, despite having lived together for at least 5 years, I have to say that they have got their way. Then, however, tend to say that at my age, most of my peers already have their family.

Hi there, Well it is really hard to trust people nowadays but i think there are still some true people out there some true friends that we can count on and i think you cant really judge a friend from one act or situation but i guess sometimes one time thing can be the forever thing in different occasions.

hello i think that is good question for the site, but no they are not all real, some are in real and some are online, i got some few nice friends online and i like tlaking to them just like my really life friends, other wise many of them would not be my friends if i do not like it.

well, it depends on every situations you are in to. there are some situations which you are able to know who your friends really are. difficult situations really tests your friendships. then there are times that there is nothing to look forward to. at this times, you will also know your friends very very well. it is an instinct to know which one's are true or not. hope you know them very soon..

hi there, i have some friends right now that i can call real and some are not. they are my friends since i was in high school and some of them have changed already but that is okay, it doesn't really bother me. it is good to have real friends because you can tell them anything and you can just be yourself when they are around. it's okay with me to make new friends but i don't really want to trust them.

That's a good that you do-only confide in your true friends. You don't want to tell people your business as they might spread it around and tell others that you don't want to know. I thankfully do have true friends and I'm glad that they don't cause me problems. They are helpful and caring.

you will know that your friends are true to you when they're with you through thick and thin, but it is not a matter of physical attendance. it is something that can be felt. incidents and anything else won't make each of you change the way you feel about each other. and in the matter of love. friendship is more important. it is also just right to be choosy with the people you mingle with, and it is in the nature of humans to share personal things to people they feel safe. you will realize that your true friends are always with you and around you.

Hi zinda-soula, I am not sure how old or young you are...but as we get older we get a lot smarter and are much more able to sort those cocerns... I had great friends during schools and college but that was then Life evolves and we live and learn...the people from my past were indeed my real friends at that time becasue that who and what I knew...But since moving on we have went our different directions and we have met different people. we as people must realize what we are looking for in a real friend...its is up to the individual to chose our friends don't let them chose you...We can't chose our family but we can certainly chose our friends...keep that in mind and you will chose wisely and you will beok....

I have many acquantainces but few real friends. It is very difficult to make "real" friends who will be there for you when you really need them and not leave you when you need them the most. Real friends are those that will be there for you during your bad times and not just your good times...

When people say that I don't have many friends, I just simply reply "I have few friends that are true friends, not friends to waste my friend with or just quick hi there and bye there." It depends on the quality not quantity.

"Real" friends are hard to come by. People are people and therefore not perfect, so anytime you are dealing with someone that is not perfect, which is ALL the time, you run the risk of them NOT being in your corner like you thought they would be, or them not being the type of friend that you thought they would be. I really don't have friends, I have some very close acquaintances, but I don't know if I would go so far as to call them friends. Maybe they ARE friends, but I still do not put it past them to disappoint me in some kind of way. As far as people at work, I have learned that THOSE relationships are not friendships at all. Those are just people you work with. If you DO happen to hang out with them after-hours, would they still be around if you got FIRED from that job? I try to not really confide in anyone. I pray and talk to God a lot (some people do not believe in prayer and God, but prayer WORKS for me), and I talk to my teenaged son a lot, and at times I talk to certain family members. It is very rare for me to trust people who are NOT related to me, heck, even some of the ones that ARE related to me are shady!

I have one true friend! I have bet my life on him numerous times and he has always come thru for me. I have never considered anyone else as a close friend because one perfect friend is all anyone really needs. Whenever I need advise, or just someone to confide in I ask my true friend, because I know that he will never disappoint! My one and only true friend is myself!

This kind of question is hard to answer. Just like you, I do have a bad experience when it comes to friends. It was a long story. My grade school and high school friends were now gone, I mean we don't have any communications, we're just friends when we see each other. Having real friends is hard to find. When the time comes that you found one, we must treasure them.

Hello friend, I also think that my all friends are not real friend. Have a nice day.

I have many real friends but I can easily tell who were not real because they were only a few. I have encountered 5 REALLY UNTRUE friends. it hurts to get betrayed and they did it in a manner i really disliked and couldn't forget. The worst way to get hurt is by knowing that the one you've been treating as a friend says something to other people which you really didn't say and it turns out that you are the bad one.

I don't have a lot of friends too, but I don't regret that because I've got one friend who's been my best friend since we were 12 years old. I went to a lot with him. He was always besides me and helped me a lot for this years. We've got close in high school because we was going threw the same problems so we got really closer and we were helping each other so everything was always better because we were together. Whatever it happened I'll always thrust that guy and do anything for him. So if you ask me do I regret not having a lot of friends... No, I don't because I have one true friend and I think that one true friend is enough. :)