zinda_soula

@zinda_soula (26)

South Korea • Age 40

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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He posted our private photos on his Facebook wall

ladysilver @ladysilver (370) 19 Apr 12

We broke up like a year ago and today I see those photos where we're kissing on his Facebook wall.What does it mean?Why would you do that to your ex-lover?Should I post everything I have about him too?Disgusting.

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zinda_soula Well, I think if I were you, I would talk to him or message him personally about it that you don't like it and that you're no longer comfortable seeing the two of you together in the photo shared to many people. Moreover, it's not good to post your disgust on...

20 Apr 12

Why Are Some People So LAZY?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36447) • United States 17 Apr 12

Seriously now, have you even noticed the classification of some people? It seems like for some reason the people who are now entering their early 30s I am noticing are often some of the laziest people. For some reason I am...

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zinda_soula Hi Krause! My brother is a lazy bum. He's now 29 and still doesn't have a job. He has a one-year old baby and the worst part of it is he depends much of his family's needs to my parents. We actually helped him find a job. But, he didn't do well. He was...

18 Apr 12

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No boss for three weeks...c",)

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 15 Apr 12

Have a busy Monday to all. Busy day again this Monday due to all request that I have to attend today. We don't have boss in our department for almost three weeks cause she having a vacation outside the country.She'll be...

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zinda_soula Well, I definitely agree with. When my boss is not around, I feel more comfortable working on my desk. There are times that I cannot focus myself with my work especially when my boss is doing some rounds. I feel like, when he's checking on us, I easily make...

16 Apr 12

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Exhausted?!

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 15 Apr 12

This morning, when reaching our place of work, I suddenly felt different. I felt little bt lazy to start my week. Somewhat I feel I need more time to rest. I don't know why. Am I on my mood swings again? (lol) or am I just...

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zinda_soula There are times that it also happened to me. Maybe you got up on the wrong side of the bed. I hope you feel better soon.

16 Apr 12

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i don't like facebook anymore...

itsmamanen @itsmamanen (423) • Philippines 16 Apr 12

i am an avid fan of facebook. my day is incomplete if i can't open my account. i to post status, post photos, etc. until a cousin of mine irritates me so much that i don't want to see her name in my list of friends. i can't delete...

facebook

mylot

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zinda_soula If you don't like FB anymore, would you delete your account? From what I've learned, you hated it because of your cousin whom a friend of yours in FB. Then, better delete him/her from your list of friends. After knowing what your cousin did to you. Would...

16 Apr 12

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Too much things to worry about in life.

yiart65 @yiart65 (146) • Singapore 12 Apr 12

As we grow up, there are just so much things that we have to be worried in life. When we were young, all we had to worry are exams and the amount of play time we have. But as we grow up, there are so much things to consider....

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zinda_soula I guess, you need not to worry so many things in life. All these difficulties and hardships we encounter are really a part of living. We should just try to do our best in all our endeavors and everything will go smoothly. We may be confronted with the hurdles...

12 Apr 12

I wanna a job

cattychristina @cattychristina (57) • China 12 Apr 12

It's too difficult to find a suitable job in China nowadays. I started to find jobs last year. I found you must pass one test and at least two interviews before you got a offer. And the salary is not so well too. Now I don't...

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zinda_soula It is really difficult to find a job these days especially if there is a scarcity of job openings. But, that shouldn't give you an excuse of giving up on yourself. Instead, this should encourage you more to strive harder and not to wait for the opportunity...

12 Apr 12

People complaining so much at work

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 5 Apr 12

How do you deal with those people who complain so much about their work? But are still there, who don't have balls to make their way and do something about it. Whenever I hear them, I would say did you talk to the manager about...

at work

complain

people

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Can Online Friends Be Real?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 5 Apr 12

There is a matter of debate if online friends can be real. Well, I may say being a novice in mylot. I may not know these people online but in some ways hey helped me to look at life from a different perspective. Reading someone's...

online friends

real

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Do you have problems with your parents-in-law?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 5 Apr 12

Many of my friends would complain dealing with their mother-in-laws. Telling how hard it is to cope with their expectations. At times, they can no longer move so freely at home when they go for a visit. They would check on...

house chores

kind

understanding

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Having problems with household budgeting?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 5 Apr 12

It is a necessity to have a strong household budgeting. But at times, I myself is having troubles with this. Whenever we go out to the mall. My husband would tempt me to buy stuffs, not included in my budget. He would say, 'hey...

budgeting

household

realistic

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Are all your friends real friends?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 4 Apr 12

How would you know that your friends are true to you? Back in school, I've had this friend of mine whom I consider to be my best friend. We've been together since elementary and high school. However, there was this incident,...

friend

true

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Long Vacation

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 4 Apr 12

I'm happy that were going to have a long vacation, this is in commemoration of the Lenten Season and Valor Day. On the other hand, I'm also sad for I don't have much money to spend on these days. Most of the establishments are...

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Should teachers and students be facebook friends?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 3 Apr 12

Back in friendster, I've had friends who were also my students. It feels good whenever they greet me or post messages on my wall. I'm glad to hear that they appreciate all the things I've taught them. But now that there's...

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zinda_soula Thanks almond. I don't really have those setting at all. Maybe because I don't give much of my time with my facebook. I will try to create groups for them.

3 Apr 12

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Postings on facebook

ARIES1973 @ARIES1973 (11426) • Legaspi, Philippines 2 Apr 12

I really can't imagine why some people post everything about their life on their fb wall. Worst, they sometimes post things that would invite trouble, like if they are not in good terms with someone else, they would be posting...

friends

life

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zinda_soula In my case, most of them would upload photos and post messages bragging about themselves which is even worse. Well, I guess it would be hard to directly tell them about your disgust of the postings that they do. Instead, I just don't mind them. I don't even...

3 Apr 12

Should teachers and students be facebook friends?

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 3 Apr 12

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My way of making a difference...

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 3 Apr 12

I try to make a difference in my own way. There are times, that some of my colleagues are complaining to me about their work, the admin., etc. And, so what I do is to just give them the best advice I think will be helpful for...

She's a strong-willed woman...

zinda_soula @zinda_soula (26) • South Korea 2 Apr 12

I admire my sister for being so strong. She is now 25 years old with three beautiful kids. She got pregnant at the age of 17. However, she is separated with her husband. She has known that her husband has other woman and is also...

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Why is it so EASY to fail but so HARD to SUCCEED?

mariaglenda @mariaglenda (482) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I have notice most of the time ... you give all your best but your best is not good enough to fulfill your dreams... its getting harder and harder

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zinda_soula The more you fail, the more you should be stronger. The great opportunities in life are brilliantly disguised in our downfalls. I have felt that many times. If you will just give up on our dreams, you proven that you're weak and lame. You can do it. Have a...

29 Mar 12