what is man looking for from a woman?

Indonesia
April 5, 2012 8:32am CST
what is man looking for from a woman? is it beauty?wealth?intelligence????? honestly i don't have it at all... i'm not beuty,rich and smart what should i do? i wanna get him :(
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10 responses
@cearn25 (3456)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
If you want to get a man, be yourself. Sometimes a man doesn't need all those you have mentioned. All they need are just true to themselves. If you don't have all of those, don't worry.
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
so.. be natural and never be someone else,right? :D
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
miranda, your question seems that now you are fall in love with someone..
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
your guess is right,adhyz :)
@else22 (4317)
• India
5 Apr 12
In my opinion,only honesty and loyalty.I am happy that my wife has this quality and that's why our married life is so wonderful.She is a little less than illiterate,can't write Hindi correctly and often makes me burst into laughter while talking,but she is as innocent as a child and as pure as a child.This makes her honest and loyal.Would you believe me if I tell you that she would not eat anything until I have eaten my meal no matter how hungry she is.And she would not sleep until I fall asleep.I love her.
@else22 (4317)
• India
6 Apr 12
I am so grateful for your well wishes.
• Indonesia
6 Apr 12
thanks :3
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
so sweeetttttttt :3
@enavnai13 (509)
• Philippines
5 Apr 12
If a man truly loves a woman, I don't think he will look for those.. He will simply accept you for who you are and what you have.. Just be yourself..
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
really? i hope so anyway,thanks for comment nice to know you ^^ miranda-indonesia
• India
5 Apr 12
Dear Miranda.., what i want to say is that not all men want what you mentioned above from woman and those are the one who really respects the womanhood. Women are the greatest of blessings to earth from heaven and not all men understands this. If a man starts loving you for your wealth, for beauty, for your intelligence.. or some other worldly things, then he is not a man but a Businessman!!
• Indonesia
5 Apr 12
hahaha.... i love your words... anyway thanks for join in my discussion nice to know you miranda-indonesia
@scarl3t (89)
• Greece
6 Apr 12
Dear Miranda There are men that care about outside looking to a woman, there are men that care only about the inside, and there are men that want the whole package, I think the same goes for women too but in the end all of those things you mention dont matter :) at all :) We all looking for something but sometimes we just fell in love and life goes on.. Personaly I believe in the inside beauty of a person, when you are beautiful inside you are glowing all over and it doesnt matter if you are or not a model, rich, intelligent and all of those things Even if you want someone and he doesnt want you back isnt because you are not beautiful, smart, or intelligent, its just because he is looking for something different and this is normal right? It is not a bad thing if someone doesnt like us because the exact same thing we might feel for someone else that wants us and we dont like him So just be your self you dont have to change to be with someone, if this someone loves you it will be because of you and not who you wanna be..
@Extourmed (191)
• Bulgaria
6 Apr 12
I don't know if you've got all this qualities but as I see your avatar your very pretty if you ask me. So my advice is to be natural around him and loos? it up around him. You should be mysterious and make him waned to know you better. Man are not looking for someone intelligence, wealth even beauty so much. Man are looking for someone that they can loose it up with and fell comfortable with you. And something very important is that you should let him make the first move. If he don't give him a little signs and I'm sure he will. I hope you two get together :) Good Luck !
• Indonesia
6 Apr 12
you're the first person who say me pretty :) thanks for comment^^
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
5 Apr 12
some of the best years of my life was spent as a teenager chasing after one certain guy, i set my sights on him and would not even look at another guy we dated on and off he was very goodlooking and could have anyone wanted and many girls felt the same way i did about him.. and i think he went out with me because i was so nice to him.. that and he knew i truely loved him funny how he ended up marrying someone else that he never even dated back she was a nurse where he worked, but this was all from 1984-1990 6 years i spent chasing him.. even though i did end up with him now, it sure was alot of fun.. i miss those days. dont be so hard on yourself, and always be your true self and things will work out for the best.. and remember this, talk to him, but start out as friends first, just introduce yourself.. and see what happpens but no way , should you let him know your this crazy about him .. will scare him off quick.. so be cool and play your cards right and you just may land him.. but it will take awhile so dont give up.. i would at least try.. friends only for now. the rest will come later. if it is meant to be..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
5 Apr 12
Lucky you! Beauty won't last. Only poor man look their fortune with a rich woman, also lazy men do. You don't need to be intelligent because men like to dominate women and not have long intelligent discussions at all. so play the stupid blond, adore him, ask questions about him whole time and "hug" his ego, tell how great he is, how strong and you can get every guy you want. ps and don't forget to tell him he is right whole time since that is (still) what men want even if they don't admit it.
@smilemoon (766)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Apr 12
Reasons doffires but it depends! Some men are serious and some unfotunately not. You can know that by know some aspects of his personality.
• Liechtenstein
6 Apr 12
If a man doesn't like you for who you are, then he's not worth it. You deserve better. After all if he can't see the positive traits in you so why bother chasing him in the first place?