How should I deal with my neighbors who are constantly getting it on, loudly?

Hee hee - we had a couple like that downstairs from our old apartment. Our walls were thin - and even with the windows closed, we could hear them getting it on - particularly the woman. That girl would just scream and yell oh gawd at the top of her lungs . . . um, I guess one could be glad she was happy but we sure weren't. It was so weird because I know the parents also lived downstairs in that 2 bedroom apartment . . . surely THEY were hearing it too (unless they weren't home or something). Well, we tolerated it - but in our case - we moved to another apartment in the complex eventually - not because of them - but at least we didn't have to hear them anymore.

Oh that's just nasty! If I were you, I would make my own "investigation" so I could find out which neighbor it was. Then give the note telling them that maybe they would want to put some music on to mask their own sounds. And maybe do it on the floor so the bed won't go banging on the wall and making even more awkward noise. I hope all goes well with you!

Discuss it with your neighbours , find them and talk to them politely. Just make them understand about the situation. I think that would do it. Oh well if they say they cant reduce volume while doing then you can tell them to make the room sound proof and do it without caring about others so no one has any problem...... :).... it is possible right....

They must be new lovers or newly weds to do it that often! I am not sure what you can do. Perhaps, if you find out where they live, you could politely tell them that they are loud and disturbing you.

haha.. it is weird. just ask them, say by your passion.. hehe

HI, In my oppion, If your neighbors don't care! We needn't keep any friends to them! Just call the police who will help you reslove it.

What do you mean by getting it on loudly? I was literally thinking intimacy... Guess I need to clean my mind a bit... I would probably check with my immediate neighbors to see if they hear it too... Maybe discuss with them and see if they would have a solution... In my country, they do have a town council and a committee for this kind of matter... At least the police is not disturb for this kind of small matter. The committee will try to investigate where or which it comes from... Then after that try to resolve the issue.

Repeat it to them. It works, most of the time. (It may be uncomfortable for you for some time, but it helps to make them understand what they were doing.) I had a little different issue. One neighbor used to return home in the late night, and used to blow the horn annoyingly. (He did it to wake up his wife & open the gate, and he was doing it unintentionally.) One day, I shouted "id*ot" from the dark, and he realized what he was doing. Sometimes, we have to make them understand, if they were doing unintentionally. If they're doing intentionally, that deserves a police call. (In my country, Police don't pay attention to such nuisance. They'll attend when there is a crime, not any nuisance.)

I remember when I first moved into my first flat my neighbour up the stairs from me was doing the same kind of naughty hahaha, it's definatley is annoying. I used to bang a broom handle on the ceilling just to remind them that they can be heard. As I was coming out my door to go to work one morning I saw him collecting his milk , so then I kindly asked him to try and keep the noise down late at night as I have work in the morning, ever scince then not a sound came from his flat. Maybe they don't realize they are loud just takes a kind word to point it out to them. if it carries on and drives you insane call authorities, council or police. If they are the type of neighbours you can't confront as they may get aggressive. Don't put your self in danger.

Ooh..that's definitely an awkward situation for you to be in..and very annoying, I'm sure. I would say that when it happens maybe you could loudly play some music and see if they either get the hint or it spoils their mood for the time being lol. But definitely keep trying to find the source so you can direct a nicely worded note. Most important whether you talk to them in person or write a note though is to be polite and friendly...if you take a tone with them or seem disrespectful, then they'll probably just write you off and not want to stop annoying you. Let's hope this is just the "honeymoon phase" and they grow out of it! hehe ;)