@abby1221 on myLot

corrycrystal @corrycrystal (1775) • Malaysia 17 Apr 12

The place I work at isn't bad. The first year I joined the team, I received a bonus of 1.5 month salary and an increment and 2nd year bonus of 2 months salary again with increment. The boss is okay, there are 2,3 workmates who are...

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abby1221 My advice comes from being unemployed the past four months...so you know what I'm going to say, lol. I beg of you, please do not leave your job unless you already have another one -preferably, a better one- already lined up. Also, check the past few years of...

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lilybug @lilybug (21107) • United States 3 Apr 12

I have been talking about it for years, but I just never did it until now. I joined a gym last week with one of my co-workers. We signed up for a package for 4 sessions with a personal trainer. We decided to go at the same time...

gym

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abby1221 I belonged to a gym for a year in highschool and then had access to the various school gyms my college had on campus, but now that I'm newly graduated, I don't have access to a gym or money to pay for a membership somewhere. So instead I work out on my own in...

17 Apr 12

aubrey @averygirl72 (38438) • Philippines 17 Apr 12

We have encountered chronic complainers in our life and sometimes we tend to become chronic complainers too. In our house the chronic complainer is my father. I told my mother that she should be used to that and not be surprised...

chronic complainers

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abby1221 That must be very frustrating to deal with in your own family. I find that life is what you make of it, and if you want to be miserable, you will be miserable. On the other hand, if you want to be happy and CHOOSE happiness, then you will be happy. It's all a...

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kiera81 @kiera81 (37) 7 Apr 12

Have you ever gone to a psychic reader? If so, ever have anything interesting happen while there? I went once for fun and she turned around, gave me her birthdate and her boyfriend's full name and birthdate and asked me to read...

paranormal

psychic

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abby1221 Lol whatt...your situation does not sound normal. Why did she want you to read her? That seems weird... Hopefully she also gave you a reading for that twenty dollars! I have never been to see a psychic, but I actually really want to. I'm not sure I believe...

15 Apr 12

Yanzalong @yanzalong (18987) • Indonesia 12 Apr 12

I have noticed that many women or even men love wearing very tight jeans. What about you mylotters. Do you? I used to wear tight jeans but it got worn out and can't afford a new one yet. I was told that women in tight jeans are...

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abby1221 I love tight jeans! I think they are more flattering for my shape, as bulky or baggy clothing can make my curviness be confused for just plain ol' fat, lol... Where I live it's cold like 3/4 of the year so I basically live in skinny jeans, and don't get too...

15 Apr 12

jureathome @jureathome (5361) • Philippines 13 Apr 12

I hate to see faces of people I hate showing up on "People You May Know" on my Facebook wall. But, sometimes, I get the urge to press "Add Friend", so I'd know what's going on and I could spy on them. However, I realized I'm the...

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abby1221 It's no good having people in your life that in any way make you feel bad or have negative thoughts. Why spy on someone that you say you hate? It'll only hurt you in the long run because negative thoughts and feelings attract negative events in our daily...

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kishoreluvu @kishoreluvu (42) • India 13 Apr 12

i love my dad..he is so caring. He looks as if doesnt care me but he helps me in every thing...whom do you like in your family ( and please dont say your wife)

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abby1221 Ahh I don't think I could pick! LOL At least I can't pick between my parents, and I can't pick between my siblings... so I'll just say I like my dog the most! He's so cute, fluffy, playful, and he never steals my stuff or starts a fight with me like the rest...

13 Apr 12

cowboynextdoor @cowboynextdoor (102) • Philippines 13 Apr 12

Jessica Sanchez chose to have an alter ego called "Bebe Chez."Isn't it too early to have one. She's trying to be Beyonce too much whose alter ego was Sasha Fierce? What do you think?

american idol

bebe che

jessica sanchez

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abby1221 Hahaha yeah I think she might just be trying to appeal to the fans who love other artists who happen to have alter egos (like you said, Beyonce aka Sasha Fierce) lol. I think for now she should just focus on letting people get to know herself and who she is as...

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vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 13 Apr 12

To day is Saturday, I only on work on morning and i will rest on evening. You know, my girl friend is angry at me, and this evening i will give her a white rose and apologize her and then i will take her to visit some frend....

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abby1221 I think I'm just going to take it easy this weekend, maybe watch a movie with my boyfriend, play with my dog...just relax, hehe. Your plans sound good -better go make your girl happy! :) Have fun!

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abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 11 Apr 12

Whether it be with a significant other or a friend or family member, who usually apologizes in a fight: you or the other person? I feel like I'm always the one apologizing first and I hate it because I'm usually not feeling very...

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abby1221 Yes definitely -I'm always looking for peace, and if I can create it then that's all the better!

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 11 Apr 12

Whether it be with a significant other or a friend or family member, who usually apologizes in a fight: you or the other person? I feel like I'm always the one apologizing first and I hate it because I'm usually not feeling very...

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abby1221 I think what you do is just fine since you know you're right and are standing your ground. True that grudgeholding might not be so healthy (there's some quote about it that goes like "holding a grudge is like holding a hot coal -you'll only burn yourself" but...

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 10 Apr 12

So I have been dating my bf for a little less than 10 months and he has met my family and spent holidays with us and we are very much in love. However, his family doesn't yet know I even exist, because he is afraid to tell them...

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abby1221 thank you very much! :)

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 10 Apr 12

So I have been dating my bf for a little less than 10 months and he has met my family and spent holidays with us and we are very much in love. However, his family doesn't yet know I even exist, because he is afraid to tell them...

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abby1221 I would never ask him to change for me, and I don't think he would want me to change for him either... Hopefully it doesn't come to that, as I would hate to be half-hearted with a conversion, knowing all along that I was raised Catholic, enjoy being Catholic,...

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 10 Apr 12

So I have been dating my bf for a little less than 10 months and he has met my family and spent holidays with us and we are very much in love. However, his family doesn't yet know I even exist, because he is afraid to tell them...

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abby1221 Thanks for the info, interesting! :)

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 12 Apr 12

Have any of you planned to/already saved up some money made here on myLot for a specific purpose (a clothing item, putting towards a debt, etc.)? I'd love to know what you all are working towards here or if it's just to have some...

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abby1221 Awesome! Well I'm glad you're having fun here with friends and enjoying the discussion - it is quite fun, isn't it? Ooh I didn't know that about the hotel reservation with a PayPal account... great info, thanks!

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 12 Apr 12

Have any of you planned to/already saved up some money made here on myLot for a specific purpose (a clothing item, putting towards a debt, etc.)? I'd love to know what you all are working towards here or if it's just to have some...

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abby1221 Hi! Yeah, saving the money for Christmas seems to be a common theme here, which is a really great idea, especially since we still have like 8 more months to go until the holidays and could probably save some good money before then! No worries, I've been here...

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 12 Apr 12

Have any of you planned to/already saved up some money made here on myLot for a specific purpose (a clothing item, putting towards a debt, etc.)? I'd love to know what you all are working towards here or if it's just to have some...

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abby1221 Nice, it's awesome that you've had the choice to save some earnings and spend some -judging by your number of posts you've been on here a while and have probably earned some good money. Congrats to you!

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 12 Apr 12

Have any of you planned to/already saved up some money made here on myLot for a specific purpose (a clothing item, putting towards a debt, etc.)? I'd love to know what you all are working towards here or if it's just to have some...

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abby1221 Awww that's so sweet of you! I'm sure your mom will greatly appreciate it!

13 Apr 12

abby1221 @abby1221 (71) 12 Apr 12

Have any of you planned to/already saved up some money made here on myLot for a specific purpose (a clothing item, putting towards a debt, etc.)? I'd love to know what you all are working towards here or if it's just to have some...

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abby1221 I'm new here too! Welcome! :) I find it fun as well, and so far I haven't been doing too bad with the earning, it's slow but steady, you know? Paying your bills...ahh, very responsible, I admire that! Hehe hopefully I will be able to have some restraint and...

13 Apr 12

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