Are u always the one who has to apologize so you and another person can move on?

I know it's not good, but I'm a grudgeholder type. If someone hurts me, and I know I'm right, I'm not going to apologize (only in really distinct cases), because I don't like admitting that I was wrong, when that's not true.

Yes I find myself in that situation too. I often say let's forgive and forget, but often times I have not made that journey to that spot when I say it. I think some things take lifetimes to forgive others for, and believe we all have the right to take the time to do so. For the sake of peace though, it is good to be the more mature person and end the tension if you can.

i'm the one who always apologizes especially when it comes to me and my boyfriend i always say sorry because i don't want us to continue arguing and all that. and also when i am with my friends, whenever we are having conversations and joke around, i always say sorry because i don't want to hurt them in case i say something. like i don't want anybody to take whatever i say wrong. just being really very nice hehehe

Apologizing not wholeheartedly is a no good solution at all. Yes, it will stop the argument for now, but expect it to be brought up again when another issue will occur. I like the way that when the argument heats up, you back down to lessen the tension but I have to say that if apologizing to stop the argument and the other person does not accept it, it is still the same. Maybe back down a little but be sure to talk about it later when both of you are calm.

You shouldn't always be the one who aplogizes as this is wrong-in particular if you were right! However, in order to keep peace it might be necessary to give in and to take the blame. And if you do that, what do you have to lose? People have been trained by society to blame others but can panic emotionally if the person they blame accepts the blame (and still lives on)... If you really want to feel good practice to take the blame- but without having the feeling of being more wise or giving in as both feelings are wrong. Accept that people want to blame others as they don't know otherwise and give yourself the opportunity to move on.Why should you even spend a thought on it if you aplogized for a reason ot not? The other person doesn't live your life for you neither do you live his/her life. You are wasting your energy by thinking if its wrong or right to aplogize to them or not! If you think that someone is really wrong by having you apologize for his/her behavior could cause him/her trouble in the future and that you can help him/her by pointing out that he/she is making a mistake by blaming you unreasonable-point it out to him/her!! But do not be surprised if he/she doesn't understand, just walk away with the thought that you did your best and accept that.

For any argument to stop one of the parties has to be willing to give in. However, balance is required so the neither party feels oppressed by the other. In any relationship compromise is required. Either party should be willing to concede defeat from time to time in order to create balance. Conceding defeat for the sake of peace doesn’t always give one peace.

Actually, all of those arguments won't matter at all in the long run, it would only matter if you would keep it in your heart. On my part, I always apologize when I really know I've offended someone. I don't apologize when I'm still tensed and when I'm surrounded with that angry feelings. I say, just be true, if you don't want to apologize in a certain time, then that's fine;). I'm not always apologizing when someone is wrong, things just past by and then we're both okay. Later on, when everything cools down, you'll get to see the big picture with understanding in your heart.