Being torn between two loves...
By cruride
@cruride (66)
United States
April 13, 2012 9:46pm CST
Has there ever been a time where you have been torn by two loves. ON one hand I in th pit of my stomach love my childhood love and on the other I love my college love. It a constant battle and I can't seem to find my way between the two. It seems to be a complicated situation and one that has so many layers that I don't know even know where to begin to unpeel the onion so to speak. WHat do I do?
2 responses
@yuriyang (70)
• United States
14 Apr 12
Yes, I have been torn between two love....sort of. My ex was fighting for me while i was talking to a guy I really like. My opinion, stick with the person who truly cares about you. Don't be afraid that you might pick the wrong person because everything happens for a reason. People come and go. You will know because that person will be there for you regardless the situation.
@SonofVoodoo (7)
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14 Apr 12
There really is no easy answer in that situation. As I don't personally know either candidate I can only give general advice. First off you are going to have to make some hard choices. Not an easy prospect, but the longer you delay, the more emotionally complex it's going to get. I'd say figure out what each person does for you emotionally. Remember, things change, people change. The worst thing that can happen is you end up living with regret over your choice.
In the end, not deciding is unfair for everyone involved, including you.
As another option, if the situation is too emotional, step away. Find yourself and what is important to you. When you come back, see if it is still an option. Or you may find someone even more amazing.
