Having Difficulties in Letting my Daughter Drink her Medicine :(
By mtrguanlao
@mtrguanlao (5522)
Philippines
April 18, 2012 9:05am CST
Hi friends and mylotters!
My 4 yr old daughter got sick and doctor said it maybe due to some viral infection and/or the weather we are having now in our country. Our pedia prescribed her an antibiotic and a medicine for her cough. But oh my,I'm really having a hard time to make her drink her medicine,waaa!!! I've used some techniques to make her drink them but still,we end up "fighting",there's crying after
drinking,and I do feel bad about it.
Do you have any tips for me?
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12 responses
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
hi mtr,
Hope she will be better soon.....
Uuuhmm...maybe tell her to close her eyes swallow the medicine then give her water immediately.
that's how mom do it when I was still a kid
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
b,
you got sick when you were a kid too ? just kidding
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@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
oh yeah!unfortunately some virus can put me down
I almost die when I was newly born and when I was 5 until 7 years old
Glad I am still alive and enjoying my life
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Haha,hello my two dear friends,sorry for my super delayed reply,oh my! Sometimes I can't find time to mylot,waa!!! That's the reason why I seldom start a discussion,yay!
Dear bhaby,you almost die when you were just newly born?! Why? What happened?
@miadsoriano (884)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
My daughter was the same. But, upon advise by her therapists and doctors, I should not allow her to get used to taking her medication or even vitamins by mixing them with her formula milk or juice drinks. They all said that all I needed to do was be consistent and not give her any choice. You see, my daughter has a mild case of autism spectrum disorder. And because of that, I have no other choice but to teach her the "proper way" because special kids like her tend to prefer and do things over and over again, they way they are used to, and they do not take to change easily.
Anyway, my approach was not and never to be demanding or "Hitler-like" in any way. I just let her know that I am there for her no matter what. That I won't do or give her anything that I know will harm her. I pretty much did the same approach and technique when I weaned her from the milk bottle. Soon enough, when she realized that there was no other way around it, and after she got tired from crying, she soon took her antibiotics and other medication from the medicine cup. It has been that way ever since.
Good luck to you! I really wish you well!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Hi miad! I have a friend who has a son with a disorder like your daughter and I know how she cares for her son too much. I know how hard it is to be patient to a child with an autism disorder that's why I give honor to moms like you,wow!
As much as possible,I don't wanna be like a "hitler" to my daughter but I have explained everything to her and to no effect still. But it's okay,I think changing her medicine will work with it,will just ask her pedia to change her medicine,that's one idea that a mylotter told me here.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 May 12
Oh my,sorry for my delayed reply friend. She's okay now and so energetic again,haha! The medicines she doesn't like was fully consumed,at last! And her pediatrician told me that's enough. My daughter even asked me one night is she's still going to drink her medicine,I said no and that made her face very alive!
@miadsoriano (884)
• Philippines
14 May 12
Thank you for your very kind words. So how are things now with your child? I hope some progress has been made. :)
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Yes it is hard to really make them drink, i had my dose of these experiences with my children, well... there was a time when i really had to hold her hands and really let her drink it as it is the only cure... but eventually they really learned to just drink it together with water or i bribe then with chocolates!
Why not try to give it to her bit by bit? it is hard and i am not sure these i shared will help hahahaha as i it really hard but i hope you can eventually persuade your lovely girl to drink...
"sapilitan na talaga minsan"
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
oh it is heartbreaking when they cry.. but then it is for their own good.
so how are you? how is she? hope she is feeling a whole lot better now.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Oh yes,it really breaks my heart see her crying jazel.
I'm okay,having less time mylotting,oh my! My daughter is feeling well now,a big relief! Thanks for asking my friend. Sorry if I can't seem to reply to your recent discussions lately. Hope I can find more time mylotting.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Haha,oh yes,it is "sapilitan na tlga minsan" my friend,oh my! I just pity my child whenever I force her to drink but it leaves me no choice. It's forcing her or not drink it,yay! I think giving it to her bit by bit wont help as it really takes time for her to swallow the medicine and if it's bit by bit,it may take her half of the day before she consumes it all,lol!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Children who are not feeling well are usually irritable and are really hard to understand and deal with. So you will really have to be patient with her and find out better ways as a mom on how to make her comfortable. Tell her that you love her and that you want her to feel better, and by taking the medicine she will be better. Try to negotiate with her, like you will take her to the park or buy her favorite toy if she gets better. So she will really have to take the medicine to be able to get well. Also, make sure you will really have to do what you negotiate or promise to do, kids really will not forget what you have promised. I hope she's feeling better now.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Oh yes gaiza,she is the one in my avatar,thanks for the compliment!
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
Hi there!
My daughter is feeling well now,happy for it! You are right about the irritability kids have when they are not feeling well,my daughter is very much like that and no one can come beside her but only me. But it's alright as I love to take good care of her especially when she is sick.
Oh I done everything and promised her everything that I know would please her but we still ended up forcing her to swallow her medicine,huhu!
@beloved39 (66)
•
19 Apr 12
The best way is to offer incentives for taking medicine. Think what she likes most, like playing in a park, ice cream or chocolates and promise to give it to her. It's advisable to show it to her. Believe you me that is what we used to do.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
I've tried that to her,honestly! But still no effect,waaa!!! I even told her that I will allow her to play games in her laptop again as she really wants that but still I had to force her to swallow it.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
I've tried that technique to her and honestly,still no effect,waaa!!! I even told her that I will allow her to play games again in her laptop if she's going to drink her medicine but still I had a hard time letting her swallow the medicine,oh my!
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
20 Apr 12
Oh my,sorry for my double posting as I thought my first comment was not uploaded earlier.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
18 Apr 12
hello cutie,
Thanks I never had any difficulty when it comes to giving meds with my kids when they are younger.
My strategy is simple..
I ask them "does it pain having cough, or do you feel any pain"
and when they said "yes" I ask again..."do you want the pain to go" and that's it.
The moment they answered "yes" I told them the only solution is to take the medicine.
I know how hard it is being mom especially when our kids are sick and suffering some pain.
Hugs and kiss cutie for me
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
You are lucky to have kids that are fine with meds my dear jai. I don't know why my youngest is like this,I had no problems with my eldest,they are really very much the opposite,oh my!
I've been telling Crystal if she wants to get well soon and drinking her medicine is the solution for it, but still no effect my dear jai,waaa!!!
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
hi,
thats true,now a days children really hard to drink their medicines especially if that medicine have a bitter taste,and my nephew is one of them,he will never stop cry and shout until he sees the medicine,and we need to hold him just to take in the medicine to his mouth.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
hi,
thats true,now a days children really hard to drink their medicines especially if that medicine have a bitter taste,and my nephew is one of them,he will never stop cry and shout until he sees the medicine,and we need to hold him just to take in the medicine to his mouth.
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
Hi friend!
It's hard for parents to force their kids in drinking their medicine. I know how it feels to be forced from anything we don't want that is why as much as possible,I try to do some other ways rather than holding them and forced them to drink the medicine.
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
20 Apr 12
Hello mtr,
Bribing can be the easiest way to convince your child for taking medicines. Tell her that you would give her a chocolate or something sweet ( something that can be given to her even in viral infection). You can tell her that if she would not take her medicines and get fit then who will play with her mom.
May your daughter get well soon!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Hi there!
She's doing well now,happy for it! I gave her so many bribes but still no effect,oh my! At least now she's okay! Thanks for being here.
@superbadx (484)
• Malaysia
18 Apr 12
This is perfectly normal for a children to hate medicine. I myself hate it since i was a kid until now. The difference is, now i just swallow it to get better even though i hate it. But when i was a kid, my parents would just say "swallow it" and let me be alone for about 30 minutes to 1 hours to let me get the perfect time to actually swallow it. Give her some time or force her to do it. It's for her own good. If i were you, i would give her some time.
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Oh you are very much like her! She has the habit of making her medicine stay in her mouth for a long time before swallowing it but I need to force her before she swallows. It took her again 30 minutes just a while ago to swallow it,oh my! And I pretended that I am mad that's why she was forced to swallow the medicine. The problem with giving her time to swallow is more and more saliva are adding up to her medicine and her mouth is already bloating. I told her I will help her to swallow it by telling her what to do but she just gurgles it, not swallow and she almost vomit.
@Lovescream (2)
•
18 Apr 12
Only thing you need to do is to make her think SHE WANTS to drink this medicine.
You need to make her-own believe in that. Not by telling scary stories what would happen if she wont, but just by leading to path to understand the importance.
For example, take her to some place to see some sick animals and mention "If only those animals would had drink their medicine" and then add "Have you took your pills?"
But that depends on the age. This tactics could work 8-12 years.. for smaller kid like yours you should do a tricky move by putting it in some food she likes most... or add to some drink and she won't even notice that ;)
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
19 Apr 12
Hi lovescream! Welcome here!
I tried adding her medicine to her drinks before but I don't know why she can still taste her medicine in it. SAdly,I've tried almost everything to please her but it always leads to forcing her.