i have a SECRET to tell....you interested?

@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
April 21, 2012 1:17am CST
yes i have dirty dark secrets... dark like bloody red ones, navy blue ones and even pitch dark ones.. care to know about it? so much to tell, but to whom will i tell? do you tell your secrets to some special persons? to your hubby? or you spared your hubby from those deep dark ones? or you have a best friend that you have sworn her not to tell any of it to death sealed with some blood compact?
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@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
21 Apr 12
well i have my hubby who loves to listen all my complain he is the loyal listener i have ever had tough i often disappointed cause he never give me a good suggestion, but he is trustworthy
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
hahahah mine as well as he would just listen and not say anything! mmeennn!!
@PVanne (29)
• United States
23 Apr 12
yeah its uhh, cause we are listening so well and definitely not playing air guitar in our minds... :-)
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
23 Apr 12
maybe you should play that guitar once in a while in your mind who knows you might able to hear and find a suggestion we know music can do such a miracle
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
I have one dark and deep secret and only my boyfriend and my two best friends know it. It's very embarrassing actually. And my family and relatives are not likely to think that I actually have this kind of secret.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
hmmm interesting
• Philippines
26 Apr 12
Hahaha. You can guess what it is.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
It best to tell to the one who loves you so much, my friend. If your hubby loves you so much, you can share that secret to him. But if you see that your hubby not a person of understanding and God fearing better to kept the secret in your mind...because there are secret that should not be reveal to anyone if the person is not that reliable enough to say about it...It might be the reason of your hubby to be jealous or acts differently if he is not that kind of understanding
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
i do tell him secrets but there are some for myself too like how much i have spent on that shoes... or that bag
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
Not all the secret must tell because keeping the secret sometimes protect our love one to stay with us or keeping the relationship to be more warm. If you think this will be lessen to your burden by telling it to your partner...think many times before doing it and consider something where there is no one to be hurt or suffer if you tell it...study the situation first before doing it, my friend...
• Russian Federation
21 Apr 12
i do not tell my secrets to any of my friends because they are always kidding at me then. they begin to look at me if my secret is about a boy i mean when he go near me. i feel awkward. i tell my secrets to my mom. she gives me advice and sh willnever tell it the other person. :)
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
wow to your mom, you are lucky you get to do that... i never get to do that with my mom
• Russian Federation
23 Apr 12
:) everything will be. :)I just do not have good friends that i can rely on.
• United States
21 Apr 12
i do tell my husband a lot of things but i do not tell him everything. its not that i am hiding anything from him because i tell him all the importnant things that i would hate for him to find out from someone else but the things i know he just wouldnt care about i do not even bring up there is no point. i use to have a friend across the street before we argued and we no longer talk and i would tell her everything. we had no secrets. she would tell me everything also. it was always nice to have someone to talk to that in the end wouldnt tell everybody. even with us not talking she talks to others about our arguement (which i do not agree with) but she doesnt tell them any of the secrets that i have told her through out the years. other than that i have a few people that i tell some things but i will not tell them the deepest darkest things because i am not sure i trust them enough to actually keep it a secret. who do you tell??
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
awww i also have a friend before who i tell everything but then there was some rip between us and i hope she is not ratting me out as well as i am not doing it to her.. i also try to keep some secrets from hubby as we need to leave some for our ownselves right?
• United States
23 Apr 12
i hate that we do not talk anymore as she is the only 1 i had to truely talk to but i am sooo glad that she keeps those things to her self and i hope that your old friend is to. the way i look at it is they confided in me and it is not my business to tell everyone rather we are friends or not. yes i agree with that. many people say that couples should tell each other every small detail about their life but there are some things that really just dont matter. or things that just dont need to be said. i guess the way i think of it is we need a little bit of mystery to our selves. we need to have the ability to have things that are just for us to remember....may be i look at things wrong but out marraige seems great now and i am sure he has a few things that he keeps to himself as well :)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I have two dark secrets. I told some of my friends and cousin about the other one. The other dark secret, I confessed it to only one person. He was my guy bestfriend. He also confessed to me his secret so he wanted me to play fair. That's why I told him. I only share secrets to friends that I really trust.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
anyone would tell their secret to persons they trust as it is scary to tell to anybody they might spread it
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Yes. You are absolutely right. We have to really be careful to whom we share our secrets to because not all people care. God bless.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
21 Apr 12
Unfortunately, my friends and my husband all have big mouths. So that leaves me with no one to tell my secrets, too. That was quite the attention getter and interesting way to start a discussion.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
glad my hubby does not have a big mouth, he is usually a good secret keeper.. but i rarely tell my friends too
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
22 Apr 12
i only have my family and people at mylot i dont really know well secrets on here are mostly about people in my family i dont want to argue constantly with or else its a rant . i have my daughter we tell each other secrets but in our family sooner or later the secret comes out.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
I hope i can tell my mom secrets but she isn't that open minded when it comes to that i know she will rant all of those to my dad, so i really do not open up to her.. It is good that you can share secrets to your daughter bunny, i wish to be like that to my daughter as well
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
Oh dear- I have yellow secrets Since I do not have any secrets to reveal or to hide- my friends knows every tiny details of my life. I am an open book and even Mylot is one of those who knows my journal. I don't want to keep secrets with any of my friends whom I count and considered real friends. It's good to have our life open to our friends- I can't imagine hiding any secrets and lives with fear that one day or somebody might come to know about it. Have a great weekend dear
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Nice to hear you are one open lady Jai and it also nice to be with someone who does not have any skeletons in the closets..
@much2say (56226)
• Los Angeles, California
21 Apr 12
Hee hee! Do tell (that is, if you are willing!)!! I must say I have some deep, dark secrets . . . but I'm not going to tell . . . even anonymously! I tell no one anything . . . it all goes with ME into my grave - ha ha ha!!!!
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
i am the grim reaper.. you still won't tell me?
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
21 Apr 12
Hi jazel Of course... I have a few dark choclateeee secrets but they are all safe and Public. I believe in that - share out everything so that there is not much of confusion or stress on the small little brain of mine... When I did have some secrets... I was like - Oh! what if this revealed my darker side or even my secret... Now, with nothing as a closed secret, I am happier, and a little more stress free. As to where and with whom do I share my secrets... hmmm! That is secret code. (kidding). I have my wife who never seems to see my sides and is the safest one I find to share as most of my secrets dont amuse her and for all others... I have MyLot
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
i know your secrets, you stashed chocolates under your bed that is why you have so many ants crawling around!
@Bluedoll (16773)
• Canada
21 Apr 12
Deep dark secrets are secrets not told or they wouldn’t be secrets. However even the most profound secret is never a secret to the one carrying it. I hope mine will be sweet because we can never release what we don’t own. Otherwise, it is our secret and known to us only.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Partly you are right as it is not now a secret if you share it unless that person is bound to some secrecy? me and my friends who have secrets that only us knows and will be forever with us
@leighz (456)
21 Apr 12
People will tell other people's secret, maybe not now but eventually they will. I don't share my deepest darkest secrets to other people. I keep it away, locked and sealed, buried 6 feet under. That way, I have peace of mind.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
but if you have secrets can you really have peace of mind? i mean, what is someone can dig that deep?
22 Apr 12
Keeping such secrets to yourself is harmful to your health as you are likely to be stressed out. At the same time, telling those secrets to anyone, including your spouse, may harm your relationship with the other person. The best way is go to a vast empty meadow, stand in the center and tell all your secrets aloud making sure no one is within hearing distance. That way, you beat the stress out.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
that is like something out of a movie beloved...
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
22 Apr 12
I Am quite an open person but I have to say I hold some secrets no one will never know...I Am and proud to say a very loyal friend.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
good for you then, we need a lot more loyal persons in this world
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I tell my secret to my best of the best friend I have, my bf. He knows everything about me. there's nothing to hide to him. All my secrets are no longer secret for I reveal it all to him. And no matter what, we will never tell each others secret to another person even if we are not in good terms or even if, God don't ever forbid, our relationship won't work.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
surely you are inlove with him gaiza
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Crazy in love with my best friend
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
Wow. That's a wonderful feeling gaiza. I also fell in love with my best friend and I felt that the feeling is mutual. It's just that, he already belongs to someone else. Right love at the wrong time, I must say. Haha. I'm so happy for you gaiza. May your relationship last. God bless the two of you.
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@toniganzon (72553)
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
A friend once told me that a secret will not be a secret if you tell it to anybody. He told me if i tell him a secret and tell him to keep it as one that's not a good idea because he would eventually tell it to somebody and say it's a secret that need not be told to anybody. And the cycle goes on. So there's no secret that won't be revealed unless you keep that secret to yourself. It's not good to keep secrets so i don't like keeping one. But if it cannot be avoided then i just don't tell it to anybody.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
That is logical, a secret is not a secret anymore when somebody knows about it..good point toni..
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
21 Apr 12
I guess i don't have some dark secrets. Even my past failure in life, i share it with my close friends. That way, they won't plunge into the same sad experience. Even my husband and my family knows it.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
you are one honest lady them SimplyD..
• Philippines
22 Apr 12
I never tell my secret to anybody.I kept it on myself.If i revealit, then that is no longer a secret.U can rely ur secrets to me coz i can handle it forever..
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
then it won't be a secret if i tell you?
21 Apr 12
We all have our dark little secrets. Im never gonna tell anyone. What they don't know won't hurt them. Right? ;)
• United States
22 Apr 12
Haha i don't...not really actually i have a lot of dark bloody red secrets but i am obviously not going to tell anybody except my cat hehe
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
23 Apr 12
oh did you rat her out gjax?
@gjax57 (897)
• United States
22 Apr 12
I dont like when people tell me secrets because it's sooooooooo hard for me NOT to tell me ANYTHING. I got in trouble with someone who WAS really close to me now she wont even talk to me anymore (my fault) because I betrayed her :(