Are you concern about your friend?
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
Philippines
16 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
27 Apr 12
For me, it seems like I am always the person that my friends turn to when they are having difficulties in their lives. I have a lot of concern for them and I would do anything that I can to make things easier for them.
This means that I will offer a roof over my friend's heads if they need it and I would even be willing to testify for them if court if that is what they needed.
I believe that we are granted with few true friends in our lives and that is the reason that I will go to the ends of the earth for them.
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@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
Good,because you are the one friend who can help them in time of difficulties.
They are happy when you are around and give them good help and advises.Continue that good work and hope you are more blessings to come.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
True, i am also give advise to other friend that closed to me,and even not close i give also the good ways of encouraging.
It is best you are to help and for the good..
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
People will always have problems, it's something that one cannot avoid. I am a listening ear to my friends but over time, I have tried to avoid such because there's really nothing I could do and I cannot just sit around all the time absorbing their complaints about life and negativity. I know it seems selfish, but I think sometimes people need to be alone to solve their own problems too.
Now that I'm older, there's lesser drama and 'crying' with friends. It's more of a social thing where we gather once in a while, hang out, or simply just update each other on the others' lives. I think it's better this way. There's less stress (we don't need added stress) and we could appreciate friends more.
Further, we've already gone through all those things, that's why the bond is stronger. Perhaps it just time for us to go to the next level with our lives, not just as friends, but also as partner and wives and moms to our families.
Have a great MyLot experience ahead!
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
That's true.We can't avoid problems,and that is life.We all had different level of problems .
So each of us had problems and just different ways,time to happen.
But we can give advises to friends,and we can exchange it and help them too.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
27 Apr 12
When my friends have problems I try to help. I listen to them and give them advice. Sometimes my friends have very serious problems and my help is not enough, they need professional help. I have been very worried about one of my friends because she didn't want to live anymore. We talked on the phone for many hours, but it was not enough and she had to spend some time at hospital where she could get professional help. Fortunately she is feeling better now. Another friend often has relationship problems and she asks me for help. I try to help her as much as I can I try to give her advice when she needs it. When I am the one who needs advice I also talk to my friends and they help me.
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
That is good at least you do your best to help.It is good we are exchanging advises and can help every one.
Its good attitude and because you love and care your friend.
@ericpapasit (1274)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
i'm not really good in making advises but i always make it sure that my presence whenever needed is there. Sometimes what they all need is someone who will listen to them^^
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
It is great that you are in the presence even you are not good adviser but you are around.
thanks for the share and good luck.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
27 Apr 12
as i concern i will help them ans he/she need and can happy. now if you can say me that how you are if you my friend i will do for you too.
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
25 Jan 13
Once I call you as one of my friend, I consider you as part of my family. Definitely, when I say family, my concerned would be special and not taken for granted. I love all my friends like my brothers and sisters. Maybe this is the reason why I have hundreds of friends who will always be around in times of need, I mean not financially but moral support.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Apr 12
hi befrindwithme yes Iam very concerned with a mylot friend whose daughter is bipolar and without meds is running amok; destroying her moms property and then locked her mom out so mom called the police.I am concerned for my friend's safety as her 17 year old daughter had hit a few times.I have given her my advice and hoped all well go well for her.
@maharlikah (1045)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
Lending our ears to them can already be a great help for at least with that simple act by us, they were able to release the feeling of grievance or resentment. In my case when he or she will ask some advice, I will also share what I need to say to calm down the feeling.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
Sometimes when my friends have problems all they need is my presence. Sometimes they don't need an advise, they just need someone to listen to them. So i make sure my presence is there or if i can't be there, i just call and listen to what they want to share.
@jupijupi77 (257)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 12
Yes...i agree with that..sometimes they just need someone to listen to them.They want to share their problem with us...
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
28 Apr 12
The times we are living in truly are "critical times hard to deal with". Everyone is feeling the affects of these hard times. And my heart goes out to my friends when I see that they are having a hard time whether it's financial, health problems, or family problems.For me I think that sharing scriptures with them from the Bible helps them to know that things will not always be like they are.
@sjvg1976 (41290)
• Delhi, India
27 Apr 12
Yes i am concerned for my friends like you i often give them advices and its up to them if they follow them or not.Even i help them when they stuck somewhere.Similarly they do help me when i am in trouble and require them.This is how friendship goes on its not just to take from friends of course you have to give them too to make the bond stronger.
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
27 Apr 12
I'm really grateful that I have a friend whom I really "feel" and of cousr we can confide in each other. I'm a really good listener-I actually LISTEN and pay attention to what she's saying, and sometimes give advice or just joke around if they want to laugh a bit. It really depends on the situation.
@LaurenPogisky (131)
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28 Apr 12
I a concerned with my true friend because this is one way of giving them back the friendship they have given me. Being concerned and kind to your friends will make your friendship bloom for the better. Your bond will strengthen and you will further build trust and happiness through the years. I think that friendship is a major tool to have a happy life. I mean, if you cherish your friends so much, they will also cherish you back. Everyday will be great because you will always have a friend to chat on, enjoy snacks together, or watch a movie or so. Their company will keep you in comfort. No man is an island, as they always say. Furthermore, friend could really help you in times of needs even by just sitting there beside you and be a shoulder to cry on. There are so much more that friends can provide so there are also a million reasons to have concern for your friends. I love my friends.
@cloud31 (5809)
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27 Apr 12
I always very concern about my friends.I treat them like a part of my family.Whenever they encounter problems I used to be by their sides, offering a hands and shoulder to cry on. I don't neglect friends at all they can always count on me. I always include them in my prayers. That's how I care of my friends.
Happy myLotting!
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
27 Apr 12
as i concern i will help them ans he/she need and can happy. now if you can say me that how you are if you my friend i will do for you too.