naughty but nice^^ is this the ideal concept for a perfect relation?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
April 27, 2012 8:26am CST
hi guys^^ 
i been thinking that the ideal person for me is a guy that is very sweet but that sometimes also makes me angry. i mean its normal that there are good things and arguments too. being too bad is bad and being too sweet is bad too. sooner or later the guy and the girl will get bored so for me the ideal guy is naughty but nice^^ dont you agree also? 
please share your opinions^^ 
i been thinking that the ideal person for me is a guy that is very sweet but that sometimes also makes me angry. i mean its normal that there are good things and arguments too. being too bad is bad and being too sweet is bad too. sooner or later the guy and the girl will get bored so for me the ideal guy is naughty but nice^^ dont you agree also?
please share your opinions^^ 3 people like this
15 responses
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
Is that you wanted from a guy you like to become your boyfriend?A sweet lover who is also acting gentlemanly yet very forwardly naughty.This type of man has many girls left behind his ego.He keeps on flirting other girls to count how many are his girlfriends.You should be more appropriate in choosing your criteria of your upcoming
man.Do not be too choosy because you could be left behind finding nothing.Just pick the right guy for you as it comes your path because doing so make you have a perfect pick.When it comes to your real choice it is up to you who you like best.
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@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
6 May 12
If you like a man who sometimes disagrees with you then that would also be a problem
in the long run because what if you like this yet he insisted to like another one but you have to hurry things for it is very important episodes of your family affairs
that is why you should expedite a rush decision.Now,how should you do this things so that no one is to blame?Do you still wanted this kind of relationship you are frequently not believing in one thing now and then the other day you are fine.I wish you could find your own soul mate that is not too complicated.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
no i just mean its good to be with someone that is surprising sometimes. its not good if is a guy that is always the same way. its good that he is sweet but sometimes also disagrees with you. if you are with someone that agrees with you all the time it will destroy your relation. its good to find out new things everyday about each other. im not choosy^^ when i like a guy its bcs my heart tells me to^^ not my head^^
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@CzarinaM19 (115)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
I agree 100%. Who doesn't love a little spice in their relationships. If you decide to be with this person for a long time, why not mix up a few things, in a good way of course. Too nice is too boring, don't you agree? Of course I would never want the woman beater type, oh no. Lol. I'm saying, do new things together, fun and interesting. =P
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
ahah yes a girl that is bitter isnt that good for you right? she might want to do some crazy things^^ or be flirty right? anyway i wish that you can find one that is good but also a bit challenging sometimes. that way you wont get bored at all. you will only be happy ^^ besides what is life without challenges? its the same in relations. if is all the same you will be unhappy. be always happy with your princess^^
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
6 May 12
My bf is still in London, I think i have mentioned that in one of my comments on your posts. I understand if you haven't read that, the notifications are not really working quite well these days. And yes, fighting in a relationship is normal. That makes the relationship stronger because you will really know the person well once you see him angry.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
im happy for that gaiza^^ you deserve that. by the way is your bf near you already? or is he still in london?
yes czarina for sure fightings make relations stronger. makes you love him more and makes him love you more. that way you can know each other better. you can know if his ideals are the same and if he loves you as much as you do. good and bad always hold hands^^
@CzarinaM19 (115)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
I agree, I think fighting allows you to know the person more. This way, you'd know what his priorities are, what specific things that ticks him off or makes him feel better. A bit if fighting is healthy in a relationship.
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@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
27 Apr 12
Hi sweetlover,
I bet you are sweet lover I agreed with you and I hate boriing partner too. Honestly, my hubby used to be such boring person but after the long night talk (3years ago) it actually made a huge changes. Changes between his personality and so is mine.
I agreed with you and I hate boriing partner too. Honestly, my hubby used to be such boring person but after the long night talk (3years ago) it actually made a huge changes. Changes between his personality and so is mine.2 people like this
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
im so happy that things changed between you^^ im happy that he is funnier and makes you proud to be with him^^ you are with him since a long time i guess^^ for sure if he continued to be boring you would be unhappy. so im really glad that he changed his way. i wish that he treats you right and dont forget to be very happy^^ you and him complement each other^^ thanks so much for your sweet reply^^
@factorial (977)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
Yes, sweetloveforeve, the ideal guy/friend is naughty but must be nice too.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
yes ^^ for sure^^ thanks so much for your reply^^ wish you find your sweet but naughty prince soon^^ or did you find him already? i wish you found him already^^ we all deserve happiness and the soon it appears the better^^ have a happy weekend and thanks for replying^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
ahah im happy you agree with me^^ love is a sweet mixture of things right? its good to find out new things about the guy you love everyday^^ if he is always the same way it will be awful. if he is a bit difficult sometimes will be good^^ it will be like you are on the first date everyday^^ ahah a relation like that must be lovely. how i wish i had it right now^^ wish you find it soon^^
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
28 Apr 12
No , I strongly disagree. I'm the type of person who would leave the moment I had an argument with a guy. I would not get over it. It would Always be there so I would leave. A guy who likes to fight would only make me an enemy!I need to be understood And respected and I have it. My guy and I have Never argued! Some may not believe me and that's ok. Others may think it is boring, They are so wrong!
@woody5_16 (171)
• Egypt
30 Apr 12
nothing will satisfy human we always need things that we dont have if u got this person u will say i need guy more gentle so dont put rules in relation ships just be happy of what u get as u will spend your ife searching for that guy as you may neglect people that will comfort you hope you get the best :)
@shaggin (72141)
• United States
28 Apr 12
Wow I havent seen you around mylot in forever I wondered what you have been up to since I used to comment on so many of your posts and rarely see you post any anymore.
I do not want a man that will make me angry sometimes. I dont think there is anything wrong with being sweet and nice all the time. I know that in every relationship there will eventually be a fight but its not something I want to happen. My boyfriend Nick is my ideal guy as far as personality goes. Hes sweet and funny and respectful to me.
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
1 May 12
I totally agree with you. This is better. Plus with some humor, then the relationship will be better. But there is no such thing as perfect relation, but at least we tried our best to make it the best.
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
2 May 12
i agree, i like my hubby pretty much as he is, even on his bad days, i love him more and more each day, he is one that will telll you the truth even if it hurts, so i dont ask unless i really want to know lol.. he is kind sweet, considerate and has a great heart, but dont screw him over or he will not be that way to you again
he believes that all people should work hard for what they get, and that you get respect if you deserve it.. and he does work hard every day and is a great provider and im happy i have my new job and i see how happy it makes him as well
i treat him kind and he treats me kind, he loves to joke around and so do i.
but he also has has serious side.. and i know when not to cross him.. :)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
27 Apr 12
I agree with you. I hate to be with a boring person. I want a man who i can laugh with, cry with and of course argue with. It would be so much fun. Sugar and spice and everything nice!
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
6 May 12
ahah toni im happy you understand what i mean^^ for sure its boring if a guy is too serious and dont make us laugh^^ we dont ask for a clown just a guy that makes us happy^^ besides if a guy is too serious we will feel awkward around him. how will it exist attraction or love?^^ sugar and spice is the best ^^ have a happy weekend and thanks for your reply^^
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
28 Apr 12
I think you are right. People need some tension from time to time. I'm a calm guy and my girlfriend sometimes tells me that she needs someone to quarrel with. I prefer tension of a different kind if you catch my drift so it's a matter of preferences I think.
I agree that people get bored if everything is perfect all the time.
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
28 Apr 12
i agree. no relationship is perfect. we all undergo arguments and fights but that's what make relationships go stronger.
