Your problems is not the responsibility of others but it is yours!

Well, from my point of view, we always have a duty to help others in making decisions. This we must do it consciously, only when we are sure that the advice we give to other people, is the right one for them. I think if we suggest something in some doubt, in my opinion better to refrain, rather than give a wrong suggestion.

Yes i agree that everyone has problem and this is our own responsability but sometimes we need help from others and prayers from others in very bad situation.God is here to solve our problem i agree,we need help from others also.

I know of a lot of people in my life who do nothing but blame other people and other situations for their problems, all of the time. Although others can contribute to what happens to us during the course of our lives, the fact is that we always have the final say about how we behave and the things that we manage to achieve. If more people realised this, I think that their lives would be a lot better, as they would realise that they were in control of their future rather than just having to sit around and see what other people chose to do with their lives.

You're right, each of us should own up to whatever problem we're facing, regardless if it was caused by ourselves or by another person. I mean, at the end of the day, it would still be our problem and so it is up to us to find a solution to it. Although it wouldn't hurt if we ask for help though :)

I think it is very important to seek the opinion or the help of others in the difficult situations. In most of the times god find us a way from such situtions and such solutions be caught from others eaisly.

Obviously it is but if others can help you mend it then it would be good at least that there are people around you perhaps that might be ready or that you can rely on or depend at in times of adversities but perhaps the core person responsible for solving ones' problem is the involved person per see since you knew from the very beginning what it is , how did it start, what aggravated it and the possible solutions for it somehow basically it is striking one owns pedal till reaching the right solution to it.

our problem is our responsibility and it is only us ourselves who can solve it. No others. But, as you said that we can ask help from GOD. Nice to share on this discussion.

True!. Our problem is our responsibility. It is our responsibility to find a solution and solve the problem. And though it is our responsibility, we should not limit ourselves from carrying the load alone. Advices are given by the people around us to give another new perspective that can help solve the problem. Though it is our responsibility, oftentimes problems are interrelated, it does not only after us but the also the people around us. So, it is best to take in consideration the effects of our decisions to the people around us. And usually that is what's making it hard to solve the problem. The weights gets heavier when there's people other than ourselves who will be affected.

Yes, I agree with you. It is your choice to follow the advises and opinions from others, and still you are responsible for your problems.