Having a fight with my brother!

I have younger brothers and sister as well and we have had super fights before. Worst was my brother thew a chair at me but I was not hurt because I ran away from the flying chair fast. I really got mad and threw the chair back at him but I didn't throw it directly to him, I hit our glass table and it went into pieces. I said I will never ever be his big sister ever on that day, every time I see him i always put an angry face at him. As the days past, my heart just went soft. I forgot what happened and everything went back to normal. Our mom helped us find peace, she asked me to lower my pride because I am more mature for I am elder than him. I also prayed that I may find peace in my heart because I know no matter how and what i do, he is still and always will be my brother. So, just give it time and pray, find for peace in your heart and mind and you will surely find peace with your brother as well.

LOL get rid of him...LOL...I know I had the same feeling about my brother. The best thing I can say, is try to remember a point when you two were getting along still, (hopefully there is one, if not, then create something new and positive with him now) remember what that was like? Then have a heart to heart talk with him, let him know what that hitting you is not acceptable, and if he wants the ipod to be nicer to you instead. Tell him you love him, and want to have a better relationship with him, instead of always fighting and being angry at him. Then tell him that you love him, and want something that works for both of you. Then together create some rules, boundaries about using the ipod. Put it in writing, have mom and dad sign it. Start acting respectful, and he will respond with respect in return. You both have to learn to be responsible in sharing and in creating the kind of relationship you both want. And you can create something at any moment, once you set your heart and mind to it. Let me know how things develop. (Vjeverica)

good day to you whoslovetanyway, to tell you honestly, the memory flashes back after i have read your post. that before, me and my brother have had always our arguments. that those discussions were just started to small things that lead to big miscommunication. so what i did, i decided to move out for a while just to bring down the tension that has been built up.

HAHAHA.Got beat by your little brother?You know what? Just kick him out of your room if he comes bothering you again.That is what i do when my sis or some of my cousin brothers try to bug me.If you let him continue like this,it will get worse as he will think that he can have his own way with you.

hey, hey Give yourself some slack, your brother is not a curse, a few years coming up with this smiali.Wiem which also says I have younger siblings and a lot younger, but I play here saves the day, hail!