Months vs years
By Nikhabele
@Nikhabele (166)
South Africa
May 7, 2012 12:37am CST
So this lady calls in on the radio and says she wishes her 30 months old daughter a happy birthday, so the radio presenter asks her how old is 30 months to which she answered, 2 and half years......ok so why didn't she just says I'm wishing my daughter a happy 2 and half birthday? Why 30 months? I mean really now? Or when do we start calling it in years as opposed to months? I guess from the twelfth month or at least one and half, which is 18 months.
Happy mylotting.
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@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
7 May 12
Well if that is the case then I can't wait to hear her saying, today my 6570 months daughter got her license. The day her daughter is 18yrs.
@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
7 May 12
Hold on if her daughter is only 30 months old is it really her birthday. Shouldn't it be 24 months or 36. I think people who do this are ridiculous, maybe they havent learned to convert months into years. I think after 12 months you start counting by years. The only thing that would have been more annoying is if she said her daughter was 130 weeks old.
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@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
7 May 12
You see, that's another thing that's boring. I didn't even realize 30 months is actually halfway to another year. So it would mean she celebrates her daughters "birthday" every month. I guess.
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@PhillyDreamer (3039)
• United States
7 May 12
I think that's exactly what she does. People are ridiculous sometimes.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
7 May 12
Hi Nikhabele,
I get it that an excited mom would like to acknoweledge her little ones monthly and bi-annual birthday and all. This usually wears off by the time the child is two but not always. It's all good but calling in to a radio station?? That seems a bit over the top. The thing is you don't want the child to come to expect that their birthday gets celebrated more than once a year.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
7 May 12
Thing is parents tend to live their lives brought their kids, so this woman is still excited of this child that she doesn't even want her to grow up. She doesn't realize that this will catch up with the child. Imagine when the child starts kindergarten and tell other children that he has a birthday more than once. Sick.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
7 May 12
My thoughts too. I remember being really into my kids and fascinated with all of their developments but whenever anyone asked me how old they were, I had to pause and think about how many months old they were beyond a year. I pretty much just answered "Just over a year" or "about a year and a half" or "almost 2". Some people do this same thing with their relationships. Every month dating is a new anniversary.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 May 12
hi Nikhabele I don't know if you are man or woman but in the US the first two or three years children do change monthly so pediatricians often advise moms to bring their child in to be checked ever few months so she possibly learned to count by months
and so she wishes her daughter a happy 30 months birthday. Some would just say 2 and a half yr. birthday.most of us just have yearly
birthdays.After three years the doctor visits usually will be yearly from then o n. There are worst things she could have done so let up on the lady a bit. She must really love her little girl to wish her happy birthday on the radio.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
8 May 12
Hi Hatley, I'm a woman and a mother of an eight year old beautiful girl and I live I South Africa where we also have the same system. My baby has been going for the same checks since she was 2weeks, then she was going every month until she was three years and then she goes every year. I'll be taking her to those checks till she is twelve, however it's not like when she goes for her twelveth vaccination I'll say, today I'm taking my 4380months old daughter for her last vaccination.
And this doesn't mean I don't love my child, because she's actually my reason for living.And I also don't agree with you when you say most of us have yearly birthday because we ALL have yearly birthday. No one is born twice in one year so birthday is once in a year, 12months, not once every six months.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
8 May 12
Umh, i also don't understand in here, people count the age of a kid is 2 months, 9 months, 15 months since the day that kid was born. However when become an adult like me, my age is added 1 more, they said that 1 years is counted since i was in my mom body. It doesn't make sense yet, i just was in my mom body 9 months but now my age is my real age plus 1.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
8 May 12
Hi Ryanong, where's here? There they making it more complicated hey. I've never heard of that one before, and it's hard to make sense of it.
@Suebee (2013)
• Canada
7 May 12
A birthday is just that. A BIRTH DAY. The day of their birth. In that case, how can you celebrate a birth day more than once a year? If your child is born on January 1, well, January 1 only happens once a year. If you are celebrating a day that is 6 months from their birth, it is not their birth day. A birthday at 30 months? That's just ridiculous.
When children are very young, people measure their development in months rather than years. There is a big difference between the development of a 4 month old and a six month old, therefore when asked the age of their baby they tend to respond in months. However, generally speaking, a birthday is only celebrated once a year. To call it a birthday at 30 months is misleading.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
7 May 12
Maybe she never though she'll have a child, no but stil. She's just being silly.
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@ElicBxn (63594)
• United States
7 May 12
I would say that after 24 months you should start counting years.
Why?
Because children change so much in those first 2 years that months can make a difference.
I don't think my roomie's nephew and his wife realized how delayed their daughter was until they saw her side by side with a child almost 2 weeks younger.
Not to say they didn't know there was a problem, but how bad it was probably eluded them. Now she's getting some help and making great strides...
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
7 May 12
Yeah it does seem rather strange, although it is not too uncommon to rather refer to young child in terms of months. Although the practice does seem to stop rather after a few years old. Of course, it just seems a bit absurd after the first couple of years to keep referring to children in months. I have heard people talk about their sixteenth month old, eighteenth month old, you know the drill.
I think that thirty months is about edging rather on the side of absurdity with the charade. I had assumed that two years might have been the baseline but I guess that had changed. Or really it is just someone celebrating even more milestones right in the life of their child, even through I personally feel that after the age of two, it should only be measured in years. But what do I know? Not that much apparently.
@Nikhabele (166)
• South Africa
7 May 12
I really doesn't hav to be wether you know or not Megamatt, it's just down right ridiculous .
@doroffee (4222)
• Hungary
7 May 12
Theree are people who celebrate their children every month till a certain age, just because they feel so glad that they have them. I find it a bit too much, I mean, I have a guess these people are going to be the overly cligy, overprotective ones who are almost going to die when the kid wants to go to a week's long summer camp for the first time in their lives after lots of arguing...
@alutka (211)
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7 May 12
two years to understand it, but then perhaps it is easier to count years than a month, often at first difficult to guess how many children her age.