I love you but I don’t want to communicate
@nagatron123456 (888)
Philippines
May 7, 2012 10:27am CST
Is it possible that when you love someone you also don’t want to communicate? My friend is in a long distance relationship right now but he has a problem because her girlfriend don’t communicate that much but whenever he asked her girlfriend if she loves him, her GF would always say “Yes I love you”. After a week he found out that his GF is also busy knowing other people, having text mates that is why his GF does not have much time for my friend so I told my friend “what kind of love is that when your GF is busy know other people and you, her BF is being taken for granted?” My friend is also confused if he will give up or not.
Do you think my friend’s GF is really serious? Is there really a situation where in women likes to communicate with other men than communicating with their partner but still they are in love with their partner? Do you think my friend’s GF is worth Hoping?
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6 responses
@Rtlsnk316 (1197)
• Mexico
7 May 12
Long distance relationships just don't work.
The element of socializing, being together, seeing, hearing(in person), feeling each other in different situations, is missing.
Really, is it that difficult where your friend lives to meet real people?
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
8 May 12
You are right, that is why almost all long distance relationship fail because the chance of getting involve to other people is so high and the temptations are too strong. So sad.
@rewardsinlife (1132)
• United States
7 May 12
Hmm doesn't sound too promising for your friend. Usually a lack of interest, and not communicating, especially in long distance realationships, is not a good sign. Could be she is with someone else, could be that she just is not in love like your friend. I would urge them to call and figure some stuff out before things go further.
@nagatron123456 (888)
• Philippines
8 May 12
That is what I always thought because if you love someone there should always be an interest and that interest drives you to communicate with each other. That is also what I had in mind that the girl is not that in love with my friend. I am always advising my friend to move on because things doesn't seem right anymore but the problem is, he is blinded by the word I LOVE YOU everytime he asked his GF if she is still love him.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
8 May 12
Well that is already not good. I feel sorry for your friend. Being in a long distance relationship is never easy and for your friend to take all the loneliness and still be honest and trustworthy bf, I salute him for that. Your friend should take actions now, he should not let the relationship fall if he really loves the girl. But, if the girl is already doing stuff like texting other men, then that is already another story. They really have to talk about their relationship. Saying I love you to your friend doesn't mean to say that the girl really loves it. Remember that actions speak louder than words. What does words mean if the actions doesn't speak for itself. He has to let the girl go if the girl is acting like she doesn't care anymore.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
8 May 12
I think if these questions were directly marked to her, your friend could have come out of doubts. As long as he loves her, and after all it is a matter of serious issue, why can't your friend direcly get some time with her to discuss it and if NOT, just be relaxed instead of burdening the tension on the head.
Fix a nice time and be open and frank to her and seriously ask her about and let her take her own time to give a reply. If she is serious and both are intended to go further, your friend can continue and if not, ...
@Aja103654 (5646)
• Philippines
4 Jun 12
For what purpose is that girl having other text mates? Do have other flings? Far as I'm concerned, your friend is wasting his time on this girl. The girl seems to only give him problems, best not to continue. But your friend should confront the girl about this issue and settle things between them. Don't just break up because of a hunch that this girlfriend doesn't care about him at all. Communication is important. Your friend should ask this girl to communicate, one call will do, and clarify if both of them still continue with this kind of relationship.
@photolover (27)
•
12 May 12
as far as i am concerned.your friend's GF is worth hoping
a girl will not say "I love U" to a person who she does not interested in ,and everyone need to make new friends .
she need to adapt herself into surrondings
long distance love is hard,isn't it?and if your friend is still love her,then bring her happiness rather than doubt the exist of their love
