Took me years to mark BR

In my previous account, I haven't resolved many discussions for long time and for about two years like you. *blush Later I started to give those BR for the people who deserve for it. Even it is late, that will give them encouragement to work more here and would be friendly with us.

when you select best responses you are giving encouragement to your friends. But it is ideal that you encourage an active member because you give him an opportunity to identify your best responses also. You can select even after two years.

hi gaiza well in some senses we do not have to do anything here but by the same token its a nice gesture and while it does not pay anyone it does make the recipient feel good. id it not nice to do something at times for someone else without expecting any reward fo r it.I myself just read over the responses pick the one I think is best and have done with it. I do wait a week or two to allow others to find and respond to my discussions.,but I refuse to stress over it.

That's the main reason why I'm not planning to start new discussions. I want to resolve all my previous discussions first. The problem is I'm not in the mood most of the time. I can only choose the best response if I'm in the mood. It's also true in commenting. Sometimes I just log in to myLot but never post anything. My mind says I want to post at least five comments but my hands don't want to cooperate.

Hi gaiza! There are time that we need to give some credits to those who replied to our discussions. If we can see that someone has given an answer that we thought the best answer, it quite okay to give them the BR.

Well,I always try to resolve my discussions after one week, and at present i just have one discussion which is unresolved.Okay now It's my duty to confess this anyway,I have started just four discussions and resolved 3 of them.The fourth was started 2-3 days back so i'm waiting for 4 more days before it gets resolved. As myLot says, you need not resolve the discussions but i feel resolving the discussion would be useful like this:After 2 years, a person may search about a topic,and find your discussion talking about the same.When you have the BR marked, he would feel it easy to read the BR and get answer.But sometimes anyway,you may have a lot of answers interesting and i guess you could not really choose one best of them all! Well, I would first leave a discussion unresolved only if it going to have too many best answers.If at all,it has only one BR and i haven't resolved after 2 years,i would still give them BR.Why be ashamed? It's each user's way of resolving the discussions!! Good day~!