Ever faced trouble to start a new discussion ?
By thewonderboy
@thewonderboy (7501)
India
May 9, 2012 5:35am CST
I felt a great dilemma on posting a new topic here in mylot. I find that I have no more topics to post here in mylot. When I get deep into it I started to find a new one.
The topic is really simple,
Did you ever faced any trouble to start a topic here in mylot ?
It took me many hours to have an such a discussion.
So how much time do you take to find an idea of a new discussion ?
Do you love posting new discussion here ?
3 people like this
18 responses
@shrinithi18 (548)
• India
9 May 12
I don't start discussions often but i would not say it as trouble!
Well, it is upto me.I would start a discussion when i am in fun mood or want opinions or clarify the doubts that i have.MyLot pays us for writing-doesn't mean you get more for discussions than responses.So it's always equally good to respond or to discuss.
So why just feel or worry about it?
And, i get an idea maybe when i am introduced to something new,say like when i think weird in a situation or like when i have something like a so called doubt no one has asked so far.Those kinds of discussions are already too many right?
So why waste time thinking?
Respond whatever you know about!--is what i'm doing right now.But,well, i do love starting discussions!
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
well i create most of my discussion from my experience to have fun and also have little fun?
Don't you try you best to get maximum response while starting a discussion?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
so do you try to post your discussions a little different from others?
1 person likes this
@shrinithi18 (548)
• India
9 May 12
YES of course everyone of us wants many responses but then it is how the topic appeals to people and maybe a little of how popular you are or how unique your discussion is!
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
Well, do your experience has it's reality when you post them here in mylot?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
Don't you try to get maximum responses to those new discussions ?
Don't you find fun with them ?
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
12 May 12
Hello wonderboy,
Finding a topic is not tough for me, but what prevents me from starting a topic is, I am not getting enough time to spend here. If I start a topic then I have to make sure that I can reply to all people who responded to my topic. I am doing mylot from office so I can spend my leisure time, which is very rare in these day. Yesterday I was free and thought to start a new topic too, unfortunately mylot didn’t worked for the whole day.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
12 May 12
Why can't you mylot during your break sessions?
Don't you get time to do at that time?
1 person likes this
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
13 May 12
Sometimes they come easy and then other times not so much. I like posting discussions but I never so alot at once. I like being very active within them so I want to make sure I have time. I will jot down discussions that come to mind sometimes so I don't forget them but I try to only post one a week if I have several.
Take care.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I only start discussions whenever something comes up in my mind. I don't really push myself to make something that I am not really sure what it is all about or I am not certain if that discussion will catch someone's attention. So my answer would be no, I am not facing any trouble staring discussions. If nothing comes up in my mind, no questions to ask, no new experience to share, like really nothing at all, then I don't have to make any. I just respond to posts and take my time here reading discussions. I find some discussions really fun to read so it's still worth my time here. Happy mylotting
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
Don't you try to get maximum number of responses to your discussions?
@musicluv4life (1867)
• United States
10 May 12
sometimes i just have an idea that when i usually will post something i just comment on other discussions until i come up with a thought of my own. I try not to think about it too much, because that just put pressure on you and you will never figure out what you want to say.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 May 12
I follow what I feel when I'm starting a new discussion, most of the time what happened to me that I can share and talk about. It happens to me also getting hard to think but what I shall I do when I have nothing to think about. Specially when I'm only sitting here in front of my computer. I don't push myself to hard just to have a discussion everyday.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
10 May 12
No I'm not find any trouble, If I started a new discussion it means I'm ready to answer back who response on my discussion.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
Did you ever find trouble to start any one of your discussions ?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
Do you feel any excitement to see the responses for your discussions ?
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I only start one when I have something in mind or else, I don't bother squeezing my mind to think of any topic.
There are times that topic comes easily and there are times that I don't have anything in mind- not interesting subject.
So, such cases like this, I prefer to scan friends topic and comment to them.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 May 12
well, what do you think?
I mean,you posted comments to my topics and did you have fun posting/commenting to my topics?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
i just mean that posting new discussion or responding to the discussion gives you more fun?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
do you find posting them brings a lot of fun?
1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 May 12
Whenever i think of something to discuss, i would jot it down on my cellphone or notepad. Then, when i am in the mood for it, i start on it.
There are times when i am so in the mood for starting discussions. It seems that for the past weeks, i just don't have the mood for it. I have already jotted down topics but until now, my brain cannot just function well for it.
@ryanong (9665)
• Vietnam
10 May 12
Sometime i have no idea of topics for 3-4 days or 1 week, but sometimes i have many ideas for it based on my current life. Many problems raise everyday in ordinary life and somehow i haven't known how to solve it then i wanna ask mylotters.
I don't force myself should have some new topics a day, I just enjoin mylot only: post my discussions and sharing my problems/thinking with the other mylotters.
@wittynet (4421)
• Philippines
10 May 12
I always have a plan to start a new discussion, but I don't always have enough time. Whenever I post a discussion, I want to ensure that I can also respond to all myLotters who commented on my discussion. If I can't, I'm not posting any discussions. I am more comfortable in commenting.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
so, which do find mord fun commenting or starting new one?
1 person likes this
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
10 May 12
Most of the time I spend it on replying to discussion. I only post or start discussions when something happens to me or when I find/learn something interesting and worth sharing :)
Trouble? Hm... Not really because if I don't have any topics to discuss or I don't feel like starting a discussion then I simple don't do it :D When idea struck me, I start a discussion, otherwise, I don't. It's a spur of the moment thing actually. Lolz!
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
10 May 12
I DID try to make it interesting but of course, what's interesting to me is not always interesting to others :P In some ways I can say that I'm successful with it though :D
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
So do you try your best effort to make your discussion more interesting ?
did you become successful in it ?
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
12 May 12
I hope you can do a good topic which can make others intresting. All the best.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I agree with you it is not easy posting new topics here. myLot being here for I guess more than 5 years, definitely mylotters have posted a lot of discussions already. And the discussions we normally post now here might already been discussed before, except that there may be a little different thing which we add up on the topic. On my first few months here, I try to post something daily or at least every other day. But now I cannot think of any good topic to discuss. Well, I guess it's about time we just discuss something that is happening to us daily.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
12 May 12
I am not sure whether there were interesting post that I've made in the past. Maybe some might have found some interesting, while others don't, we never know...
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
13 May 12
I hope you have the caliber to start a new one, which makes every one quite intresting.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
Hey enelym,
Do you try to post the discussions which is quite interesting ?
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
9 May 12
When I started I was more focused on starting new topics, and finding out what other people thinks about the subject. After a few weeks, that part of my activity here on myLot decreased as I got more active in responding to other discussions. But, whenever there's a good thought that comes up, I can easily put them in to words and post away. Most of it are about things happening in my life and around me.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
so which do you enjoy the most starting new one or responding to others?
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
9 May 12
I enjoy doing both.
Sometimes, I can't find a good topic to respond to, so I use that time to think of topics I want to talk about. If I start my day thinking of a new topic to write about, and can't make out any, I go searching for existing topics and respond to them. They go hand in hand, one gives me a jumpstart to do the other. I don't know if Im making sense to you, but that's my system here in myLot.
@rekhum (2420)
• India
9 May 12
Yeah, I found it hard to start my first thread. But i started to learn that you can start any thread that you can think of, considering the topic is not being repeated. And even though your topic may be co-related with others, if its not a copy pasted content or if you re frame the subject into a catchier one, your thread remains safe..good luck
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
10 May 12
So do you make your best attempt to make the discussion at it's best ?
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
10 May 12
I don't have that problem. Most of my discussions are about people who I work with,my friends, my family,my favorite sport teams and sometimes everyday subjects.They come to me out of the blue at times. Sometimes I look at my life and I have discussion! If I didn' come from a dysfunctional family,work with really dysfunctional people and friends like that I wouldn't have many ideas!
@befrindwithme26 (5805)
• Philippines
9 May 12
yes i am.Its' like what to share/to post but my mind don't think any to post,but only to response sometimes.
I feel to not in good mood also when i am in my lot and trying to do things here.
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
9 May 12
don't used to post quite exciting discussions here to have fun?