my boyfriend is angry with me .. someone help

Philippines
May 9, 2012 6:14am CST
hi good day every one .. seriously i need your advice right now .. my boyfriend is very very angry with me. and i really don't know what to do .. can soebody tell me what to do for him to forgive me .
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12 responses
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
9 May 12
Why is he angry at you?
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
9 May 12
Good question! You should share why he was angry so we can all give you a good advise.
• Philippines
9 May 12
oh sorry i forgot to put it .. he is angry with me because he read my chat message with my friend on facebook .
• Philippines
9 May 12
oh sorry i forgot to put it .. he is angry with me because he read my chat message with my friend on facebook .
• Philippines
10 May 12
cook something great and have a dinner with him, that what i like to happen when im angry with my gf.
• United States
15 May 12
It takes a lot to upset me so I am not mad that much but when I am mad I like to go for a walk to clear my head and then have a sit down with whoever i am with and discuss the problem. But that space alone is a vital part. I need to be alone to cool down or else I will not be able to think rationally. But the make it up part is always a good idea for a fun night afterwards. I am a romantic type of a person so dinner is only part of it all. Movie night is a good idea sometimes or even just a cuddle session is good to help a person calm down.
@youless (112621)
• Guangzhou, China
10 May 12
I don't know why your boyfriend is angry with you so much. Did you do something wrong? If it is your fault, then you should apologize to him. If it is not your fault and he just makes a fuss. Then let him calm down at first. He may realize it. I love China
• Philippines
9 May 12
Apologize to him sincerely. If he sees that you're sincere, he ill forgive you. Tell him why you did it, tell him that you'll never do it again, and tell him how you feel now that you have hurt him. Tell him everything you feel and that you really feel bad that you've done something he doesn't like. Just apologize sincerely. It always works.
• United States
15 May 12
That depends on what actually was said. If the guy is just being paranoid or possessive then it is on the guy to realize what he is doing to her. She needs a good boyfriend who is understanding and doesn't overreact. But if it actually is something bad then you would want to apologize to him but not at the cost of your own dignity. Make sure to show your concern while keeping in mind his emotional state. don't be pushy but project you concern in the matter to him.
• India
12 May 12
You lover is angry with you because you may did something wrong with him. The only thing you can do is tell him sorry for it and give him the promise that you will never repeat it again.
• United States
15 May 12
After a cool down period of approximately 20 minutes to an hour go to him and try to explain what was going on. If he is an understanding person he will at least listen to what you have to say in your defense. It may take some additional time to actually be forgiven but if you let him sit an stew about it for too long he will only jump to conclusions. Things would only get worse. Don't try to be too pushy about it and be sure to give him some time to absorb what you have to say. If things are meant to be and he is a true man he should at least attempt to move past this little thing and try to work it out. I wish you the best and I hope things work out in you favor.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
9 May 12
Hi Rashme, It is impossible to answer this without knowing more about the story. What happened and why is he so angry with you. Based on what little you have told us, all I can suggest is that you apologize to him and give him time to cool off a bit.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
9 May 12
It would have been better if you also explained what has happened, why your boyfriend is very very angry at you. Well, for whatever reason it may be, go ask for an apology and say it sincerely. But, you have to talk when he is not very very angry at you. Nothing will ever come up good if the other is still so hot for another fight to strike.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
9 May 12
Let him be angry, there is nothing you can do. Angry is angry and it needs time to get over that feeling. You will only make him more angry if you try to make it better or push or crawl on the floor. This besides of the fact nobody will have respect for someone who does and you can't help people will be angry with you sooner or later. That is what happens if you are you and he is he. You are not the same, you will never be and unless you like to be unhappy and humilated for the rest of your life, you have to do and say and show the real you. If he can't handle that, or is not able to respect you without seeing everything as an insult of him, it says way more about him as it says about you. So give him the time to feel angry, to think things over and decide how to deal with it. And you? Go on with your life and be someone. You can't satisfy anyone whole time. You will always make someone angry in your life, deal with that.
@chymez_me (186)
• Philippines
9 May 12
Maybe you two should just talk it out personally. Maybe he have all the rights to be angry with. You should just give him some time to cool his head. I'm guessing that maybe it's both your fault why this happened. Just continue to trust each other and have some constant communication, okay? Hope you two can work it out.. GodBless :)
• India
9 May 12
Hi rashme. Tell your boyfriend how much you love him. And also tell him that to whom I was chatting on facebook was just a good friend.
• United States
10 May 12
was it a guy friend you were talking to or a girl because, the advice i have could be very diffrent.